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Iai 12-19-2004 07:13 AM

Opinions, people!!

Behind door #1 we have my most recent girlfriend. You know, the one ZERO said looks like Bjork. I suppose I'm still technically involved with her, but it seems to change on a daily basis. She's developing a nasty habit of constantly playing me off another guy to get me (and probably him) jealous. And she's prone to violent moodswings, thanks to all the emtional baggage she's bringing out of her last relationship.

Behind door #2 we have a semi-girlfriend from a while ago. She recently got back in contact with me to tell how upset she is that we never see each other any more. The reason we "broke up" is that she decided she didn't want to see me any more, because she was getting too close to me and didn't want to get hurt. Afriad of her own feelings, or she just didn't like me any more? You decide. In any case, I thought I was over her, but the girl behind door #1 told me a couple days ago that she had a boyfriend, and it hit me really hard. Door #2 girl denies this strenuously and says I'm her last kiss, let alone relationship.

Behind door #3 we have another girl entirely, who I've only ever spoken to once, but got along with really well. She recently got dumped by her boyfriend, and she works with my best friend, who can put several good words in. Should she be interested, she'd offer me an escape route from all the emotional problems girls #1 and #2 have. It'd seriously piss off girl #1, but I'm pretty sure she doesn't view our relationship as entirely exclusive, as evidenced by various reports I've had from my scouts in various nightclubs.

Opinions, ppl? #1, #2, #3, or a magical door #4?

Tapeworm 12-19-2004 07:38 AM

I'd say either of the last two. The first one is definately out, but yeah, your choice mo fo.

Iai 12-19-2004 08:28 AM

The problem with #1 is that I'm afraid she's dependant on me to get her away from her ex. And she's still my friend, and I don't want to see her back with him. But to contrast that, she's always with this other guy.

Happymeal 12-19-2004 08:51 AM

[QUOTE=Master Arkam Kannon]you're basing it on the person and not the drugs themselves. if a person's a prick they're gonna be a prick on drugs or off. lots of good people do drugs (like my 80 year old friend) and they dont hurt themselves or anyone else because of it. drugs arent the problem, its the people themselves who use them wrong. you've just grown up in a world that looks down on people who do drugs which greatly affects your view of them. i was once like you, i dispised them but eventually came to the conclusion that i was being brainwashed into not thinking for myself and learning from my own experiences, not of others.[/QUOTE]

Yes, you're quite right there. I've never done drugs so I don't have any hands-on experience. But still, not just because of my Catholic orientation, I totally disapprove of drug addiction. Sure, you'll get a high everyday if you choose to, and make you feel good for a period of time. Sooner or later however, your body's gonna take its toll, and there's a possibility that you'll carry it(diseases, disorders, etc) over to your future kids. In the long run, it won't do anyone any good. I'm not angry at the people themselves who do drugs 'cause they're addicted, I'm angry at the decisions they make to get in that situation.

incubliss 12-19-2004 08:52 AM

don't go out with someone just to piss someone else off.

that's horrible.

...and you've spoken to her once? come on man, use your brain here. :p

Happymeal 12-19-2004 08:54 AM

incubliss!!:wave:

Christmas vacation is the balls.

Iai 12-19-2004 08:55 AM

No, I was just saying it would piss her off, as a thought on why it's a bad idea. Not that it's my intention.

My brain hurts right now, because #1 and #2 are collaborating to confuse me and piss me off. That's why #3 appeals to me. It's an escape route.

Iai 12-19-2004 09:03 AM

It all depends on whether #2 has decided she's ready for a relationship yet.

Ugh, I'm gonna go live in a cave and masturbate with rocks.

Happymeal 12-19-2004 09:18 AM

[QUOTE=Iai]Ugh, I'm gonna go live in a cave and masturbate with rocks.[/QUOTE]

Better yet, do that.

..but I'd go with #2. I think you just have to give her a little push to get things going. It'll be slow, but hopefully it's gonna be steady for you two, and productive in the long run.

You could go with #1, but then it'll be a one-way relationship, methinks..

Luxor 12-19-2004 09:19 AM

[QUOTE=Iai]Behind door #2 we have a semi-girlfriend from a while ago. She recently got back in contact with me to tell how upset she is that we never see each other any more. The reason we "broke up" is that she decided she didn't want to see me any more, because she was getting too close to me and didn't want to get hurt. Afriad of her own feelings, or she just didn't like me any more? You decide. In any case, I thought I was over her, but the girl behind door #1 told me a couple days ago that she had a boyfriend, and it hit me really hard. Door #2 girl denies this strenuously and says I'm her last kiss, let alone relationship.[/QUOTE]
Whoa, the [i]exact[/i] same thing happened to me last year. I took back "number #2" and she broke up with me a week and a half later again. Pftt, women... they never know what they really want.

Happymeal 12-19-2004 09:23 AM

[QUOTE=IhateUsernames]Pftt, women... they never know what they really want.[/QUOTE]

True, true.



/male bonding

Iai 12-19-2004 10:19 AM

The L&R thread's got nothing on us.

Wanker 12-19-2004 10:57 AM

[QUOTE=Iai]Opinions, ppl? #1, #2, #3, or a magical door #4?[/QUOTE]

I say be glad that you have any doors at all. :upset:

But other than that, I'd say go for #3. Not only because 3 and the # sign are one the same button, but because it sounds like you could use a completely fresh start.

Go out and get 'em, tiger.

crazyGUITARnDRUMgal 12-19-2004 11:10 AM

definately go with door #2 , door #1 sounds like shes a handful

Tomahawk 12-19-2004 11:14 AM

Three. Unless you still feel a strong cosmic connection to the other doors.

Iai 12-19-2004 11:27 AM

[QUOTE=Wanker]I say be glad that you have any doors at all. :upset:

But other than that, I'd say go for #3. Not only because 3 and the # sign are one the same button, but because it sounds like you could use a completely fresh start.

Go out and get 'em, tiger.[/QUOTE]
The hell kinda keyboard do you have?

RIPJoeStrummer 12-19-2004 11:33 AM

the normal kind...

Wanker 12-19-2004 11:33 AM

One where the numbers [i]1234567890[/i] line up with the symbols [i]!@#$%^&*()[/i].

I'm pretty sure it's standard.

Iai 12-19-2004 11:37 AM

On mine, 1234567890 line up with !"£$%^&*()

I guess mine had to make room for our currency. (£)

# is way over next to Enter, along with ~. And @ is above '.

Tomahawk 12-19-2004 11:41 AM

Man, Britain is so f[size=2]u[/size]cked up.

Iai 12-19-2004 11:49 AM

Your face is so f[size=2]u[/size]cked up.

Tomahawk 12-19-2004 11:51 AM

Touché.

RIPJoeStrummer 12-19-2004 11:58 AM

Quotations in stead of @?! That's ludicrous.

Zappa 12-19-2004 12:21 PM

That is ludicrous.

Iai 12-19-2004 12:23 PM

My Pc is about 7 years old. It may have changed.

wheelz 12-19-2004 12:23 PM

that is ludacris

Wanker 12-19-2004 12:43 PM

*yawn*

Does anyone else get really tired after they take a shower?

Iai 12-19-2004 12:47 PM

Every time I look at the most recent poat in Alt/Indie, and it says 'The Community Thread - Wanker', I die a little inside.

Wanker 12-19-2004 01:38 PM

That's too bad.

I don't understand why you're hatin' so much.

Zappa 12-19-2004 01:41 PM

New avatar!


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