[QUOTE=Lightning Strikes Twice]Not old enough to go camping..Not responsible enough to go camping anyways :p We'd probably get eaten by a bear while we tried to see if bears were flammable.....:)

It'd be cool though to find a weekend we could just get a couple of guys together and hang out at someone's house..And just sleep there for a couple of days lol..His cell phone would eventually die :p[/QUOTE]

Hahaha...ok well i agree with Steerpike, also just try to seperate the two for male only nights like you've said, without actually breaking them up...unless that was your intention.

No, I don't mind him going out with her..It just bothers me that they're ALWAYS together and that he's whipped beyond belief.

Thanks guys, especially to Steerpike for the kick *** homework :lol:

[QUOTE=ThePinkPanther]Well it seemed to be an issue of respect. And while issues of 20 year olds for relationships may outshine so to say those of a 14 year olds, it doesn't take the fact that it's still an issue and that you can't tell someone it's not much compared to another due to the fact that I cannot experience the difference currently.[/QUOTE]

It's not an issue of respect. I was telling Kimmie that I thought you were at least 17 because of the way you handle yourself. That's a compliment, not an insult. I'm just telling you that feeling sorry that you've been broken up with four times at age fourteen is NOT the end of the world. Sure, it can be disheartening, but you will move on and go through adolescence just fine.

And I'm not comparing 20 year olds and 14 year olds for anything except fundamental, natural maturity level. You can't teach it. It comes with experience. You've experienced fourteen years of life, two, maybe three tops in terms of dating and relationships.

As you get older, you're going to realize that worrying about what happened at age 14 is trivial.

Yeah, Jom is right.

LOL! I just realized your avatar is the easter beagle lol..I couldn't figure it out, then I read your usertitle..lol

[QUOTE=ThePinkPanther]Well it seemed to be an issue of respect. And while issues of 20 year olds for relationships may outshine so to say those of a 14 year olds, it doesn't take the fact that it's still an issue and that you can't tell someone it's not much compared to another due to the fact that I cannot experience the difference currently.[/QUOTE]

Ask my 43 year old guy. His ex is STILL an issue. He still doesn't get the fact that he's still alive, although he should already know that.

My guy = immature.

My point with this actually was, doesn't matter how old you are, this stupid [size=2]s[/size]hit still hurts.

But you do still get through it.

[QUOTE=Jom]It's not an issue of respect. I was telling Kimmie that I thought you were at least 17 because of the way you handle yourself. That's a compliment, not an insult. I'm just telling you that feeling sorry that you've been broken up with four times at age fourteen is NOT the end of the world. Sure, it can be disheartening, but you will move on and go through adolescence just fine.[/QUOTE]

oh i'm not being all sad about the fact that i've been the one dumped all the times., if i came off that way i didn't mean it to be just that. But i think you hit it spot on about it being a bit disheartening.

oh and gracias for the compliment. yeah, i know i'm just that awesome. *ego*

All right, I'm a freshman in high school and I have a weird problem. There's this girl named Katie in 8th grade who's like obsessed with me. I found out like 2 months ago. About a week after I found out, she sent me this note, "From your secret admirer", and I sent her this note back saying that I had no interest in her and that it was pretty immature to act like you're in love with somebody you don't even know. But she didn't give up. She like stalked me, learning where all my classes are and waiting for me just so she could say hi. It's really fu[size=2]c[/size]king weird, and it been going on for like 2 months. So about a week or two ago she asked me to this dance at school, and I told her once again that I was not interested in her, and that I did not want to go to the dance with her. She still lurks around and follows me, and some people have told me that she's asking people where I live and what my number is. How do I make her stop and get through to her?

I'd say this is something to bring up with her family. This is just spooky.

Yeah tell her to stop it or that you will tell her parents. If she doesn't stop go ahead and tell her parents. If that doesn't help tell a teacher who you trust.

Unusual situation.

[QUOTE=Led-Zeppelin]All right, I'm a freshman in high school and I have a weird problem. There's this girl named Katie in 8th grade who's like obsessed with me. I found out like 2 months ago. About a week after I found out, she sent me this note, "From your secret admirer", and I sent her this note back saying that I had no interest in her and that it was pretty immature to act like you're in love with somebody you don't even know. But she didn't give up. She like stalked me, learning where all my classes are and waiting for me just so she could say hi. It's really fu[size=2]c[/size]king weird, and it been going on for like 2 months. So about a week or two ago she asked me to this dance at school, and I told her once again that I was not interested in her, and that I did not want to go to the dance with her. She still lurks around and follows me, and some people have told me that she's asking people where I live and what my number is. How do I make her stop and get through to her?[/QUOTE]
Get a random girl to pose as your girlfriend. You need something harsh and in her face to get her to back off, since trying to be nice about it ahsn't worked yet.

