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Pazz 04-13-2006 10:53 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Cool, do that.[/QUOTE]

Will do. She does have a boyfriend though, which kinda sucks. He lives 45 minutes away, so I'm not sure how well that relationship is working.

Chaindrive 04-13-2006 10:56 PM

Might not be working out that well.

I see my son has arrived in this thread.

Hi, baby.

Special Brew 04-13-2006 10:57 PM

What the hell? Somehow I posted under my Damien Rhodes account, then on my Wizard account, and I've not logged out a single time or anything. :confused:

Pazz 04-13-2006 10:59 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Might not be working out that well.[/QUOTE]

I hope not, and I can kinda be there for her incase it doesn't.

Tiger 04-13-2006 11:00 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Might not be working out that well.

I see my son has arrived in this thread.

Hi, baby.[/QUOTE]


Hey, I posted pictures.

[url]http://www.iechine.com/4-11-2006-02.jpg[/url]

[url]http://www.iechine.com/4-11-2006-01.jpg[/url]


Im only in here to relieve some stress/anger.

Chaindrive 04-13-2006 11:04 PM

I noticed the Damien Rhodes account...I thought you were using that on purpose?

[QUOTE=Tiger]Hey, I posted pictures.

[url]http://www.iechine.com/4-11-2006-02.jpg[/url]

[url]http://www.iechine.com/4-11-2006-01.jpg[/url]


Im only in here to relieve some stress/anger.[/QUOTE]

Oh, baby, those look great.

I cannot tell you how much I miss you.

Special Brew 04-13-2006 11:33 PM

I have another issue. Ignore that crap from the last page, I just worry too much about small things. Anyways...

Brit has a new boyfriend, which didn't really surprise me, but it did piss me off at first. Somehow, she hates me now, and we've agreed not to ever contact each other. She says she's over me, and already "in love" with this new guy, but I don't actually care. I erased all her phone numbers, messenger handles, and anything else that would let me contact her. We've completely avoided each other since Sunday.

She messaged me just now, saying that her father kicked her out and she's leaving with her mother, and that if I wanted to contact her for any reason, to call her there. Now, she's supposedly happy with the new guy, she acts like she hates me, she agrees to completely cut off contact with me, but she messages me to let me know that she is living somewhere else, in case I want to call her?

What does this mean?

Chaindrive 04-13-2006 11:38 PM

It means she expects you to be there. Don't be.

Special Brew 04-13-2006 11:46 PM

I don't plan to be. I responded with something along the lines of, "I'm not calling you, it's over, don't bother me". Simple and direct. =]

[Hooray for my account merge!]

Tiger 04-13-2006 11:46 PM

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes] Now, she's supposedly happy with the new guy, she acts like she hates me, she agrees to completely cut off contact with me, but she messages me to let me know that she is living somewhere else, in case I want to call her?

What does this mean?[/QUOTE]


I'd assume it means she wants you to be able to contact her. Just a guess.

Special Brew 04-13-2006 11:49 PM

[QUOTE=Tiger]I'd assume it means she wants you to be able to contact her. Just a guess.[/QUOTE]
No s[SIZE="2"]hit[/SIZE], Sherlock. That's not what I was asking. Kimmie seemed to get it...

Steerpike 04-13-2006 11:54 PM

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]What does this mean?[/QUOTE]

In plain, crude man-talk: Bitch wants to make you jealous.

Just a desperate attempt on her part to try and make you come back to her. You did the right thing. If she tries to contact you again, don't even bother trying to get the last word. Just ignore her completely.

Tiger 04-14-2006 12:27 AM

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]No s[SIZE="2"]hit[/SIZE], Sherlock. That's not what I was asking. Kimmie seemed to get it...[/QUOTE]


You mean Kim molded it into something more than it actually is.

Her wanting you to be able to contact her means just that. It doesnt mean she wants you to be there for her, or to make you jealous in some petty way, it means she'd like to not completely blink out of existance for you when she moves.

Dig, Wizzy?

Readaz 04-14-2006 05:37 AM

[QUOTE]You mean Kim molded it into something more than it actually is.

Her wanting you to be able to contact her means just that. It doesnt mean she wants you to be there for her, or to make you jealous in some petty way, it means she'd like to not completely blink out of existance for you when she moves.

