[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I'm a singer, kinda too. I sound like Courtney Love, only without her range. But I don't care; it gets the point across.

I wrote killer lyrics to a former drummer because I couldn't tell him to his face how I felt.[/QUOTE]
At the moment i'm like a half unofficial singer for a band. I have to go and meet the rest of them 'cause I only know one of them. And actually try out I suppose, but I'm confident that I'll do well enough to fit in with them.

I wrote some great ones once but I lost them :(

Okay, but you can write more.

I'm sure you'll do fine with the tryout. :)

I'm kind of a singer too, but as I said before, death metal vocals =/= romantic.

Actually though, she was trying to get me to scream for her in the hall yesterday, unfortunately I'd rather not draw the attention to myself.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Okay, but you can write more.

I'm sure you'll do fine with the tryout. :)[/QUOTE]
I have a way with words, but I'm having trouble putting my emotions on paper lately. I wish I still had my old stuff for inspiration :(

Thanks, I really hope I do, it's like my dream to sing in a band :)

Well, I was up at a school show tonight(I went because Erica invited me because it was her first performance on the dance team), and I was hanging out with her(Erica) whenever she wasn't dancing.

Well, I'm really starting to get tired of these mind games between me and Pam. And I'm also tired of thinking about nothing but her. Yes, I still want to be with her, but for now, anyway, it looks like that's not gonna happen.

So I'm thinking I'll give it a shot with Erica.
Do I think it will work out? Honestly, probably not.

I like her and all, but it's just not something I see lasting.

Maybe I've become a dick by thinking about this, but, oh well I guess. I mean, things COULD work out if I got with her.

[QUOTE=Theo B]I have a way with words, but I'm having trouble putting my emotions on paper lately. I wish I still had my old stuff for inspiration :(

Thanks, I really hope I do, it's like my dream to sing in a band :)[/QUOTE]

My late, great, killer guitar player said this to me: Doesn't matter if you sing in key; what matters is if you sing it from the heart.

Wise words.

And about putting your emotions on paper? Detach your mind. And the rest will follow.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]My late, great, killer guitar player said this to me: Doesn't matter if you sing in key; what matters is if you sing it from the heart.

Wise words.

And about putting your emotions on paper? Detach your mind. And the rest will follow.[/QUOTE]
I don't sing in key, I sing beautifully out of key. Fits the genre nicely. :)

Sounds good, I think, now I actually have to be able to do that.

[QUOTE=Theo B]I don't sing in key, I sing beautifully out of key. Fits the genre nicely. :)

Sounds good, I think, now I actually have to be able to do that.[/QUOTE]

If it's from the heart, it's good.

That's my view on it too. :)

Blah, the girl that i had partying issues with before comes home tonight and starts complaining to me about how she kissed this guy like all night (whilst drunk, again) and how he won't care the next day or anything. It bugs me to think that she does this so much, if she's so worried they won't care then stop getting drunk and making out with these guys when you KNOW they aren't going to care.

Gah. Then she complains about feeling unloved, meanwhile she blantantly ignores the fact that she knows I haven't had any real relationship with a girl for two years now. And that she constantly hooks up with random guys :-\

Ok, no chance for me now, I'm guessing, as I have been blocked by Fatima.

[QUOTE=Junooni]Ok, no chance for me now, I'm guessing, as I have been blocked by Fatima.[/QUOTE]
Aw dude, that's lame.

What happened? Have you tried talking to her?

[QUOTE=Tillius]Well, I was up at a school show tonight(I went because Erica invited me because it was her first performance on the dance team), and I was hanging out with her(Erica) whenever she wasn't dancing.

Well, I'm really starting to get tired of these mind games between me and Pam. And I'm also tired of thinking about nothing but her. Yes, I still want to be with her, but for now, anyway, it looks like that's not gonna happen.

So I'm thinking I'll give it a shot with Erica.
Do I think it will work out? Honestly, probably not.

I like her and all, but it's just not something I see lasting.

Maybe I've become a dick by thinking about this, but, oh well I guess. I mean, things COULD work out if I got with her.[/QUOTE]
Somebody tell me, is this wrong of me?

