[QUOTE=KurtCobain2902]I am wrapped around her finger. Its ****ing bull****. SHes mean to me too. God, I am a slightly confuzzled sea lion. So what should I do?[/QUOTE]


Id assume let her stay in control, let the good times roll. You probably cant do any better anyway, so let her just have fun with you. And a few other guys, probably.

I dunno, I cant really think of what the right thing to do in this situation would be. :confused:

[QUOTE=KurtCobain2902]She cheated on 2 of her other boyfriends, but everyone keeps saying she wont do it to me, because she loves me. think thats bull**** too?[/QUOTE]
She doesn't love you. Just by the things you've told us you can tell that she doesn't love you.

And, you say that she's "mean" to you, yet you're still wrapped around her finger.
Dude, she may as well have a collar and leash for you, because you've become her bitch.

End this relationship.

My ex was on my caller ID. Should I call her back? I sort of want to, but I know I probably shouldn't.

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]My ex was on my caller ID. Should I call her back? I sort of want to, but I know I probably shouldn't.[/QUOTE]
How long ago did she call?

I havent seen my gf in 3 weeks :(

[QUOTE=Tillius]How long ago did she call?[/QUOTE]
Last night, but I didn't get to check it until now. I got off work, and almost immediately went to sleep yesterday, and didn't wake up until it was time for work today.

EDIT: Oh, a few days ago we had some words through Myspace. She says she misses me and I told here there was nothing I could do about it. She said she may call me sometime this week, and I was like 'whatever'. This was probably last Sunday. I didn't actually think she would call.

Well, I think it's been long enough of a wait.

Why don't you give her a call?

I'm really happy that me and my ex-girlfriend are bestfriends now. A lot of sh[size="2"]i[/size]t happened and we still managed to come out as friends.

Because she'll probably try to make me take her back. I miss her too, but I don't want her back, and I don't want to be in a long distance thing again. Talking to her would probably make me a bit sad. But not calling her back will drive me nuts, because I'm obsessive compulsive. =\

[QUOTE=Aakon_Keetreh]I havent seen my gf in 3 weeks :([/QUOTE]


Like, have you notified the authorities or...?



[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]Talking to her would probably make me a bit sad. [/QUOTE]

Aww :'(

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]
But not calling her back will drive me nuts, because I'm obsessive compulsive. =\[/QUOTE]


Awwwww :'(

Damien, weigh out which would hurt you more.

[QUOTE=Eleventeen]Damien, weigh out which would hurt you more.[/QUOTE]
Well one way, I'd be a little down for the night, but I'd be fine by morning. The other, I'd just obsess over why she called. I do that, I get obsessed with the slightest details about something, no matter how small or stupid it is. Sometimes it's something as stupid as losing something. I lost a CD once and searched for it all day long, and trashed my room to find it, and it ended up being in my car. hhaa

I'll probaly call her, I'd get over that quicker.

Glad to see you've made up your mind man, good luck.

No answer. :-\

Hmm...

This girl and i have been good friends since we were kids. And I've always kind of had a thing for her... and i want to hang out with her and all, but she has a boyfriend.

God... listen to me, i'm such a bitch.

[QUOTE=Weezerfan_returns]

God... listen to me, i'm such a bitch.[/QUOTE]

Dont worry, I'm my girlfriends bitch.

[QUOTE=Weezerfan_returns]This girl and i have been good friends since we were kids. And I've always kind of had a thing for her... and i want to hang out with her and all, but she has a boyfriend.

God... listen to me, i'm such a bitch.[/QUOTE]

You can still hang out with her if she has a boyfriend. She's your friend, ask her to hang out sometime.

I just need to vent, especially considering what I have to vent about. Today was graduation for at least half of my close friends here (probably my only close friends left are my ex and a potential future girlfriend). I've had to close up being an RA and now I'm left here in an empty door, tearing down things from the year, and wasn't able to see any of them for more than a minute as I gave them a hug after they walked the stage. I had to run back to work and now I'm feeling pretty lonely and emo. Bah. I shouldn't say emo. It just hasn't caught up to me like it had with them. Haha, and Me First and the Gimme Gimmes are playing "I Am Rock." Awesome.

I won't see many of them for a long time, maybe never. It just sucks saying goodbye and not being able to take some time to do it. ****.

Why can't you seem them outside school?

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]Why can't you seem them outside school?[/QUOTE]
Because this is college and I'm from New York, going to school in Ohio. None of my friends live any closer than a nine-hour drive, and with them all being seniors they're not going to have unlimited internet access for even stupid IMs. Or time in general, since they're going to have to pay bills and whatnot. It's lame.

Oh, well that really blows. But, there's not much you can do about it, focus on the fact that you graduated college. Now you get to start a new life, and make new friends. =\

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]Oh, well that really blows. But, there's not much you can do about it, focus on the fact that you graduated college. Now you get to start a new life, and make new friends. =\[/QUOTE]
No, I'm a junior in the fall. I have two years of this and have to make new friends because being friends with my ex will prevent me from having any other significant other (we've been sleeping together--she's not here, though). I have to find a summer job that will probably be terrible and home makes me miserable. Huzzah. Now it's time to up the meds.

