[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Broke their necks or some such, didn't he? It's all right, I'm safe because I'm not a prostitute.[/QUOTE]I think so. He lived three blocks from my high school. And our middle school had a cannibal. Albert Fentress. But I wasn't born in the city, so it's okay. I think.

But yeah, if I do manage a road trip at some point and I don't piss you off by then and you're still affliated with here, can I have a couch? Or a driveway?

Okay, heres another pointless blabber from purplefeet.

I feel ackward, and I dont know if its justified or anything. I guess this whole rant will be based on my own insecurities and nothing more.

Anyway, my boyfriend just started a new job. As a window washer..something temporary as he is trying to get into trades right now.

Well, he had his interview and it turns out his boss is this 18yr old chick (my age). And he is working with her + a couple of other chicks everyday. Now, its not that he works with chicks is what bothers me, I have mostly guy friends myself so I cant really analyze him or that situation at all.

What kind of makes me feel iffy is that he told me that she looked disappointed when he mentioned the fact that he had a gf. Which 1) makes me feel good that he mentioned me. 2) makes me feel werid because I dont like the fact that someone may want in his pantaloons..well at least I dont like knowing about it, lol. (As this totally sounds like grade 7).

I guess because they spend like 8-14 hours a day together, she drives him around to the job places (where I feel inferior as I still dont have my license) and bought him dinner the other day.

I think this is strictly me reading too much into the situation and (due to past experieces) I just feel uincomfortbale. Which, mind you, I have not expressed to him in any fashion as that will only make him feel werid as well.

Im not a jealous person, and this whole feeling of insecurity is kind of new to me. So, Im just goign to suck it up for the next couple of months until it passes.

Deep down, I know I have nothing to sweat about (as I know he cares for me greatly). I just needed to bitch and whine for a minute and do the whole "woe is me" thing.

LOL, i feel a tad better already.

[QUOTE=The Profit of Maine]I think so. He lived three blocks from my high school. And our middle school had a cannibal. Albert Fentress. But I wasn't born in the city, so it's okay. I think.

But yeah, if I do manage a road trip at some point and I don't piss you off by then and you're still affliated with here, can I have a couch? Or a driveway?[/QUOTE]

You can actually have a bed (yes, my house is big enough to have a guest bedroom w/bed and computer...ask Tiger).

All you need to do is be nice to my cats and nicer to my dog.

:)

[QUOTE=purplefeet]Okay, heres another pointless blabber from purplefeet.

I feel ackward, and I dont know if its justified or anything. I guess this whole rant will be based on my own insecurities and nothing more.

Anyway, my boyfriend just started a new job. As a window washer..something temporary as he is trying to get into trades right now.

Well, he had his interview and it turns out his boss is this 18yr old chick (my age). And he is working with her + a couple of other chicks everyday. Now, its not that he works with chicks is what bothers me, I have mostly guy friends myself so I cant really analyze him or that situation at all.

What kind of makes me feel iffy is that he told me that she looked disappointed when he mentioned the fact that he had a gf. Which 1) makes me feel good that he mentioned me. 2) makes me feel werid because I dont like the fact that someone may want in his pantaloons..well at least I dont like knowing about it, lol. (As this totally sounds like grade 7).

I guess because they spend like 8-14 hours a day together, she drives him around to the job places (where I feel inferior as I still dont have my license) and bought him dinner the other day.

I think this is strictly me reading too much into the situation and (due to past experieces) I just feel uincomfortbale. Which, mind you, I have not expressed to him in any fashion as that will only make him feel werid as well.

Im not a jealous person, and this whole feeling of insecurity is kind of new to me. So, Im just goign to suck it up for the next couple of months until it passes.

Deep down, I know I have nothing to sweat about (as I know he cares for me greatly). I just needed to bitch and whine for a minute and do the whole "woe is me" thing.

LOL, i feel a tad better already.[/QUOTE]

First off, Nic, what she's doing (driving him around; buying him dinner) is inappropriate. End of story, or as the crazy UKers put it...full stop.

The fact that he's accepting that behavior is inappropriate as well, but you're never gonna get a guy to actually see it that way.

So...suck it up is what you're gonna have to do, but watch it like a hawk. If/when it's gone too far you'll get the gut feeling, and that gut feeling will be correct. Then you need to act on it.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]
The fact that he's accepting that behavior is inappropriate as well, but you're never gonna get a guy to actually see it that way.
[/QUOTE]



Well like, Ive been bought dinner and stuff by bosses, its a nice way to break the ice and all.