[QUOTE=Herbert_da_fish]Get a random girl to pose as your girlfriend. You need something harsh and in her face to get her to back off, since trying to be nice about it ahsn't worked yet.[/QUOTE]

That's a good idea, Emily. Might work.

I'd just pull a gun on the bitch and say "STOP FUC[size=2]KING[/size] STALKING ME!!!"
:p

Tell her - and only her - that you're gay.

Or bring it up with her parents if she doesn't stop.

Me and my ex broke up to come to uni. He wasn't taking it very well, and he kind of kept acting like we would get back together in the holidays, which wasn't going to happen.

I thought it would be easier on him if I just stopped talking to him pretty much, I thought if he got angry with me that might make things easier. So whenever he talked to me on MSN, etc., I would just give him short answers.

He came to stay with me to see a band, which led to a very awkward situation because to me, we had already broken up, but he obviously didn't see it like that.

After that he felt very embarassed of the way he'd acted (he'd got really drunk and behaved in a weird way) so he deleted me off his phone, MSN, and myspace. I didn't know this until I saw him at Xmas when he apologised for everything, but I mean if that's the way he wants to deal with it then cool. Then at Xmas he said he wanted to still be friends with me, that we should talk normally and stop being weird.

So I saw him on Monday, and he waved to me across the street. I went over and said hi, and things seemed to be cool. Then I saw him on Friday, and went up to him in the pub and said hi, and he just murmured "hi" and carried on texting on his phone and didn't even look up for the entire time I stood there. Made me feel kinda awkward as I just had to go "err ok" and walk away again.

So I talked to a mutual friend and he said my ex is annoyed at me for stopping talking to him when we broke up. This is kind of what I was aiming at in the first place, it wasn't the coolest way for me to handle things, but I hoped if he was angry he would get over things quicker. He seems to be having a massively delayed reaction. He told my friend that he hoped when we'd seen each other on Monday that I wouldn't come over and say hi to him, and that I wouldn't speak to him at all.

This is the opposite of what he said before. I am very confused at how to deal with this situation.

I wouldn't be bothered about talking to him at all, it's really up to him, but the thing is we have a good few mutual friends, including 2 or 3 really good friends of mine who I have known since long before we went out, and when we all hang out at the pub etc. together it just makes things awkward and weird.

I want to say something to him on Monday, but I don't know what. I want to be the adult in this situation, and not say anything stupid or angry, so do any of you have any suggestions? Cheers.

[QUOTE=the-UK-ska-scene]Story.[/QUOTE]

Maybe when he told you he wanted to remain friends he thought it could work, and maybe now he thinks it can't because he still has feelings for you. About the only thing you can do is sit down with him and discuss it calmly.

[QUOTE=Led-Zeppelin]All right, I'm a freshman in high school and I have a weird problem. There's this girl named Katie in 8th grade who's like obsessed with me. I found out like 2 months ago. About a week after I found out, she sent me this note, "From your secret admirer", and I sent her this note back saying that I had no interest in her and that it was pretty immature to act like you're in love with somebody you don't even know. But she didn't give up. She like stalked me, learning where all my classes are and waiting for me just so she could say hi. It's really fu[size=2]c[/size]king weird, and it been going on for like 2 months. So about a week or two ago she asked me to this dance at school, and I told her once again that I was not interested in her, and that I did not want to go to the dance with her. She still lurks around and follows me, and some people have told me that she's asking people where I live and what my number is. How do I make her stop and get through to her?[/QUOTE]


'sup fellow frosh.

thats creepy. That kinda happened to me. but much less creepy. and she was in my grade. BUt now, this girl who i "went out with" in 4th grade lol, is myspace stalking me. SHES THE THIRD ONE TO MYSPACE STALK ME. W.T.W :confused: and she lives in virgina, and me in NJ, and she wants to meet up during spring break, and shes wierd. and stuff. argg..

Yeah, anywho, bringing it up with parents (or a guidance counseler[her counseler]) is probably a good idea.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Maybe when he told you he wanted to remain friends he thought it could work, and maybe now he thinks it can't because he still has feelings for you. About the only thing you can do is sit down with him and discuss it calmly.[/QUOTE]
From a similar experience I had, I would say don't talk to him much, or even not at all for a few weeks. When my ex and I broke up, I was always annoyed when she tried to have a conversation with me. I gave her short answers, made up excuses to leave, etc. I think it's cause I still had feelings for her, and I knew that getting back together would never work, just because of how our relationship ended. So I separated myself from her for a month, and we've been talking lately just like normal friends would. So I say give him some time to himself.

[QUOTE=The Fonz]Yeah, anywho, bringing it up with parents (or a guidance counseler[her counseler]) is probably a good idea.[/QUOTE]That's what I'd suggest.