For some reason i have trouble keeping a conversation with my girlfriend. This has happened in my last 2 relationships, and one of them dumped me because of this. i have no problem talking to them when before we start going out, but like soon after i find myself one the phone sitting there in silence not knowing what to say...whats wrong with me?

[QUOTE=meizmatt] i have no problem talking to them when before we start going out, but like soon after i find myself one the phone sitting there in silence not knowing what to say...whats wrong with me?[/QUOTE]


You suck.

[QUOTE=Tiger]You suck.[/QUOTE]
oh...thanks...i always wanted someone to waste my time....

[QUOTE=meizmatt]oh...thanks...i always wanted someone to waste my time....[/QUOTE]


Thats probably whats going through your girlfriends mind right now.

[QUOTE=Tiger]You suck.[/QUOTE]
You could at least try. =\

meizmatt: That happens to alot of people. Just start making conversatino about stupid things. Simple stuff like how her day went and stuff. You probably just suck at conversation. I do too, just ask dumb questions, and never let silences drag on too long.

**** off...i didnt come here for you to be a dick to me, i kinda came for help...

[QUOTE=meizmatt]**** off...i didnt come here for you to be a dick to me, i kinda came for help...[/QUOTE]
Just ignore him, he does it to everyone, and the more you fight back, the harder he'll press on.

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]You could at least try. =\[/QUOTE]


I know, todays one of those off days.

[QUOTE=meizmatt]For some reason i have trouble keeping a conversation with my girlfriend. This has happened in my last 2 relationships, and one of them dumped me because of this. i have no problem talking to them when before we start going out, but like soon after i find myself one the phone sitting there in silence not knowing what to say...whats wrong with me?[/QUOTE]

problem: you're on the phone.

how'd you get looped into that one? i'm a girl and i can't keep up conversations on the phone with my boyfriend. they're awkward. possibly because we're both awful at talking on the phone (plus he mumbles and i talk to other people in the room and switch between conversations)

point: don't talk on the phone as much. there's no point, and then you'll have more to say in person - which is a better way to tell things anyway

(or are you in a long distance-relationship?)

this is just a minor thing, i just want some opinions on what to do.

my school had a leavers ball a few days ago, and i met this girl. she was flirting with me like hell, so after a dip in the pool at the afterparty i go to find her to see if she wants to go somewhere more quiet. so i find her, pinning this guy to the wall, apparently its her boyfriend! i laughed a bit. did i get played or what?

i know i could pull her if we met again. what do i do?

pull her to spite her for playin the field?
pull her becuase shes hot and fun?
dont pull her because it would f[COLOR="LemonChiffon"]u[/COLOR]ck up her relationship?

if her boyfriend can kick your *** dont do anything...if not...go for it

I'd leave her alone if she has a boyfriend. If she comes back up to you, I'd probably go ahead and do whatever with her, but don't go out of your way to pull her. It looks like a waste of time, and you don't want to screw up anything for her, even though she shouldn't be flirting with you in the first place. =\

[QUOTE=madhatter70]this is just a minor thing, i just want some opinions on what to do.

my school had a leavers ball a few days ago, and i met this girl. she was flirting with me like hell, so after a dip in the pool at the afterparty i go to find her to see if she wants to go somewhere more quiet. so i find her, pinning this guy to the wall, apparently its her boyfriend! i laughed a bit. did i get played or what?

i know i could pull her if we met again. what do i do?

pull her to spite her for playin the field?
pull her becuase shes hot and fun?
dont pull her because it would f[COLOR="LemonChiffon"]u[/COLOR]ck up her relationship?[/QUOTE]

that's a ridiculous amount of confidence. do you do this a lot with the women? i highly doubt you would break up her relationship

That's not rediculous at all. Getting girls isn't exactly complicated, especially if you know the girl already has some sort of attraction to you.

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]I'd leave her alone if she has a boyfriend. If she comes back up to you, I'd probably go ahead and do whatever with her, but don't go out of your way to pull her. It looks like a waste of time, and you don't want to screw up anything for her, even though she shouldn't be flirting with you in the first place. =\[/QUOTE]

thats the thing, this is the first time ive felt someone actually deserves being hurt. i sure didnt feel great about myself when i saw her being groped by some guy i order my drinks off in my lunchbreaks.

[QUOTE=Luster]that's a ridiculous amount of confidence. do you do this a lot with the women? i highly doubt you would break up her relationship[/QUOTE]

nah, im not that kind of guy. im more into romance, being gentlemanly etc. than the whole treat-em-rough one-night-stand thing. she has a reputation for being obscenely flirty, so i gather. i should have made this clear.

and of course im not 100% sure i could pull her, but i dont think it would be difficult, considering her willingness to get both myself and herself mightily drunk.

[QUOTE=madhatter70]
and of course im not 100% sure i could pull her, but i dont think it would be difficult, considering her willingness to get both myself and herself mightily drunk.[/QUOTE]


Come on man. Go **** yourself.

don't make me dredge up the threads of you and your girlfriend, tiger. ;)

[QUOTE=madhatter70]don't make me dredge up the threads of you and your girlfriend, tiger. ;)[/QUOTE]


My current one...? There arent any.



I dont think there are too many cases of me taking advantage of a drunken female on MX.

EDIT: If there are, please find them, cause this I gotta see!