[QUOTE]I really doubt your mother will do that. If she has any brains at all, she'll just let you be, but she'll probably want to meet the girl and everything. She might actually be more leanient on you. My mother was actually proud of me when I got my first girlfriend, and I thought she'd freak out badly, just like you think of your mom.[/QUOTE]

Your proberbly right, she proberbly already guessed that i have a girlfriend, they pick up on things like that lol..

That's why they're called your parents, bro.

The thing is she never asks me about anything in my life, she doesnt ask if i have a girlfriend (my dad and brother do),if she takes me to a party she doesnt ask me if it was good when i get back. She doesnt ask me how im doing at school.

I think shed rather i had no friends and stayed inside all day

It's probably all in your imagination dude, just live your life, and don't worry about what she is going to say or think. No matter what happens or what you do, she's going to love you, she's your mother. She just wants you to be happy. =]

[QUOTE]It's probably all in your imagination dude, just live your life, and don't worry about what she is going to say or think. No matter what happens or what you do, she's going to love you, she's your mother. She just wants you to be happy. =][/QUOTE]

Your right man i should stop thinking the worst all the time..

... does anyone else find school holidays realy depressing...

[QUOTE=Readaz]Your right man i should stop thinking the worst all the time..

... does anyone else find school holidays realy depressing...[/QUOTE]

My spring break(theres a relationship problem in here, so jom, no :smash:)

friday-saturday= nothing, sat on the computer all day.

sunday- had my friend jason, who i havent seem in forever over, it was fun, we talked and stuff

Monday- Played paintball(i almost never play) with a bucnh of friends, by my friend mike's house. He live in a townhouse, but there are alot of woods nearby. We ended up with the cops called on us, but we werent doing anything wrong, and the cops were just mad that somebody called, and told us to keep playing, even when we offered to stop( i think it was out of spite for the person that called).

Tuesday- Organized "party".

Wednesday- evidence shows that i suck at organizing parties. Of the 9 ivnvited, 6 showed(it was still fun), three boys, three girls, the girls left before the night was over. The girls came late, so me and the guys played frisbee and stuff it was fun. The girls came and we went to the park, and walked to the convience store and laid in the grass and stuff till 9 30, people start to break off into "couples" of coversation.. guess whos left out...:upset:.
This girl who i really like was there, and i eventually got more and more hopeless, and left everone for a walk citing " its too nice to lay around, ima go for a walk, ill brb(i diddnt actually say "brb")" My friend joins me and says" so you like therese, huh" so i admitted, and he said i had a chance, BAM, i couldnt keep a smile off my face, even though i was sure he was just being nice. So he offers to talk to her, and as much as i thought only bad would come, i let him. and now everythings screwed up, i can just tell its just different, i dunno what he said excatly, as it was latein the night, as we were walking home, but she like.. agggg. I don't know what to do, either a) just talk to her about it,and say everything i baiscally told you guys or b) ignore it, and wait for things to get back to normal, and see what happens.

:upset: typing this has brought me down again. lol

[QUOTE]My spring break(theres a relationship problem in here, so jom, no )

friday-saturday= nothing, sat on the computer all day.

sunday- had my friend jason, who i havent seem in forever over, it was fun, we talked and stuff

Monday- Played paintball(i almost never play) with a bucnh of friends, by my friend mike's house. He live in a townhouse, but there are alot of woods nearby. We ended up with the cops called on us, but we werent doing anything wrong, and the cops were just mad that somebody called, and told us to keep playing, even when we offered to stop( i think it was out of spite for the person that called).

Tuesday- Organized "party".

Wednesday- evidence shows that i suck at organizing parties. Of the 9 ivnvited, 6 showed(it was still fun), three boys, three girls, the girls left before the night was over. The girls came late, so me and the guys played frisbee and stuff it was fun. The girls came and we went to the park, and walked to the convience store and laid in the grass and stuff till 9 30, people start to break off into "couples" of coversation.. guess whos left out....
This girl who i really like was there, and i eventually got more and more hopeless, and left everone for a walk citing " its too nice to lay around, ima go for a walk, ill brb(i diddnt actually say "brb")" My friend joins me and says" so you like therese, huh" so i admitted, and he said i had a chance, BAM, i couldnt keep a smile off my face, even though i was sure he was just being nice. So he offers to talk to her, and as much as i thought only bad would come, i let him. and now everythings screwed up, i can just tell its just different, i dunno what he said excatly, as it was latein the night, as we were walking home, but she like.. agggg. I don't know what to do, either a) just talk to her about it,and say everything i baiscally told you guys or b) ignore it, and wait for things to get back to normal, and see what happens.

typing this has brought me down again. lol[/QUOTE]

And i bet because you have nothing to do you think about her all day, making you more depressed .. lol...