Dig, Wizzy?[/QUOTE]

Even though she told him she hates him and never wants to make any contact with him what so ever, oh but heres my new house number.

i think chaindrive hit the nail on the head

Special Brew 04-14-2006 08:47 AM

Eh, no matter what she's thinking, I'm not going to bother with her anymore.

fuzzyhair 04-14-2006 09:21 AM

Does anyone want to give me tips on how to have a good flowing conversation with a girl, im a guy. I have no problem talking to her. I just dont know what to talk about.

Special Brew 04-14-2006 09:42 AM

[QUOTE=fuzzyhair]Does anyone want to give me tips on how to have a good flowing conversation with a girl, im a guy. I have no problem talking to her. I just dont know what to talk about.[/QUOTE]
I asked this same stuff lately. Just make small talk about dumb things. Doesn't matter what it is, just say things to get her to respond to you. Joke with her and make her laugh.

Tillius 04-14-2006 09:47 AM

I'm a pus[size=2]sy[/size].
I cried.
While watching the O.C.
Was actually pretty accurate to what's going on with me right now.
Haven't cried in two years.
I'm a failure.
:upset:

fuzzyhair 04-14-2006 09:48 AM

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]I asked this same stuff lately. Just make small talk about dumb things. Doesn't matter what it is, just say things to get her to respond to you. Joke with her and make her laugh.[/QUOTE]
grr i hate the phone lol.
instant messenger ftw.

Steerpike 04-14-2006 10:08 AM

[QUOTE=fuzzyhair]Does anyone want to give me tips on how to have a good flowing conversation with a girl, im a guy. I have no problem talking to her. I just dont know what to talk about.[/QUOTE]

In general, women I know seem to respond to topics that have a lot of inherent intrigue or drama to them. Ever wonder why romance novels and soap operas are still around?

FockerTheLopper 04-14-2006 10:23 AM

Okay a younger girl likes me shes in 8th grade, I'm a junior in high school three years older. I don't want to make a move on her but she really likes me(she looks pretty good too). What to do? Also I had some talks with people and my views really changes on relationships and cheating and whatnot.

Chaindrive 04-14-2006 10:27 AM

[QUOTE=FockerTheLopper]Okay a younger girl likes me shes in 8th grade, I'm a junior in high school three years older. I don't want to make a move on her but she really likes me(she looks pretty good too). What to do? Also I had some talks with people and my views really changes on relationships and cheating and whatnot.[/QUOTE]

She's 13?

FockerTheLopper 04-14-2006 10:28 AM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]She's 13?[/QUOTE]
Not sure, I think she is 13, yeah she is, 13 turning 14

Tillius 04-14-2006 10:29 AM

I'm a pus[size=2]sy[/size].
I cried.
While watching the O.C.
Was actually pretty accurate to what's going on with me right now.
Haven't cried in two years.
I'm a failure.
:upset:

Why am I posting this again?
Because I want everybody to know it.

Special Brew 04-14-2006 10:29 AM

Don't bother with a girl that young...

Chaindrive 04-14-2006 10:30 AM

[QUOTE=FockerTheLopper]Not sure, I think she is 13[/QUOTE]

I don't think a 16 year old ought to be making a move on a 13 year old.

The Fonz 04-14-2006 10:30 AM

Don't do it. i mean, what are you now.. 17? thats just, while legal. Wrong.

In my opinion, of course. I dunno, maybe the circumstances are, different.

FockerTheLopper 04-14-2006 10:30 AM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I don't think a 16 year old ought to be making a move on a 13 year old.[/QUOTE]
Your right. I just had to hear it from someone else.

Bee Sharp 04-14-2006 12:39 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I don't think a 16 year old ought to be making a move on a 13 year old.[/QUOTE]
She's right. In any situation it is a bad idea.

Steerpike 04-14-2006 12:51 PM

Similarly, a friend of mine just turned 18 last year, and I feel pretty bad for him. He has this very boyish, angelic face that makes him look younger than he really is. On multiple occassions, 13 and 14-year-old girls keep hitting on him. Every time it happens, he gets really freaked out and pulls out his ID so they can stop before their parents or any cops show up.

Just thought I'd add a little levity to the day.


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