I dont think that whats going on with her boy is inappropriate, Nic youre overreacting in my not humble at all opinion.

[QUOTE=Tiger]Well like, Ive been bought dinner and stuff by bosses, its a nice way to break the ice and all.

I dont think that whats going on with her boy is inappropriate, Nic youre overreacting in my not humble at all opinion.[/QUOTE]

You be quiet, cub; you're a different breed of cat than these guys.

Most love the attention, you do not. It's different.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]You be quiet, cub; you're a different breed of cat than these guys.

Most love the attention, you do not. It's different.[/QUOTE]


Iiiive been known to bask in attention, I soak it up if its from the right person.

LADIES & GENTLEMAN...MEET MY SON.

Who I had older ladies hit on whilst he was here. Yes, older than me.

The only thing stopping them was his mom...me.


But, cub, you don't go there, normally, ever. Because you don't need too and you don't normally want to. You're different.

They wanted me to take my shirt off. :mad:

Ok, this is a weird question, but I need some advice. I've had this girlfriend for a while, and I've recieved oral sex twice, and she's given me a handjob twice. But for some reason, when I masturbate, I can't fantasize about her. I don't know why. I try to fantasize about the **** we've done, no dice. What the hell is up? I'm definitely attracted to her though. Does anyone else have this problem?

[QUOTE=KurtCobain2902]Ok, this is a weird question, but I need some advice. I've had this girlfriend for a while, and I've recieved oral sex twice, and she's given me a handjob twice. But for some reason, when I masturbate, I can't fantasize about her. I don't know why. I try to fantasize about the **** we've done, no dice. What the hell is up? I'm definitely attracted to her though. Does anyone else have this problem?[/QUOTE]


I...I wouldnt say thats a bad thing, perhaps it wasnt particularly good?

Hand jobs, ick!

[QUOTE=Tiger]I...I wouldnt say thats a bad thing, perhaps it wasnt particularly good?

Hand jobs, ick![/QUOTE]

Yeah, they weren't particularly good. She needs more experience, and A LOT of practice, if you know what I mean...:naughty:

So you think thats normal then?

Hmm, I don't remember how I felt when my ex first "performed" in terms of thinking about it afterwards. It took her awhile to become good at it and I know I didn't enjoy it much at first, but as long as you feel the attraction I don't see a problem with it.
[QUOTE=Chaindrive]You can actually have a bed (yes, my house is big enough to have a guest bedroom w/bed and computer...ask Tiger).

All you need to do is be nice to my cats and nicer to my dog.

:)[/QUOTE]
I love animals. I hear dog's good :)

And refl at Tiger's plight.

Ah, great. I went to sleep around 11, just woke up. Since when do you wake up in the middle of the night wide awake? I thought naps were for the daytime.

When is the right time in a relationship to say you 'love' them. For some reason, that scares the s[b]h[/b]it out of me.

[QUOTE=Mellotron]When is the right time in a relationship to say you 'love' them. For some reason, that scares the s[b]h[/b]it out of me.[/QUOTE]


With the person Im with now, it was right after the first kiss because we both 'knew'.

[QUOTE=Tiger]With the person Im with now, it was right after the first kiss because we both 'knew'.[/QUOTE]
lol =|

Well, I've been avoiding Pam lately, so as not to do what I did yesterday.
I kissed her.
Out of nowhere, wasn't really thinking about anything other than wanting to kiss her, so I did.
Then I was like...oh crap.
So I started talking, saying I was sorry, shouldn't have done that and all this...but before I can finish talking....she kisses me back.
Then she says we can talk on Monday.(she's in band, and they're on a cruise until late sunday night)
So, I mean, I still don't know if we're going to go back out right now, but I'm making progress.:)

Well, good for you.

[QUOTE=Tiger]With the person Im with now, it was right after the first kiss because we both 'knew'.[/QUOTE]

Thats probably the most sensitive thing Ive ever seen you say. Ever.

You just do it when it feels right, some longer than others. For me it took 1.5 years of being friends and about 4 months of serious dating til I said those words to the person I am with now.

