Well yeah, you told him to make new friends and I was meaning more 'if you prefer being antisocial then don't bother.'

[QUOTE=nowhesingsnowhesobs]dunno how the internets is really going to help[/QUOTE]
The internets don't help at all, probably makes it worse, haha. That's one reason i've stayed off it more lately. I'm piecing together a social life.

One thing I found out, if you hang out with mostly girls, the guys aren't going to like you very much, so try to hang out with guys. lol

[QUOTE=Tess-Tube Baby]Well yeah, you told him to make new friends and I was meaning more 'if you prefer being antisocial then don't bother.'[/QUOTE]
He's not happy being antisocial though, sounds like he's wanting his friends. It he's happier being thath way, then just do whatever he wants, if he's wanting to make some friends or improve himself in social situations, follow my advice.

I'm sure someone will come along and give better advice though.

EDIT: these last few posts have so many errors, I'm not going to bother fixing them.

hey thaks for the advice and stuff. also with the sarcasim, i try to advoid it cause im not good at it, and people will take it literal, haha, and so then i have to take time to tell them that i was being sarcastic which suks.so i advoid sarcasim.

2 more days to go :)
sierra will be in Dublin =o

so i decided to go and meet her in Dublin instead of her taking the bus down to me, and since she is there realy early in the morning, we are gonna go around dublin for the day as she has never been.

yay :)

cant wait!

sorry if im intruding on a big discussion. i need a bit of advice.

my girlfriends parents are right pricks. they only let her out once a weekend. and she always has to ask for extentions on her "curfew" so to speak. which then leads to her getting shouted at later on.

theyre rele strict. anyone got any advice? past experiences?

thanks guys

[QUOTE=ledzeprock]sorry if im intruding on a big discussion. i need a bit of advice.

my girlfriends parents are right pricks. they only let her out once a weekend. and she always has to ask for extentions on her "curfew" so to speak. which then leads to her getting shouted at later on.

theyre rele strict. anyone got any advice? past experiences?

thanks guys[/QUOTE]

I've had past experiences, but it didn't bother me as much as it seems to be bothering you. You are just going to have to learn to deal with it.

[QUOTE=ledzeprock]sorry if im intruding on a big discussion. i need a bit of advice.

my girlfriends parents are right pricks. they only let her out once a weekend. and she always has to ask for extentions on her "curfew" so to speak. which then leads to her getting shouted at later on.

theyre rele strict. anyone got any advice? past experiences?

thanks guys[/QUOTE]
You can't really do anything about it. If it bugs you too much and things aren't too serious, then just break up with her. But if you care about her too much, then you'll have to learn to live with it.

[QUOTE=Tess-Tube Baby]You can't really do anything about it. If it bugs you too much and things aren't too serious, then just break up with her. But if you care about her too much, then you'll have to learn to live with it.[/QUOTE]

yeah but surely theres a way around it?

[QUOTE=ledzeprock]sorry if im intruding on a big discussion. i need a bit of advice.

my girlfriends parents are right pricks. they only let her out once a weekend. and she always has to ask for extentions on her "curfew" so to speak. which then leads to her getting shouted at later on.

theyre rele strict. anyone got any advice? past experiences?

thanks guys[/QUOTE]
how old is she?

[QUOTE=~grif~]how old is she?[/QUOTE]

16 on the 26th may

EDIT: and im 16

[QUOTE=ledzeprock]yeah but surely theres a way around it?[/QUOTE]
Not really.

[QUOTE=ledzeprock]16 on the 26th may[/QUOTE]
well there you have it, she is pretty young, as she gets older she will probably get more time to go out.
maybe in her parents eyes she isnt trust worthy when out.
or maybe they are over protective,

as the lads said, learn to deal with it. Nothing you can do.

[QUOTE=~grif~]well there you have it, she is pretty young, as she gets older she will probably get more time to go out.
maybe in her parents eyes she isnt trust worthy when out.
or maybe they are over protective,

as the lads said, learn to deal with it. Nothing you can do.[/QUOTE]

oh fair enough. cheers anyway guys! :)

[QUOTE=ledzeprock]sorry if im intruding on a big discussion. i need a bit of advice.

my girlfriends parents are right pricks. they only let her out once a weekend. and she always has to ask for extentions on her "curfew" so to speak. which then leads to her getting shouted at later on.

theyre rele strict. anyone got any advice? past experiences?

thanks guys[/QUOTE]
Don't worry about. just abide by their rules and show them you're a good kid, and they'll slowly start letting her have more privilages around you. You gotta understand that they probably don't want their daughter out with some kid.

If I had a daughter, I'd probably rip the head off any male that even looked at her. :p

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Don't worry about. just abide by their rules and show them you're a good kid, and they'll slowly start letting her have more privilages around you. You gotta understand that they probably don't want their daughter out with some kid.

