it would make my heart melt

Evening L&R...

I'm not too great. My Now Ex-Girlfriend broke up with me because she didn't feel anything for me after saying she loved me. She tried, but couldn't bring herself to do it. That was two days ago, and it still hurts to talk about it. I hope you guys are having better luck, cause having love and trust ripped from you isn't a nice way to go about the easter holidays...

Eh sometimes i want to give up.

[QUOTE=EizingerIsGod]So you fought a girl huh?

Who won?[/QUOTE]

my sister broke pulled me back before it got more than a couple hits.

course my sister, being a good sister, said that i shouldn't have to fight a girl and said she would do it for me.

[QUOTE=JohnnyT]Eh sometimes i want to give up.[/QUOTE]

I'm sick of trying to find someone who i feel doesn't even exist...

there's someone out there for everyone, granted one or two of you might end up with fat people, but they're still human for god's sake

[QUOTE=ThePinkPanther]my sister broke pulled me back before it got more than a couple hits.

course my sister, being a good sister, said that i shouldn't have to fight a girl and said she would do it for me.[/QUOTE]

That's good.

Be a good brother and don't put your sister in a harmful situation. Be the "bigger man" if you will and settle things minus the fighting.

Whoa, TE overload.

Hello, Jadey/Jamie/John if he comes in here/everyone.

[quote=PinkPanther]In other news: i got in a fist fight...with a girl today. Now it's usually against my policy to hit girls, but the bitch was askin for it. So this girl jennifer was doing something stupid, like usual. And i've known her for like 9 years, so i make fun of her for it. then she was like "evan, you're such an as[font=arial]s[/font]hole, no wonder jessica (my ex) dumped you."

yeah that ticked me off.

*end vent*[/quote]

So... did you win?

[QUOTE=EizingerIsGod]That's good.

Be a good brother and don't put your sister in a harmful situation. Be the "bigger man" if you will and settle things minus the fighting.[/QUOTE]

a couple things:

1. my sister can kick *** if she's fighting
2. i tried to pull her back but she pushed me off
3. the person was scared cause when my sister is pissed, she's pissed

Guys, if at any point you're thinking of giving up, realise that you're like...14/15/16/17 etc. There is plenty of time to find the one you're gonna spend the rest of your life with.


Go to a bar, drink a bit, and chat to some women. Have some fun.

[QUOTE=Linkinbassist]I'm sick of trying to find someone who i feel doesn't even exist...[/QUOTE]


Thats why not even having a gf makes life so much better.

[QUOTE=JohnnyT]Thats why not even having a gf makes life so much better.[/QUOTE]

I crave the strings that go with a relationship...I want love, i'm sick of validating myself through myself. I've had to do it all my life. I just want something that all of my mates have; a Long-term, love-filled relationship. Its something i've been hunting for and waiting for and its just not happening...i'm sick of it, i really am.

[QUOTE=Linkinbassist]I crave the strings that go with a relationship...I want love, i'm sick of validating myself through myself. I've had to do it all my life. I just want something that all of my mates have; a Long-term, love-filled relationship. Its something i've been hunting for and waiting for and its just not happening...i'm sick of it, i really am.[/QUOTE]


I know how you feel. I really do. Suffering is unstopable., but how you deal with it makes a different. Try to be more positive. I know its hard, but it will be worth it in the end and you will find somebody.

who is Jom? but hi anyway :)

Jom is one of my favorite mods. He and Strum.

well that resolves everything

[QUOTE=JohnnyT]I know how you feel. I really do. Suffering is unstopable., but how you deal with it makes a different. Try to be more positive. I know its hard, but it will be worth it in the end and you will find somebody.[/QUOTE]

I've had to stay positive all my life...Keep a straight face when **** goes down the pan with my friends and having to keep my family from crumbling whilst my dad goes out of the country with the army for months on end. since August last year, things have been going slowly downhill. My best friend of 5 years has moved up north, and whilst trying to come back down has ran into so many walls with people just not co-operating with her plight. I've stood back and watched my freinds tear each other apart from the inside. i thought things were on the up with this girl, i thought she was gonna be in it for the long run, and then boom, She turns around and holds up the 'no feelings at all' card. I'm failing subjects in college, and if things continue slipping like this i'm seriously going to have a nervous break down. My friends tell me i'm a great guy, that I (along with a couple of my single friends) deserve someone special. We stand around, we fill the search criteria and its just not happening for us. I'm just not all there with anything right now, this is one event from the straw that'll break this camels back...