Usually i have school to keep my mind occupied and stuff..

Not gonna lie, that party sounds like it sucked, how old are you guys anyway?

[QUOTE=The Fonz]My spring break(theres a relationship problem in here, so jom, no :smash:)

friday-saturday= nothing, sat on the computer all day.

sunday- had my friend jason, who i havent seem in forever over, it was fun, we talked and stuff

Monday- Played paintball(i almost never play) with a bucnh of friends, by my friend mike's house. He live in a townhouse, but there are alot of woods nearby. We ended up with the cops called on us, but we werent doing anything wrong, and the cops were just mad that somebody called, and told us to keep playing, even when we offered to stop( i think it was out of spite for the person that called).

Tuesday- Organized "party".

Wednesday- evidence shows that i suck at organizing parties. Of the 9 ivnvited, 6 showed(it was still fun), three boys, three girls, the girls left before the night was over. The girls came late, so me and the guys played frisbee and stuff it was fun. The girls came and we went to the park, and walked to the convience store and laid in the grass and stuff till 9 30, people start to break off into "couples" of coversation.. guess whos left out...:upset:.
This girl who i really like was there, and i eventually got more and more hopeless, and left everone for a walk citing " its too nice to lay around, ima go for a walk, ill brb(i diddnt actually say "brb")" My friend joins me and says" so you like therese, huh" so i admitted, and he said i had a chance, BAM, i couldnt keep a smile off my face, even though i was sure he was just being nice. So he offers to talk to her, and as much as i thought only bad would come, i let him. and now everythings screwed up, i can just tell its just different, i dunno what he said excatly, as it was latein the night, as we were walking home, but she like.. agggg. I don't know what to do, either a) just talk to her about it,and say everything i baiscally told you guys or b) ignore it, and wait for things to get back to normal, and see what happens.

:upset: typing this has brought me down again. lol[/QUOTE]

Talk to her and say everything you said here.

aight, thats what i was planning one. This may be wierd, but eh, whatever. I just don't want to loose her as a friend most importantly, shes the first friend i made in High School.

I'm having a real hard time getting over Julia. I haven't had a conversation with her for a while, but I can't stop thinking about her. I've gone out and met some girls I'm interested in, but I can't get her off my mind. Last time I did talk to her she said that she used to like me, but didn't want a relationship beause she'll be going to college in the fall. So somehow I guess she can cut off her feelings for someone...and she ended up leading me on (which she apologized for). Tonight I plan on hanging out with one of the girls I met at a party and getting hammered.:chug:

So I found out from a girl in my History class that one of her friends like me. I knew she did, and I don't feel the same. She just came on MSN and started talking to me about it.

Her: I hear you and sarah had an interesting conversation
Me: yeah..
Her: well im sorry you found out that way thats not the way i wanted it to happen
Me: its alright
Her: ...
Her: so hows life?
Me: not bad

That was our conversation...:p

To Rasta Rocker: It just takes time, that's all, but it'll end up okay.

[QUOTE=Pazz]So I found out from a girl in my History class that one of her friends like me. I knew she did, and I don't feel the same. She just came on MSN and started talking to me about it.

Her: I hear you and sarah had an interesting conversation
Me: yeah..
Her: well im sorry you found out that way thats not the way i wanted it to happen
Me: its alright
Her: ...
Her: so hows life?
Me: not bad

That was our conversation...:p[/QUOTE] haha ive had that exact thing happen to me. I just laugh about it.

[QUOTE=Pazz]So I found out from a girl in my History class that one of her friends like me. I knew she did, and I don't feel the same. She just came on MSN and started talking to me about it.

Her: I hear you and sarah had an interesting conversation
Me: yeah..
Her: well im sorry you found out that way thats not the way i wanted it to happen
Me: its alright
Her: ...
Her: so hows life?
Me: not bad

That was our conversation...:p[/QUOTE]



hahaha, i laughed, but i kinda had a similar sort of situation, like.today. BUt i have hope shes just all bungled and stuff now.

[QUOTE=Pazz]So I found out from a girl in my History class that one of her friends like me. I knew she did, and I don't feel the same. She just came on MSN and started talking to me about it.

Her: I hear you and sarah had an interesting conversation
Me: yeah..
Her: well im sorry you found out that way thats not the way i wanted it to happen
Me: its alright
Her: ...
Her: so hows life?
Me: not bad

That was our conversation...:p[/QUOTE]
So I'm guessing this wasn't either of the two girls?