[QUOTE=Theo B]Aw dude, that's lame.

What happened? Have you tried talking to her?[/QUOTE]

Well, this is weird. She hasn't blocked me, but I'm invisible, and I came on for a second, she went invisible, then I became invisible again, then she came back on.

I'm gonna talk to her tomorrow when I see her in person for the first time since I left that message (3 weeks ago), but if something screwy is going on right now, I think I will talk to her right now. She hasn't said a word to me since I left that message though.

[QUOTE=Junooni]Well, this is weird. She hasn't blocked me, but I'm invisible, and I came on for a second, she went invisible, then I became invisible again, then she came back on.

I'm gonna talk to her tomorrow when I see her in person for the first time since I left that message (3 weeks ago), but if something screwy is going on right now, I think I will talk to her right now. She hasn't said a word to me since I left that message though.[/QUOTE]
Hopefully things go well, but yeah, you should talk to her, because that seems quite odd.

Mitch: No, it's perfectly fine, if you and Pam don't think you guys are going anywhere then finding someone else is probably good for you. And even if you think it won't work out, it's always worth a try. Although, if your heart isn't in it, it may be doomed before it even begins.

So tomorrows me and my g/f's 6th month. You guys think roses would be good or something more expensve?

I just found out from her, she got the voicemail, she hasn't said anythig else.

So no chance, I think. Oh ****.

That sucks man. At least you know you tried. Better than sitting around wondering what if.

[QUOTE]
So tomorrows me and my g/f's 6th month. You guys think roses would be good or something more expensve?[/QUOTE]
Roses sound fine man. Six month isn't too big of a deal, maybe go out for dinner or do something else special as well.

I've been with my girl for about 4 months now, and theres this guy that keeps hitting on her. She hates him, hes this english guy that just wont leave her alone. He keeps sayin stuff like "dont hurt me, Ive been hurt too much before" and that theyd make a good couple. I thought it was a joke at first but its not, he wont go away. He keeps textin her every weekend asking to do somethin and nearly every weekend shes told me to text him back sayin its her bf and to bugger off.

He hasnt buggered off. He knows who I am, I sat beside him in maths and he was an ok guy, a bit annoying but ok. I saw him at a party a little while ago and confronted him and he insists hes not interested in her. Hes actually lying to my face about it. Does he deserve a good beat down or are there other methods? Id prefer to beat him down, hes pretty much hated by everyone.

[QUOTE=Sabian4015]So tomorrows me and my g/f's 6th month. You guys think roses would be good or something more expensve?[/QUOTE]
dozen roses should be good no?

beat down.

[QUOTE=BrownSugar]I've been with my girl for about 4 months now, and theres this guy that keeps hitting on her. She hates him, hes this english guy that just wont leave her alone. He keeps sayin stuff like "dont hurt me, Ive been hurt too much before" and that theyd make a good couple. I thought it was a joke at first but its not, he wont go away. He keeps textin her every weekend asking to do somethin and nearly every weekend shes told me to text him back sayin its her bf and to bugger off.

He hasnt buggered off. He knows who I am, I sat beside him in maths and he was an ok guy, a bit annoying but ok. I saw him at a party a little while ago and confronted him and he insists hes not interested in her. Hes actually lying to my face about it. Does he deserve a good beat down or are there other methods? Id prefer to beat him down, hes pretty much hated by everyone.[/QUOTE]

Sounds like a problem I had a while back. Is what I did is confronted him, said" look man, if your gonna hit on my girlfriend, you gotta deal with me" kinda cocky cheesy sounding but I got the message across. I was bigger than he was so he backed off and hasn't barely even spoke to her since.

[QUOTE=BrownSugar]I've been with my girl for about 4 months now, and theres this guy that keeps hitting on her. She hates him, hes this english guy that just wont leave her alone. He keeps sayin stuff like "dont hurt me, Ive been hurt too much before" and that theyd make a good couple. I thought it was a joke at first but its not, he wont go away. He keeps textin her every weekend asking to do somethin and nearly every weekend shes told me to text him back sayin its her bf and to bugger off.