[QUOTE=Linkinbassist]I've had to stay positive all my life...Keep a straight face when **** goes down the pan with my friends and having to keep my family from crumbling whilst my dad goes out of the country with the army for months on end. since August last year, things have been going slowly downhill. My best friend of 5 years has moved up north, and whilst trying to come back down has ran into so many walls with people just not co-operating with her plight. I've stood back and watched my freinds tear each other apart from the inside. i thought things were on the up with this girl, i thought she was gonna be in it for the long run, and then boom, She turns around and holds up the 'no feelings at all' card. I'm failing subjects in college, and if things continue slipping like this i'm seriously going to have a nervous break down. My friends tell me i'm a great guy, that I (along with a couple of my single friends) deserve someone special. We stand around, we fill the search criteria and its just not happening for us. I'm just not all there with anything right now, this is one event from the straw that'll break this camels back...[/QUOTE]


Well i know all is going hard, but the best thing to do right now is by making a list starting with the most important things. if you get the important things done first and keep doing them you will have time for other stuff. Like for school, try to get good grades while keeping good relationships with friends. This will lead to you being happier and finding a new girl. Keep strong dude. I know its hard but nobody said life is easy. Just stick it out. Dont turn to drugs or alcholol. That will make things worst. Keep a level head and just keep going on. Its gonna be hard but everybody has times when everything is going downhill.

[QUOTE=JohnnyT]Well i know all is going hard, but the best thing to do right now is by making a list starting with the most important things. if you get the important things done first and keep doing them you will have time for other stuff. Like for school, try to get good grades while keeping good relationships with friends. This will lead to you being happier and finding a new girl. Keep strong dude. I know its hard but nobody said life is easy. Just stick it out. Dont turn to drugs or alcholol. That will make things worst. Keep a level head and just keep going on. Its gonna be hard but everybody has times when everything is going downhill.[/QUOTE]

I'd never turn to drugs. I drink, but not to excess...I'm to the point where i just won't be able to climb the next hill. These last few days i've really questioned everything and everyone...its so f[SIZE="2"]uc[/SIZE]king hard to watch everyone get that 'love fix' that i crave so badly, now more than ever. I'm trying to stick it out for now, but one more incident and i will just explode, and i'll be letting my friends see a side of me that i've been pushing down for the last 8 months. I'm so f[SIZE="2"]uc[/SIZE]ked up right now, i hate it...

[QUOTE=Linkinbassist]I'd never turn to drugs. I drink, but not to excess...I'm to the point where i just won't be able to climb the next hill. These last few days i've really questioned everything and everyone...its so f[SIZE="2"]uc[/SIZE]king hard to watch everyone get that 'love fix' that i crave so badly, now more than ever. I'm trying to stick it out for now, but one more incident and i will just explode, and i'll be letting my friends see a side of me that i've been pushing down for the last 8 months. I'm so f[SIZE="2"]uc[/SIZE]ked up right now, i hate it...[/QUOTE]


I cant blame you. Last year i was at my lowest. I was always depressed and mad. It was terrible, but it took time for me to get better. My friends helped a lot. They help me find myself again. But you WILL find somebody. I think you should take a break from girls for a month or so and get everything up and running. Ah i know that feel of "love fix" it sucks. The only thing that helped me through it was music and friends. I have given up on my family mostly. Keep standing dude.

[QUOTE=JohnnyT]I cant blame you. Last year i was at my lowest. I was always depressed and mad. It was terrible, but it took time for me to get better. My friends helped a lot. They help me find myself again. But you WILL find somebody. I think you should take a break from girls for a month or so and get everything up and running. Ah i know that feel of "love fix" it sucks. The only thing that helped me through it was music and friends. I have given up on my family mostly. Keep standing dude.[/QUOTE]

My friends are being supportive, and i've been hiding in music so much. Songs i didn't understand now have a meaning thats so personal now...I'm taking breaks from girls for a long time, i feel. I can't trust a girl like that, not right now anyway. This has really hit me side-on so hard and it was so out the blue that its torn my views of everything that means something in my life...I'm questioning everything, and my head doesn't want me to stop questioning it all. I'm trying so hard to forget it, and with my friends its mostly gone. When i'm alone though, I have time to think...Time is a dangerous thing.

[QUOTE=Linkinbassist]My friends are being supportive, and i've been hiding in music so much. Songs i didn't understand now have a meaning thats so personal now...I'm taking breaks from girls for a long time, i feel. I can't trust a girl like that, not right now anyway. This has really hit me side-on so hard and it was so out the blue that its torn my views of everything that means something in my life...I'm questioning everything, and my head doesn't want me to stop questioning it all. I'm trying so hard to forget it, and with my friends its mostly gone. When i'm alone though, I have time to think...Time is a dangerous thing.[/QUOTE]


I really hate thinking. When im alone and even just doing something my mind wanders and it bugs the hell out of me. I have felt ur pain before. Thats why i really dont like having gf's. There just somthing i have to worry about.

[QUOTE=JohnnyT]I really hate thinking. When im alone and even just doing something my mind wanders and it bugs the hell out of me. I have felt ur pain before. Thats why i really dont like having gf's. There just somthing i have to worry about.[/QUOTE]

true, its another thing to worry for, but i've seen how the people around me buzz on having a partner who is devoted to them and whom they are devoted to. I envy them...so much.

[QUOTE=JohnnyT]I really hate thinking. When im alone and even just doing something [B]my mind wanders[/B] and it bugs the hell out of me. I have felt ur pain before. Thats why i really dont like having gf's. There just somthing i have to worry about.[/QUOTE]

I am in that boat right now. I am paraniod. It sucks. But I know that there is nothing to be concerned about. Oh well.