If I had a daughter, I'd probably rip the head off any male that even looked at her. :p[/QUOTE]

its early days. but yeah i did get the "omfg bejesus a boy with my daughter" look when i met them. her mum seemed cool though. friendly like

You just got to wait it out and get them to trust you. It's the only thing you can do without causing any trouble.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]You just got to wait it out and get them to trust you. It's the only thing you can do without causing any trouble.[/QUOTE]

touche

Ok problem!

This spring break I want to bring some friends down to my grandmas house at the shore, two guys and two girls. I already got the ok from my rents and the one girls parents said no. Its basically cause they dont know me, so I figure I will try and meet them and see if I can get them to change their minds, any help please! I'm dieing here cause I want her to go BADLY!

[QUOTE=Wizard.]You just got to wait it out and get them to trust you. It's the only thing you can do without causing any trouble.[/QUOTE]

i'm in the same boat. Just try to get by with going out when u can. Once a weekend isnt bad. I cant do anything so be lucky.

[QUOTE=AtomShip]Ok problem!

This spring break I want to bring some friends down to my grandmas house at the shore, two guys and two girls. I already got the ok from my rents and the one girls parents said no. Its basically cause they dont know me, so I figure I will try and meet them and see if I can get them to change their minds, any help please! I'm dieing here cause I want her to go BADLY![/QUOTE]
just be nice, be honest.
Im real good with parents for some reason lol.
dont be an idiot.

and dont come off trying to explain what you are doing down there even if it is just swimming or whatever. dont be suspicious even if you are telling the truth ya know.

but good luck - and have fun.

So the girl I was ot with on friday turned out to be a not very nice person, I wont go into details but she's no-longer at the forefront of my mind 24/7.


I have a date in a week with a girl called Steph, who is lovely :) I plan to take her to a horror movie so I can hold her hand when she jumps :p After some hot chocolate.

Good stuff.

[QUOTE=AG]So the girl I was ot with on friday turned out to be a not very nice person, I wont go into details but she's no-longer at the forefront of my mind 24/7.[/QUOTE]

Ho, ho! You must go into at least two (2) details.*




*every single detail

But good luck with this Steph lass. Hopefully she doesn't suck as bad as this other girl.

[QUOTE=AG]So the girl I was ot with on friday turned out to be a not very nice person, I wont go into details but she's no-longer at the forefront of my mind 24/7.


I have a date in a week with a girl called Steph, who is lovely :) I plan to take her to a horror movie so I can hold her hand when she jumps :p After some hot chocolate.

Good stuff.[/QUOTE]
But was it a dissapointment as in "oh man I thought she was different" or you were in the train of thought of "man she's a bitch and I think I can tame her"?

Well, originally she was gonna come with me to the club, but then last minute dumped me to go with her friend Fiona. So I arrange that we'll meet up inside and hang out and stuff.

I go with my friends and when she turns up I offer to buy her a drink, and of course, she accepts. Literally [I]as soon[/I] as the drink is in her hand, she turned and is walking away from me towards a group of her elite friends (who are obviously cooler than me) so I think, that's alright; she's just turned up, she'll wanna say hello to people.

After waiting outside of the group for about 10 minutes so I could finally have a word with the lass she starts making out with this guy right in front of me (remembering that she knew I liked her, I'd told her and that) and I just think screw it and go home.


Definitely 'Oh man, I thought she was different' but it turns out she's not, so fu[SIZE=2]ck it, and fu[/SIZE]ck her; she's missing out on probably the nicest guy she'll ever meet.

Yeah, good luck with Steph, Aidan. :) She's pretty and stuff.

Ok, here's the deal. I cheated on my girlfriend of two years last night. I did the right thing and told her and now I'm hoping for the best. I don't really know what to do, it was so hard to tell her what I did and now i'm kinda stuck. I do love her, so I don't want to hear anyone judging me on that factor, or debating about hwo I don't if I did that. Frankly, It was a mistake that I will never let happen again. I'm stuck with what I did and it's tearing me apart, I can only imagine what it's doing to her. I wanna save this but it's really hard and a long shot. Anyone got any advice?

How did the cheating occur?

[QUOTE=AG]Definitely 'Oh man, I thought she was different' but it turns out she's not, so **** it, and **** her; she's missing out on probably the nicest guy she'll ever meet.[/QUOTE]

Yeah those are usually the ones that hurt the most. Or the ones you know and they change for no apparent reason.

[QUOTE=Tess-Tube Baby]How did the cheating occur?[/QUOTE]


well we been having issues with each other. She's been talking to a guy who swears his love for her. He knows me and he threatened to kill me one time. Well that's all in the past and I met him and he said that he 'respects me " now. I still don't trust him, he threatened my life and tried to take my girl. He was the only reason she ever lied to me. She lied to me on big stuff. She lied about the extent of there relationship and I never could let it go. Now he's going down a bad path and she says she's "trying to help a friend get better". She doesnt understand how it ****s with me that she talks to him. She thinks its me asking her to pick over me or her friends. So I was feelign ****ty and I had a chance to kind of get her back by hanging out with this girl that she hates. That girl likes me alot and has always wanted me. And things just progressed and I wasnt thinking.

Well,now you're even.