But you see, as you compare me and Tiggy, everyone is different.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]Thats probably the most sensitive thing Ive ever seen you say. Ever.

You just do it when it feels right, some longer than others. For me it took 1.5 years of being friends and about 4 months of serious dating til I said those words to the person I am with now.

But you see, as you compare me and Tiggy, everyone is different.[/QUOTE]
Yep. If it scares the hell out of you, then it probably isn't time yet.

Ok I have this problem, Im met this girl where I worked, you know we got talking and started hanging around every day, I started to get feelings for her and she was kinda given me signals that she wanted to you know, go out, have sex...but every time I hint to her that I like her she backs down..She goes to my gigs ect..I think the problem might be that we became too good friends and she thinks anymore might ruin what we've got already...But then i love her and have deep feelings for her...I dont know what to do, Im so confused!:confused:

[QUOTE=I_was_god]Ok I have this problem, Im met this girl where I worked, you know we got talking and started hanging around every day, I started to get feelings for her and she was kinda given me signals that she wanted to you know, go out, have sex...but every time I hint to her that I like her she backs down..She goes to my gigs ect..I think the problem might be that we became too good friends and she thinks anymore might ruin what we've got already...But then i love her and have deep feelings for her...I dont know what to do, Im so confused!:confused:[/QUOTE]
You say you hint at it, but have you ever actually TALKED to her aobut it?

Ya I have tried, but she's the kinda girl you cant get a straight answer out of, and she twists it into a different story like gossup or something....

Well, okay.
Hmmm...
Well, I don't know what to say. I don't know if you've asked her out or not. If you haven't, well, you probably should.

I basically have asked her out and she backs down, I.E not replying..but then she'd reply after or something...

Two minor issues that I'm not sure how to handle:

A girl I flirt with/talk to basically just told me she's bulimic. I don't know what to say to her about it. I don't want to degrade her for it, but I have a natural reaction to flame dumb girls.

This other girl was alright at first, but got annoying after a week or so. She calls me all the time, and I just don't answer sometimes. I need to distance myself, but I'm naturally flirty and don't really notice it. I don't want to hurt her feelings or make it seem like a big rejection either. She's clingy. =\

Nobody's really naturally flirty. If you're flirting, it's because you want to flirt. So, if you're trying to distance yourself, you're gonna have to cut that out.

As for the bulemic girl, well, that's just wrong. You should tell her your views on that.

[QUOTE=Tillius]Nobody's really naturally flirty. If you're flirting, it's because you want to flirt. So, if you're trying to distance yourself, you're gonna have to cut that out.

As for the bulemic girl, well, that's just wrong. You should tell her your views on that.[/QUOTE]


I knew an emo/bulemic/bi-polar/anorexic girl. People with those things dont listen, they always see themselves as flawed or w/e. you get a better reaction from a fuc[SIZE="2"]k[/SIZE]ing brick.

its kinda sad. Maybe one day ill post the whole story


(p.s, whats up thread, long time no post. I just got a job, so i'm happy, anything exciting with anyone else?)

[QUOTE=The Fonz]I knew an emo/bulemic/bi-polar/anorexic girl. People with those things dont listen, they always see themselves as flawed or w/e. you get a better reaction from a fuc[SIZE="2"]k[/SIZE]ing brick.[/QUOTE]
What did you do about it?

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]What did you do about it?[/QUOTE]

well, i wasn't very well in with her, is was a three week camp, and she had one girl who she really clung to, but i was sorta friends with both. Me and my friend, another guy, were both like you, thinking, "wow, stop being stupid, eat", but we were more sensitive to her. she would go like two days w/o eating, then eat a peice of lettuce, ad freak out, it was really bad. Mostly, we tried beingr eally nice, and practically begging her to eat. By the third week, she had probably eating the equivalent of like, 2 meals, and we were worried, so me and my friend went to the campus(it was at a college) store, and bought the most protien/carb rich things we could find, which, our RA, who runs ALOT, told us is peanut butter and a bagel. so we bought it, and she diddnt want to eat it, but then she started to get really cold, when its was 90+ degress out, then later she started shaking and getting real pale, and finnaly agreed to eat them, but EVEN THEN, she had to go the the bathroom, because she was like, ashamed to eat.


as for your girl, i recomend, since you flirt with her, compliment her alot, make her feel real skinny and pretty, then offer her a little something, and either start to offer her more, or if she refuses keep trying, but stay sensitive to her.