[QUOTE=Rasta Rocker]From a similar experience I had, I would say don't talk to him much, or even not at all for a few weeks. When my ex and I broke up, I was always annoyed when she tried to have a conversation with me. I gave her short answers, made up excuses to leave, etc. I think it's cause I still had feelings for her, and I knew that getting back together would never work, just because of how our relationship ended. So I separated myself from her for a month, and we've been talking lately just like normal friends would. So I say give him some time to himself.[/QUOTE]

Yeah I understand.

The only reason I wanted to hurry it up was, as I said, we are hanging at the pub and stuff with friends and it makes things awkward. I am only home for a couple more weeks then I am going back to uni and won't see my friends for a while so I want this week or two to be chilled.

Also I woulda thought he got over it already. I saw him after a month of not seeing him at xmas, and he said he had feelings for me which he needed to sort out. But I haven't talked to him for over 3 months, I wish he would just get over this now.

How long did ou guys date? And if he actually loved you (not liked a lot, or lusted for, but love), those kinds of feelings take a very long time to get over.

I'm back from Nashville. I'm only now in the process of getting over Brit, 'cause I've done everything I could not to think about her, and it hit me like a bag of bricks. Sucks.

I want to go meet some new girls. the two girls I'm close to now aren't the kind of girls I want at the moment. I want someone just to have fun, that I can trust without worrying abuot. I don't want love, I just want fun. I've never really gone "hunting" for a girl or whatever, usually I'm close friends with a girl before I date them. I'm not sure how I would go about meeting new people when I don't have school or anything, I'm I'm extremely antisocial. Any suggestions?

[QUOTE=Wizard.]I'm back from Nashville. I'm only now in the process of getting over Brit, 'cause I've done everything I could not to think about her, and it hit me like a bag of bricks. Sucks.

I want to go meet some new girls. the two girls I'm close to now aren't the kind of girls I want at the moment. I want someone just to have fun, that I can trust without worrying abuot. I don't want love, I just want fun. I've never really gone "hunting" for a girl or whatever, usually I'm close friends with a girl before I date them. I'm not sure how I would go about meeting new people when I don't have school or anything, I'm I'm extremely antisocial. Any suggestions?[/QUOTE]

friends of friends :thumb:

lol, I don't have very many friends. I got two close ones, and they're both girls that I don't want to get involved with. If I went with their friends, I'd have hell to pay. I don't go out or anything often, so finding a place to meet girls seems like quite the pickle, especially since I don't have a liscense(sp?) yet. :p

yeah so me and my girlfriend broke up today after 6 months...kinda sh'tty, but feels good at the same time

Yeah the feeling of being single is liberating, but you might get hit later with some sh*tty-feelingness

My date had to cancel tomorrows plans, her story being that one of her best friends has just broken up with her bf, and she has arranged a girl night and that (I say story because I never really trust women when they give an excuse for not doing something)

I've re-arranged for Wednesday, but now instead of it being just me and her going out and stuff, it's at a pub with all her friends, of which I know one or two through uni.

This puts me in a horrible position, as I'm gonna suck hard in a big social situation.


/just thought I'd update you all

Let the liquor do the talking and your fingers do the walking [size=-2]in her pants/up her skirt[/size].

You'll be fine, heh. You don't need to pull a rabbit out of a hat to have conversation, just stick to basic stuff, or find something common to talk about (uni, for instance).

You'll do great. It builds character :p

Bah, I'm sure it'll be fine once I've had a few.

So I have been going out with this girl a little while (like 2 days) and I'm going to kiss her for the first time tomorrow. I was just wondering what time of day I should do it at. Usually, I get to school and see her before 1st period, then I see her after at lunch, and then I walk her to her bus after school. so, should I do it when I walk her to her bus or what? Also, is there any way to deal with the nervousness? It's insane how nervous I get. I was going to kiss her earlier, but I got too scared and pussied out.

[QUOTE=KurtCobain2902]So I have been going out with this girl a little while (like 2 days) and I'm going to kiss her for the first time tomorrow.[/QUOTE]

Don't plan it.

[QUOTE]I was just wondering what time of day I should do it at.[/QUOTE]

Don't plan it.

[QUOTE]Usually, I get to school and see her before 1st period, then I see her after at lunch, and then I walk her to her bus after school. so, should I do it when I walk her to her bus or what?[/QUOTE]

Don't plan it.

[QUOTE] Also, is there any way to deal with the nervousness? It's insane how nervous I get. I was going to kiss her earlier, but I got too scared and pussied out.[/QUOTE]

Just go with what's natural, everyone gets nervous, and she probably wants to kiss you as much as you want to kiss her.