[QUOTE=Readaz]Your right man i should stop thinking the worst all the time..

... does anyone else find school holidays realy depressing...[/QUOTE]

My two week vacation has sucked. I havent seen my gf at all and its breaking us apart, her family still doesnt want me around, and I havent been outta the house at all. Aside from track last week, it has sucked. Camping trip this weekend. :)

But anywho... Hello and goodbye for the weekend. :wave: :wave:

So, if there's a girl I've barely talked to on Myspace and MSN, how can I subtly let her know that I'd be interested in getting to know her a bit better, if you know what I mean. =]

It's tricky, because I try chatting with her on MSN, but I keep coming to a roadblock where I can't think of what to say to keep the conversation going.

'Cause she seems like an awesome gal, someone I'd get along real well with, but I don't want to be blunt, or seem like I'm trying to hard or anything.

Why don't you tell her just that? That she seems like an awesome gal, etc.?

^ Just relax and let conversation flow. Like you have known her forever and then just tell her how she is great. Talk to her about deeper, more personal things than just sports and she will get the hint. ^

[QUOTE=Tillius]So I'm guessing this wasn't either of the two girls?[/QUOTE]

Nope. I hung out with one of the two girls tonight though.:)

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Why don't you tell her just that? That she seems like an awesome gal, etc.?[/QUOTE]
Well, I barely know her. We have short conversations every now and then. I don't want to come off as creepy or nothing since I don't know her, and have only been talking to her for a few days. This is the same girl that asked me if I wanted to hang out with her and her friends or whatever.

I just don't want to make the wrong move or nothin'. I'm sort of hoping she feels somewhat the same towards me, since she asked if I wanted to hang out and, this will sound dumb, but she added me to that "top 8" thing on her Myspace, meaning she thinks enough of me to place me up there with all her friends she's known forever.

I worry about some of the stupidest things, lol. I want to say something a little more subtle to make her think I'm interested in her. I treally screwed up things in my last relationship, so I'm trying to take things really slow and make the right choices and stuff this time.

Also, if I see her at the local show this Saturday, is there any specific things I could say to break the ice with her? Othe rthan "cool shirt", "like this band?", etc.

[QUOTE=Pazz]Nope. I hung out with one of the two girls tonight though.:)[/QUOTE]

I take it that it went well?

Well my bestfriend is trying to hook the two of us up, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend lives 45 minutes away and I don't think she sees much of him.

Here's the story. Me, my bestfriend, his girlfriend, the girl I like, and 4 other girls all were going to the movies to night. We all went to a local coffee shop to wait for my bestfriends girlfriend to get off of work. Four of us left early for the movies to go and buy tickets, which was me and 3 of the other girls. My bestfriend then talked to the girl I like and started dropping hints about me and saying me and her should hang out. He did this all on his own will and didn't tell me until tonight. She said she would love to go get coffee and she would definately go if I asked her. We than went to the movies and my bestfriend sat beside me then he got up and told the girl and him to switch spots. So through the movie we talked a tiny bit and than flirted a bit after the movie.:) Pretty good night for me.

Sounds like a possibility. How about you suggest you and she hit a movie alone?

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Sounds like a possibility. How about you suggest you and she hit a movie alone?[/QUOTE]

I'm going to start with coffee and then see how that goes. If all goes well, movie it is. If not so good, try coffee another time. She's really easy to talk to, so I should be fine. My friend told me to wait a week until I ask her for coffee.

No, I think you should ask her for coffee now, and make it in a week.

That works. I think she may be going away for the Easter Break, and I don't usually talk to her online and have no idea what her phone number is. I can ask her on Tuesday for later next week.

Cool, do that.

[QUOTE=Pazz]Well my bestfriend is trying to hook the two of us up, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend lives 45 minutes away and I don't think she sees much of him.

Here's the story. Me, my bestfriend, his girlfriend, the girl I like, and 4 other girls all were going to the movies to night. We all went to a local coffee shop to wait for my bestfriends girlfriend to get off of work. Four of us left early for the movies to go and buy tickets, which was me and 3 of the other girls. My bestfriend then talked to the girl I like and started dropping hints about me and saying me and her should hang out. He did this all on his own will and didn't tell me until tonight. She said she would love to go get coffee and she would definately go if I asked her. We than went to the movies and my bestfriend sat beside me then he got up and told the girl and him to switch spots. So through the movie we talked a tiny bit and than flirted a bit after the movie.:) Pretty good night for me.[/QUOTE]


Awww, thats delightfully high school.