I have no idea what to say about eating disorders. They kinda freak me out.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I have no idea what to say about eating disorders. They kinda freak me out.[/QUOTE]
"Seek professional help."

[QUOTE=The Profit of Maine]"Seek professional help."[/QUOTE]

Thing is, I've never known anyone (I don't think) with one, so that whole thing lies outside of my experience.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Thing is, I've never known anyone (I don't think) with one, so that whole thing lies outside of my experience.[/QUOTE]
My ex's best friend was bulimic for awhile and I know at least one girl who was anorexic, but wrestlers are the easiest to talk to. They normally don't realize they even have a problem.

What exactly is anorexia?

I don't really understand it, I get bulemia though..

Is there a difference between anorexia and just being really underweight?

[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]What exactly is anorexia?

I don't really understand it, I get bulemia though..

Is there a difference between anorexia and just being really underweight?[/QUOTE]
Starving yourself intentionally. Emaciation accompanies it as well as a loss of period and other wonderful things.

Sorry for getting off-track. This really is supposed to be a serious thread about Love & Relationships.

FU[color=black]CK[/color]! my gfs family are a bunch of head cases. Ok she is a year younger than me and still at school, I left school last year. They for some reason see this as a problem. It took them 3 months for them to work up the manners to invite me round to meet them. Even then her mother didnt say two words to me all night, she went off to her room. Her dad was ok though. Apparently when you leave school your future goes out the window and your priorities change (meaning I only want to have sex with her). So every time I see her she needs to make up some excuse.

This weekend her folks are away so her older sister is babysitting and she STILL isnt allowed to see me. Cos her sister doesnt want to get in trouble with her parents. Can this woman not keep her mouth shut or something. Fu[color=black]c[/color]kin christians and their wierd fuc[color=black]k[/color]in ideas.

What should I do? I like this girl and we've been gojng out for like 4 months but only see eachother a few hours a week. I REALLY wanna slash her mums tyres but that might make things worse :p.

[QUOTE=BrownSugar]FU[color=black]CK[/color]! my gfs family are a bunch of head cases. Ok she is a year younger than me and still at school, I left school last year. They for some reason see this as a problem. It took them 3 months for them to work up the manners to invite me round to meet them. Even then her mother didnt say two words to me all night, she went off to her room. Her dad was ok though. Apparently when you leave school your future goes out the window and your priorities change (meaning I only want to have sex with her). So every time I see her she needs to make up some excuse.

This weekend her folks are away so her older sister is babysitting and she STILL isnt allowed to see me. Cos her sister doesnt want to get in trouble with her parents. Can this woman not keep her mouth shut or something. Fu[color=black]c[/color]kin christians and their wierd fuc[color=black]k[/color]in ideas.

What should I do? I like this girl and we've been gojng out for like 4 months but only see eachother a few hours a week. I REALLY wanna slash her mums tyres but that might make things worse :p.[/QUOTE]
Have you had sex with her? coz if you have, she may hav told her mum and she may want to slash [I]your[/I] tyres. Why dont you do something to prove you are responsible and are doing something with ur life.

I dont usually post my L&R things on here but here goes:
I've liked this chick for a while now, we always flirt and we hang out after skool. Shes a year older than me but she looks like the same age as me. So anyway i was talking to her on the phone the other night and she was really hypo and her mum yelled @ her to get off the phone so she did n she sent me a message saying "I need to tell you something"

So i 4got about that message until yesterday on the bus (she lives around the corner from me), so i ask her about it, n she says d/w i might tell you later. so we were talking yesterday arvo, n i finally got it out of her that the thing was that she liked me.

So I told her i liked her to, after she got all embarrassed about telling me, n then we say we dunno wats gonna happen coz we dont wanna ruin our friendship coz we hav so much fun. and now we wait.

Oh nah she doesnt go very far so theres no danger of havin sex with her. Her Dad finds me ok, we had this big chat about why Ive left school and my plans with life and sh[color=black]i[/color]t. Its just her Mum that thinks I'm a bum.

And I say go for it man. Unless youve been friends since you were kids or something I reckon you should. If your pretty good friends with her now youll both have a great time going out with eachother. I was like that with one of my gfs, had the best times for about 6 months til we got tired of it and went seperate ways. We're still really good friends though.