He hasnt buggered off. He knows who I am, I sat beside him in maths and he was an ok guy, a bit annoying but ok. I saw him at a party a little while ago and confronted him and he insists hes not interested in her. Hes actually lying to my face about it. Does he deserve a good beat down or are there other methods? Id prefer to beat him down, hes pretty much hated by everyone.[/QUOTE]
If he's continually doing it even when she's saying not to and then lying to your face, I'd say beat down. He obviously needs to know when to just leave it alone. I'd tell you to do something a tad less immature but you know, when talking it out doesn't work there's not much else.

I dont see any point in asking him again, I've told him, hes had enough warning. His weedy soccer playin a[color=black]ss[/color] is going down.

[QUOTE=BrownSugar]I've been with my girl for about 4 months now, and theres this guy that keeps hitting on her. She hates him, hes this english guy that just wont leave her alone. He keeps sayin stuff like "dont hurt me, Ive been hurt too much before" and that theyd make a good couple. I thought it was a joke at first but its not, he wont go away. He keeps textin her every weekend asking to do somethin and nearly every weekend shes told me to text him back sayin its her bf and to bugger off.

He hasnt buggered off. He knows who I am, I sat beside him in maths and he was an ok guy, a bit annoying but ok. I saw him at a party a little while ago and confronted him and he insists hes not interested in her. Hes actually lying to my face about it. Does he deserve a good beat down or are there other methods? Id prefer to beat him down, hes pretty much hated by everyone.[/QUOTE]
give him a good scare b4 you beat down on him

What do you mean? like pop out from behind a tree? :lol:

Just say you aren't going to stand around while he keeps trying to move in on your girlfriend.

And make some non-chalant threats about hitting him in the face with bricks. >_>

i'm ****ed...damn.

[QUOTE=Tillius]Well, I was up at a school show tonight(I went because Erica invited me because it was her first performance on the dance team), and I was hanging out with her(Erica) whenever she wasn't dancing.

Well, I'm really starting to get tired of these mind games between me and Pam. And I'm also tired of thinking about nothing but her. Yes, I still want to be with her, but for now, anyway, it looks like that's not gonna happen.

So I'm thinking I'll give it a shot with Erica.
Do I think it will work out? Honestly, probably not.

I like her and all, but it's just not something I see lasting.

Maybe I've become a dick by thinking about this, but, oh well I guess. I mean, things COULD work out if I got with her.[/QUOTE]

If you want it to work, it's worth a shot, even if you think it might not last. It's not like you [B]don't[/B] want it to work, is it? Then that would make you a bad man :p

[QUOTE=Junooni]i'm ****ed...damn.[/QUOTE]


why so blue, i wish i was f[SIZE="2"]u[/SIZE]cked.... oh.. wait.. what happened?

Ok here it goes ....

3 years ago my girlfriends mom died after being hit by a car.
She has kinda gotten over it but defininetly not completely. I have been dating her for around 2 months now and her moms birthday came and went, and she went all depressed like. Well, tomorrow is Mothers Day, and she is already pretty upset about it. Should I try to cheer her up and take her mind off of it, or is that not possible and should I just kinda play it cool and let her sulk for a day?

By letting her sulk Im not talking about ignoring her, Im talking about like not going to the movies or something and just let her stay home.

[QUOTE=Retard Sars]If you want it to work, it's worth a shot, even if you think it might not last. It's not like you [B]don't[/B] want it to work, is it? Then that would make you a bad man :p[/QUOTE]
Well, I mean, I would have no complaints if it worked out, but, I mean, I don't really know. I mean, I've had at least SOME feelings for Erica for awhile now, but I really started to like Pam, and in a way, this is just to get me to stop thinking about her.

[QUOTE=Tillius]Well, I mean, I would have no complaints if it worked out, but, I mean, I don't really know. I mean, I've had at least SOME feelings for Erica for awhile now, but I really started to like Pam, and in a way, this is just to get me to stop thinking about her.[/QUOTE]

Right, so basically you have to choose one or the other, no?

