Yeah, but what if she doesn't like me?

I've never been upfront with a girl before about my feelings, and if I get turned down, it will be a new and most likely ****TY experience.

Does it sound like she does?

[QUOTE=Iscariot]I dated my recent ex thinking that I wouldn't have to treat her like a younger person (I'm 19, she was 17, now 18). Apparently the idea that women mature faster than men is not always true, because for an almost adult she acted a lot like my 14-year old sister. My advice is don't date younger women, UNLESS they're out of high school. The whole high school thing seems to just destroy any chance at a mature relationship you could ever have with them.[/QUOTE]
I date a younger girl and she's still in highschool and she's pretty mature. Meh, guess it's situational.

There is a good chance that she does. Either way, if you're up front about your feelings, she'll respect you for being straighforward and honest... plus if she doesn't think of you that way at the moment, it will give her something to ponder, which could lead to something.

edit: to SlashFortyForty

[QUOTE=SlashFortyForty]Ok, I just wanna know if this sounds like this chick likes me, one of my best friends.

Tells my friends I'm "great" "the sweetest guy in the world" "wonderful" and "awesome to be around". She also tells me these things herself, and I told her there's a specific girl I liked, lamely enough, it was her and I didn't tell her, now she is desperate to know who it is.

Do you think she likes me, or is just curious, and should I stick with unveiling the girl I talk about is really her, or lie perhaps and say I had a change of feelings or what? I dunno.

This chick pwnz *** though.[/QUOTE]

Sounds like you are both 15. If she shoots you down, you have oodles of time and many more women to get over it.

You go nothing to lose, kid.

Agreed, you don't really have anything to lose. If she says those things to your face directly, it'd be rather cruel of her to be like, 'OMG JK LOL.'

Just go with it - what do you have to lose? Maybe a bruised ego, but what are the odds that you will wind up with one? Just weigh the two sides.

Wow, We are both 15.

Go purplefeet, I did make myself seem a tad unserious and uncaring in that post.

I should really edit it, but I don't feel like it.

I've dug this girl for a long time though.

I think it may work now.

I tried that, told her I really liked a girl, didn't say who.

Told her it was her one day, she didn't talk to me for 3 and a half weeks.

Then that means...She didn't like you that way :-O

I know. :upset:

She's talking to me now though... :D

but she's moving in a month :upset:

It's okay, there's like 3 billion girls on the planet at any time.

That's like:

3,000,000,000.

Wow.

you just made my day man

I try my best :-D

Amit, what'd you get banned for this time?

"Spam" (Posting once or twice in a single thread by Aria).

how long?

Five days.

*shrug* No biggie.

ok guys u remember a while ago how i left town

well now things are goin good but theres one problem

this new chik im interested in what do i do

Hey Ben, could you type properly? Zero's all angry at us and I don't want you to get banned.

what do u mean

[QUOTE=aria000]ok guys u remember a while ago how i left town

well now things are goin good but theres one problem

this new chik im interested in what do i do[/QUOTE]


Did you actually leave town?

Remember when I told you to leave, I didnt think you'd do it.

I dunno. Just use proper capitalization and punctuation and stuff. I don't like seeing you banned :-(

yeuh i did the next day i was thinkin about it before u told me ne ways

thx for ur help back then life got a lot better

[QUOTE=Egggo]I dunno. Just use proper capitalization and punctuation and stuff. I don't like seeing you banned :-([/QUOTE]
i think i forgot that stuffs

Word.

So I have a bit of a dilemma on my hands. Lela still has my dogtags and still refuses to return them, and I don't trust her in the slightest not to use my social security number for some vindictive female antic. I've had my mom backing me up on this since I can't directly confront her without her high and mighty mormon parents slapping me down with a restraining order, so after countless messages relayed through my mom to their answering machine, I'm considering talking to the police.

I've gotten mixed responses about this; some saying it's a bad idea to go that far and others saying I'm entirely within my rights to do so. I personally have no problem taking things to that level if need be, because as far as I'm concerned, this is just as bad as having my social security card stolen (my dogtags contain my full name, SSN, even my blood type ffs).

I've decided to give it until the end of this week (it's already been almost two months) before I speak to the police about it, and if need be, I'll take her to court over it. Again, it sounds extreme, but this is my identity I'm talking about.

So what I'm asking is for some feedback. I just need that moral support to get my gut-check going and move in for the kill. I'm tired of this bitch manipulating me, even long after our relationship has ended.

Oh, I've also got some ammo to ruin her relationship with her parents and destroy her relationship with her new boyfriend as well. All I have to do is tell her parents to check the top drawer of dresser where she keeps condoms, cigarettes, etc.. and tell them to check over her shoulder when she's on MySpace to see some of the R-rated comments her boyfriend has left her. Being the steadfast mormons that they are, she would be ruined.

dont do the shi with the parents man but definitely bring in the fuzz she sounds like a bitch

heres how i feel about it but i dont know the full story

take that **** to the police man u have every right to i cant thikn of a reason y u shouldnt

and about destroying her relationship

**** yeuh i would do that
its perfect if i hate some bitch and am completely thru with her and i can easily **** her life up with little effort man i would do that **** in a heartbeat

nbutthats just me man keep it real dunno if this well help you much

[QUOTE=aria000]heres how i feel about it but i dont know the full story

take that **** to the police man u have every right to i cant thikn of a reason y u shouldnt

and about destroying her relationship

**** yeuh i would do that
its perfect if i hate some bitch and am completely thru with her and i can easily **** her life up with little effort man i would do that **** in a heartbeat

nbutthats just me man keep it real dunno if this well help you much[/QUOTE]