How goes it tonight L&R?

[QUOTE=Linkinbassist]true, its another thing to worry for, but i've seen how the people around me buzz on having a partner who is devoted to them and whom they are devoted to. I envy them...so much.[/QUOTE]



Ah you will find somebody. Some people sooner than later. Keep your head up. Everything will be find in the end. I also find having a gf another proirority. Its nice to have one but idk, sometimes it just sucks.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]I am in that boat right now. I am paraniod. It sucks. But I know that there is nothing to be concerned about. Oh well.

How goes it tonight L&R?[/QUOTE]


That happens to me everday. It bugs me soooooooo much.

[QUOTE=JohnnyT]Ah you will find somebody. Some people sooner than later. Keep your head up. Everything will be find in the end. I also find having a gf another proirority. Its nice to have one but idk, sometimes it just sucks.[/QUOTE]

I kinda have to, otherwise i'll fall into a bout of depression again...Again, something i hate.

[QUOTE=JohnnyT]Dont fall there. Its hard to get out. Ive been there. Stay strong and drink lots of tea.

Relax. I know its hard to do, but try.[/QUOTE]

I keep myself busy with social stimulation...If i relax, i think. If i think, i get depressed.

[QUOTE=Linkinbassist]I keep myself busy with social stimulation...If i relax, i think. If i think, i get depressed.[/QUOTE]


Good point. Dont think. Our mind can be a very amazing dangerous thing.

[QUOTE=JohnnyT]Good point. Dont think. Our mind can be a very amazing dangerous thing.[/QUOTE]

true, as i've found out over the last couple of days...

[QUOTE=Linkinbassist]I'm sick of trying to find someone who i feel doesn't even exist...[/QUOTE]

Have you considered that maybe it's time to revise the game plan?

[QUOTE=Linkinbassist]I crave the strings that go with a relationship...I want love, i'm sick of validating myself through myself. I've had to do it all my life. I just want something that all of my mates have; a Long-term, love-filled relationship. Its something i've been hunting for and waiting for and its just not happening...i'm sick of it, i really am.[/QUOTE]

Yeah, it's definately time to revise your game plan.

Think of it this way: what you're doing now doesn't work. Why keep doing it? Start trying to figure out what does work.

[QUOTE=Linkinbassist]I've had to stay positive all my life...Keep a straight face when **** goes down the pan with my friends and having to keep my family from crumbling whilst my dad goes out of the country with the army for months on end. since August last year, things have been going slowly downhill. My best friend of 5 years has moved up north, and whilst trying to come back down has ran into so many walls with people just not co-operating with her plight. I've stood back and watched my freinds tear each other apart from the inside. i thought things were on the up with this girl, i thought she was gonna be in it for the long run, and then boom, She turns around and holds up the 'no feelings at all' card. I'm failing subjects in college, and if things continue slipping like this i'm seriously going to have a nervous break down. My friends tell me i'm a great guy, that I (along with a couple of my single friends) deserve someone special. We stand around, we fill the search criteria and its just not happening for us. I'm just not all there with anything right now, this is one event from the straw that'll break this camels back...[/QUOTE]

If I can make a suggestion, put down your email address, and I'll be able to give you a much more indepth level of advice. Believe me, I've been in a lot of rough situations myself, and I've learned from friends and experience.

[QUOTE=Linkinbassist]true, its another thing to worry for, but i've seen how the people around me buzz on having a partner who is devoted to them and whom they are devoted to. I envy them...so much.[/QUOTE]

Don't compare yourself.

Do you want a quick idea? The next time you're at a bar or a party, take your drink and make your rounds across the whole area. Every group of girls you see, regardless of whether or not there's any guys with them, clink glasses with them and say "How's everyone doing tonight?" You get it? Like you're the host. It makes you look more social and important. After a while, you'll start to believe it.

Do this once or twice, then sit back and let people come to you.

[QUOTE=Steerpike]Have you considered that maybe it's time to revise the game plan?



Yeah, it's definately time to revise your game plan.

Think of it this way: what you're doing now doesn't work. Why keep doing it? Start trying to figure out what does work.



If I can make a suggestion, put down your email address, and I'll be able to give you a much more indepth level of advice. Believe me, I've been in a lot of rough situations myself, and I've learned from friends and experience.



Don't compare yourself.

Do you want a quick idea? The next time you're at a bar or a party, take your drink and make your rounds across the whole area. Every group of girls you see, regardless of whether or not there's any guys with them, clink glasses with them and say "How's everyone doing tonight?" You get it? Like you're the host. It makes you look more social and important. After a while, you'll start to believe it.

Do this once or twice, then sit back and let people come to you.[/QUOTE]

I don't have a game plan, that my problem methinks...My problem is that i get attached when i have even the slightest incling that its something worth holding on to. Its wierd, but its something i can't control cause its just too strong an urge...And many people know me around my local area, cause i play the host almost every day. And i compare myself a lot to a lot of people, again its a longstanding complex i have...I'm just not all there, really.