This is a quick question for the experienced lovers here.

A girl I know hasn't lost her vaginity yet and she's heard that using a condom makes it hurt more than when the guy is not; and is asking for my advice. Is this true? Ladies, any truth to this?

I don't know the truth to this so I ask.

[QUOTE=AmericanWeiner]My ex has a boyfriend.

I'm feeling a little sick. :([/QUOTE]

It happens, man. It'll subside soon.

[quote=Burrito]This is a quick question for the experienced lovers here.

A girl I know hasn't lost her vaginity yet and she's heard that using a condom makes it hurt more than when the guy is not; and is asking for my advice. Is this true? Ladies, any truth to this?

I don't know the truth to this so I ask.[/quote]

Uh, well, if she hasn't had sex yet, of course it's going to hurt, regardless if her hymen is still intact or not.

And she should still nevertheless practice some form of safe sex. A condom doesn't prevent all pregancies, but they're a hell of a lot safer than going there pro-boner (Simpsons reference ftw). Having sex minus a condom is not going to bode well if she's not on the pill or on any other contraceptives.

[QUOTE=Jom]It happens, man. It'll subside soon.



Uh, well, if she hasn't had sex yet, of course it's going to hurt, regardless if her hymen is still intact or not.

And she should still nevertheless practice some form of safe sex. A condom doesn't prevent all pregancies, but they're a hell of a lot safer than going there pro-boner (Simpsons reference ftw). Having sex minus a condom is not going to bode well if she's not on the pill or on any other contraceptives.[/QUOTE]


123, and might I recommend lube?

Yeah she's on the pill. She just wants to know whether him using a condom will make it hurt more than without.

[QUOTE=Jom]It happens, man. It'll subside soon.
[/QUOTE]

It's been three months.

I just realized today that I should probably start flirting with girls again. :p

I am starting to feel better, though.

[QUOTE=Kickflip_Burrito]Yeah she's on the pill. She just wants to know whether him using a condom will make it hurt more than without.[/QUOTE]

Have him stick his dong all the way in the lube/Vaseline jar before insertion.

You know...there's lube on the market these days that doesn't require doing that...

Kimmie's sarcasm detector is broken ITT

No, dude. It's detecting everything. But yours, however...I dunno.

Nah, its cool. Eggo better watch out.



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i found out long distance relationships wont work for me, and I got a job, so I am going to be be getting out more often.

That guy you liked didn't work out, huh?

But good on you for your job.

Yeah. It didnt work out. If we lived in the same city, then I think it could have, but yeah.

I got a job at Foods Co, so I got money to do stuff again.

Damn, Gregg. That's too bad it didn't work out. Why, if I may ask?

I didnt really like the distance. And he met a girl that he might want to pursue, and there was no way for me to even visit him before June, so I didnt want to tell him to wait for me to come, so I told him that we would just be friends.

Alright so today is my girlfriends birthday and i'm taking her out tomorrow. I'm taking her to a movie, dinner, and then probably back to my house. however i am stuck between a couple different places where to eat. The choices are:

Applebee's
This japanese place that's mad expensive, but they do the thing where they cook the food in front of you.
This Italian place my neighbor owns, but my mom works there.

which place sounds good. Oh and the first two are within walking distance of the theater, the italian place is a 20 minute drive, maybe longer (plus, it's not me driving cause i can't drive.)

Japenese. Deffinetly.
Best food. good times.

[QUOTE=ThePinkPanther]Alright so today is my girlfriends birthday and i'm taking her out tomorrow. I'm taking her to a movie, dinner, and then probably back to my house. however i am stuck between a couple different places where to eat. The choices are:

Applebee's
This japanese place that's mad expensive, but they do the thing where they cook the food in front of you.
This Italian place my neighbor owns, but my mom works there.

which place sounds good. Oh and the first two are within walking distance of the theater, the italian place is a 20 minute drive, maybe longer (plus, it's not me driving cause i can't drive.)[/QUOTE]
The Japanese one.

The japanese.
Its expensive, which will earn you later.
And would you really wanna go on a date in front of your mom?

[QUOTE=Banshee]The japanese.
Its expensive, which will earn you later.
And would you really wanna go on a date in front of your mom?[/QUOTE]

haha my mom would be busy working anyways, and no.

I'm wondering if 60 bucks will be enough to take her to the movies and dinner at that place. Minus about 15 (less really) for the movies.

[QUOTE=Banshee]The japanese.
Its expensive, which will earn you later.
And would you really wanna go on a date in front of your mom?[/QUOTE]


would it be innapropriate you suggest you change your usertitle to "iDrool"
?:)


[QUOTE=ThePinkPanther]haha my mom would be busy working anyways, and no.