Right on, Ben. I feel the same way on this matter. I'm totally fine with ruining her life if it means I get my dogtags back and get some sweet, sweet revenge in the process.

serious man good luck

[QUOTE=aria000]serious man good luck[/QUOTE]

Hey ben, what's up? What happened with the moving out of town thing anyway, where'd you go? Oh and is this chick you're interested in the one from the coast you were talkin bout?

me and this girl tiffany were going out for about 8 months, and my dumb *** broke up with her. i admit i have a problem with smokin pot and thats why me and her couldnt be together. its been about 2-3 weeks since we've been together and im miserable. now im working on quitting the drugs so i can be back with her. today is day 1 for me going clean. she is the best girl ever to come into my life, she's stood by me for everything, and me allways messing everything up she was there to try to help me. now she wont take me back till im 100% clean, so thats what im doing.

[QUOTE=Jo Shoe Wah]Hey ben, what's up? What happened with the moving out of town thing anyway, where'd you go? Oh and is this chick you're interested in the one from the coast you were talkin bout?[/QUOTE]

yeuh man lifes got a lot better thax for ur help back then yeuh i moved to new city

yeuh im still in touch with that chick that come from ur place

[QUOTE=Iscariot]So I have a bit of a dilemma on my hands. Lela still has my dogtags and still refuses to return them, and I don't trust her in the slightest not to use my social security number for some vindictive female antic. I've had my mom backing me up on this since I can't directly confront her without her high and mighty mormon parents slapping me down with a restraining order, so after countless messages relayed through my mom to their answering machine, I'm considering talking to the police.

I've gotten mixed responses about this; some saying it's a bad idea to go that far and others saying I'm entirely within my rights to do so. I personally have no problem taking things to that level if need be, because as far as I'm concerned, this is just as bad as having my social security card stolen (my dogtags contain my full name, SSN, even my blood type ffs).

I've decided to give it until the end of this week (it's already been almost two months) before I speak to the police about it, and if need be, I'll take her to court over it. Again, it sounds extreme, but this is my identity I'm talking about.

So what I'm asking is for some feedback. I just need that moral support to get my gut-check going and move in for the kill. I'm tired of this bitch manipulating me, even long after our relationship has ended.

Oh, I've also got some ammo to ruin her relationship with her parents and destroy her relationship with her new boyfriend as well. All I have to do is tell her parents to check the top drawer of dresser where she keeps condoms, cigarettes, etc.. and tell them to check over her shoulder when she's on MySpace to see some of the R-rated comments her boyfriend has left her. Being the steadfast mormons that they are, she would be ruined.[/QUOTE]

To be quite honest, I can't believe you had to sit down and wonder if going to the police was such a good idea. I mean, it IS your identity, and God knows what this crazy bitch will do with it.

And to get revenge in the process would be excellent. But yeah, I'm curious as to why you even considered thinking about not going to the police.

Good luck on both accounts, though.

Hi Jom, I thought you left MX?

[QUOTE=Jom]To be quite honest, I can't believe you had to sit down and wonder if going to the police was such a good idea. I mean, it IS your identity, and God knows what this crazy bitch will do with it.

And to get revenge in the process would be excellent. But yeah, I'm curious as to why you even considered thinking about not going to the police.

Good luck on both accounts, though.[/QUOTE]

The only reason I've waited this long is because I thought I would give her a chance to be civil and reasonable and not throw her life away over something like this. Apparently I've been giving her far too much credit.

If my dogtags don't show up/if I don't hear from her or her parents by the end of this week, I'm going to the police station and filing a report.

I wonder if they'll do anything, Jared.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I wonder if they'll do anything, Jared.[/QUOTE]

It'll probably go something like this:

I file a report
The police conduct an investigation
Lela's life becomes a living hell
a. She returns my dogtags to end the fuss and move on with her life
b. She still doesn't return them and I file a lawsuit

You would think that that scenario would be the correct one, except:

A couple of weeks ago my guitar player (or one of his cronies) forced the door on my rental (it's now rented to someone else) and when I called the police they told me it was a civil matter.

How the [size=2]f[/size]uck can breaking and entering be considered a civil matter?

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]You would think that that scenario would be the correct one, except:

A couple of weeks ago my guitar player (or one of his cronies) forced the door on my rental (it's now rented to someone else) and when I called the police they told me it was a civil matter.

How the [size=2]f[/size]uck can breaking and entering be considered a civil matter?[/QUOTE]

Your police are teh sux.

The police here in Milwaukie are practically the nazi gestapo. Over the past month there were over a dozen tickets issued for things like not wearing a seatbelt. If I took this to them, they'd have a hay day.

Honestly Jared, I think you should go to the police. Its already been way too long. You cant take the risk that she [I]might[/I] not use your Social Security Number. It is way too important to let this slip.

I remember what you were talking about previously with her parents, I dont see there being any point in trying to get it from her yourself, without some legal assistance.