Just got to weigh it up

[QUOTE=comm]Ok here it goes ....

3 years ago my girlfriends mom died after being hit by a car.
She has kinda gotten over it but defininetly not completely. I have been dating her for around 2 months now and her moms birthday came and went, and she went all depressed like. Well, tomorrow is Mothers Day, and she is already pretty upset about it. Should I try to cheer her up and take her mind off of it, or is that not possible and should I just kinda play it cool and let her sulk for a day?

By letting her sulk Im not talking about ignoring her, Im talking about like not going to the movies or something and just let her stay home.[/QUOTE]

You don't have to do something with her, however it probably would be really good if you spent the day with her.

....

On to my problems.

I think Katie's avoiding me after our conversation on Thursday night :-/

Can someone please give me some advice here? I want to know if anyone else would be mad/hurt about this, or if I'm being a pussy.


My girlfriend told me she was grounded and wasn't aloud to leave, or talk on the phone. Later, I found out she got high by herself because her mom was at work, and then went to Fry's. When she was there, these 3 kids we know came up and I dont know how it went down but she ended up hanging out with them the rest of the afternoon. When she got home, she called her best friend Ariel to tell her the story. I was really hurt, because she's not supposed to be talking to anyone, but she goes and hangs out with these other guys(even though she didnt plan it out, she just ran into them) and then when she gets home she calls Ariel but not me. I calle dher, and I was like "I thought you were grounded?" And she explained that her mom wasn't home and she ran into those guys, she didnt plan it out. But then I was like, "How come you called Ariel and not me?" And she goes, "I was going to but I didnt want it to show up on the caller ID or anything" and I go "But you called ariel." Then she says "yeah maybe I had a problem." So I asked what the problem was, and she told me it was because she hasn't talked to Ariel in a while. But thats a whole other story. What should I do? I'm really hurt that she would rather get stoned and **** than talk to me. Advice please?

She probably just went out and fooled around with them a bit while high, I wouldnt worry about it.

Oh, and she has little respect for you.

[QUOTE=Tiger]She probably just went out and fooled around with them a bit while high, I wouldnt worry about it.

Oh, and she has little respect for you.[/QUOTE]

Why do you say she has little respect for me?

This sucks so bad. I don't even know if I trust her, but I love her. I dont know what to do. I'm always worried about her cheating on me, but I cant break up with her.

[QUOTE=KurtCobain2902]Why do you say she has little respect for me?
[/QUOTE]


Um...everything she did showed very little respect towards you, her 'boyfriend'. She ditched you, only to get high and hang out with a bunch of other guys, then doesnt tell you about it. It also sounds like there is something else going on...she's just got you wrapped around her finger aparently. Have fun with that.

[QUOTE=KurtCobain2902]Why do you say she has little respect for me?

This sucks so bad. I don't even know if I trust her, but I love her. I dont know what to do. I'm always worried about her cheating on me, but I cant break up with her.[/QUOTE]
If you have to worry about her cheating, and can't trust her, then you NEED to break up with her, because either you just have a really self-concious feeling to the point that you can't be trusting, or she has done something that makes you feel like you can't trust her.

Either way, the relationship needs to be ended.

[QUOTE=Tiger]Um...everything she did showed very little respect towards you, her 'boyfriend'. She ditched you, only to get high and hang out with a bunch of other guys, then doesnt tell you about it. It also sounds like there is something else going on...she's just got you wrapped around her finger aparently. Have fun with that.[/QUOTE]

I am wrapped around her finger. Its ****ing bull****. SHes mean to me too. God, I am a slightly confuzzled sea lion. So what should I do?

[QUOTE=Tillius]If you have to worry about her cheating, and can't trust her, then you NEED to break up with her, because either you just have a really self-concious feeling to the point that you can't be trusting, or she has done something that makes you feel like you can't trust her.

Either way, the relationship needs to be ended.[/QUOTE]

She cheated on 2 of her other boyfriends, but everyone keeps saying she wont do it to me, because she loves me. think thats bull**** too?