I'm wondering if 60 bucks will be enough to take her to the movies and dinner at that place. Minus about 15 (less really) for the movies.[/QUOTE]

Probably, if not, share.

OR do what i still do at 15, and pretend to be 12 so you can eat off the kids menue for < halfprice. :cool:

[QUOTE=ThePinkPanther]haha my mom would be busy working anyways, and no.

I'm wondering if 60 bucks will be enough to take her to the movies and dinner at that place. Minus about 15 (less really) for the movies.[/QUOTE]

So you'll have 45 bucks for dinner? That'll probably be enough (if the restaurant has a website you could go see if they have a menu on it) because you guys won't be drinking alcohol, and that really screws up the total. I know.

Also, they might have a set price for a dinner for two.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]So you'll have 45 bucks for dinner? That'll probably be enough (if the restaurant has a website you could go see if they have a menu on it) because you guys won't be drinking alcohol, and that really screws up the total. I know.

Also, they might have a set price for a dinner for two.[/QUOTE]

Well i may squeeze 80 bucks out of my buddy who's giving me the money (don't think i'm borrowing it, we have a business, and i'm just getting some money early). Cause 65 would be plenty for dinner. And yeah, the lack of alcohol would cheapen it up.

My town is small and sucks for meeting new girls because I know pretty much every girl in my town that's my age.

Lucky for me I'm meeting someone from a town a few towns over at a show next Friday. Well, hopefully.

I could always hit the younger girls considering half them think I'm hot, but.. :-\

no. stay away from the younger chicks.

unless they arent that much younger than you.


and Japanese for the date guy.

eh only a one or two year difference..

two might be a bit large considering I'm still in high school.

this is the menu to the place

[url]http://web.archive.org/web/20041028071127/plumhouse-plumgarden.com/plumgarden_dinnermenu.asp[/url]

That place sounds soo good :(

I'm so hungry. Ugh.. I don't know what to make for dinner.

Have fun there. It should be quite good. 'specially with the movie afterwards.

[QUOTE=ThePinkPanther]this is the menu to the place

[url]http://web.archive.org/web/20041028071127/plumhouse-plumgarden.com/plumgarden_dinnermenu.asp[/url][/QUOTE]

I'm thinking 45 isn't going to be enough.

The dinner for two menu will run you over $30 if you decide to go with that.

And ordering ala carte will also be around that or more.

Plus you have drinks and a tip.

Sigh...

Out of nowhere my girlfriend is mad.. she gets mad a lot, and a lot of times I don't even know what I do wrong. We usually get over it because she realizes she loves me too much to stay mad at me.. but I think this time it's serious. I call her and she always picks up and hangs up. When she actually says something it's always something like:

"You should be with someone who deserves you / She's out there, wait for her / I won't be that girl, you deserve better blah blah"

It's like she is trying to get me to leave because she knows she hurts me a lot, and she doesn't want me to be hurt blah blah. Thats what it appears to be anyways, I'm not sure if she's lying or just trying to get out of this but if that's the case I have NO idea why she doesnt just break up with me herself. I truly think she has all the same feelings for me. She constantly calls and lets it ring just so I see it and call her back, and that's when she either picks up and hangs up, or doesn't pick up at all. It REALLY makes me mad and I think that's where she's trying to get me.

But ohhh how I hate my feelings for her.. I want to get over her SOON as in NOW if that's what I really must do, because it is not fair how she's treating me. I want to get revenge on her soo much.. emotional revenge. I want her to feel my pain. I want her to realize what she's taken for granted. That's just my bad side talking, I still love her. But something is wrong.. because I mean the world to her.. I just know I do

Wait, is that American?

Holy sh[U]i[/U]t that place [I]is[/I] expensive.

I spend less than that on food in Canadian $$$s.

[QUOTE]But ohhh how I hate my feelings for her.. I want to get over her SOON as in NOW if that's what I really must do, because it is not fair how she's treating me. I want to get revenge on her soo much.. emotional revenge. I want her to feel my pain. I want her to realize what she's taken for granted. That's just my bad side talking, I still love her. But something is wrong.. because I mean the world to her.. I just know I do[/QUOTE]It sounds to me like you are trying to convince yourself that she feels for you what you feel for her. Yet I think you know that certainly seems that's not the case.

In my opinion you should probably confront her about it, and if it continues then get out of the relationship and try and move on. Hurtful relationships aren't good ones. This is from semi-experience.