[QUOTE=Chaindrive]And, you don't need to go back to the friends thing if you can't handle it.[/QUOTE]


I dont quite get your comment. Are you saying that going back to being friends isnt necessary if your having some difficult problems. I told her we should work them out while we are still together but she insisted on this...and I decided she can make her own decisions and she how she likes them. We'll see as time goes by i'll check back in with you guys take care!

To TheCrimsonKing, it sounds to me you feel alot more for her than she does for you. Sorry dude. Sometimes girls pull stunts like this just to get attention for you (Im a girl, I know) so give it one last try. Talk to her face to face. Tell her how much you love her and how much she is hurting you, be a bit romantic (we love that). If you still dont get anything from that its her loss.

Anyways, I'm new here, hey! :wave:

Welcome to L&R. :)

Thank you! :)

So sierra just rang me up and i dono what im feeling or anything but im just like :confused:
She was at the pub tonight with friends and she was telling me how she needs my advice on what to do - and tells me she was talking to this canadian guy with the group all night, and at the end he asked her out on a date and she thinking it was with everyone says yea and then she tells me "she realised" it was just him and her.
And im like ? how could you miss that ?
I didnt really say anything on it I was just kinda pissed or something. She was asking me if she should Stand him Up and i just said "do what you want to do" and then we started talking about how drunk she was, then i had to go and she was feeling sick anyawy. A 15min phonecall, prolly one of the shortest phonecals ive ever had with her and right now ive got this gut feeling in my stomach about it and yea.
Told her i had to go, just said bye and hungup the phone real fast. Well yea she was feeling sick so hopefully she is alright :upset:

Im really depressed. :(

why?

Everything is just wrong right now. There is no happyness at all. Its just all sadness.

[url=:)]http://www.binny.com.au/images/happy-hippo.jpg[/url]

:)

[QUOTE=The Fonz][url=:)]http://www.binny.com.au/images/happy-hippo.jpg[/url]

:)[/QUOTE]


:(.

[url]http://nowtowns.com/media/photo/16943-5670-sadpanda_thumb_large.jpg[/url] ?

:(

what specificallly is wrong? anything?

[QUOTE=The Fonz][url]http://nowtowns.com/media/photo/16943-5670-sadpanda_thumb_large.jpg[/url] ?

:(

what specificallly is wrong? anything?[/QUOTE]


Well most of my friends deserted me or we just dont talk anymore. Me and my gf just broke up and i just feel like sh[B]i[/B]t

ahhh, i see, yeah, that can tottaly suck. i went through a thing like that. but then, out of neccesity, i became much more social, and have bunch of cool friends now.


...ohh kimmmiieeeeeeee whhhheeerrrreee arrreee youuuu

[QUOTE=JohnnyT]Well most of my friends deserted me or we just dont talk anymore. Me and my gf just broke up and i just feel like sh[B]i[/B]t[/QUOTE]

Lately ive realised alot of my old friends no longer wanna hang out with me, and alot of the ones i still have are usuallys arseholes alot of the time, it sucks i know man.

Have you got any mates who still hang out with you? Just spend time with em and try to have a good time. If not try making some new friends, when i moved schools i had to make new friends all over but it usually happens pretty quick.

Why did your friends just desert you?

[QUOTE=The-Piper]Lately ive realised alot of my old friends no longer wanna hang out with me, and alot of the ones i still have are usuallys arseholes alot of the time, it sucks i know man.

Have you got any mates who still hang out with you? Just spend time with em and try to have a good time. If not try making some new friends, when i moved schools i had to make new friends all over but it usually happens pretty quick.

Why did your friends just desert you?[/QUOTE]


There arseholes.

[QUOTE=JohnnyT]There arseholes.[/QUOTE]

Ahh i see, sounds alot like the ones i used to hang out with. So are there other friends you can hang out with? And what happened with your girl?

So, because of the whole parent thing, Pamela and I ALMOST broke up. We talked to eachother about it and decided to stay together.

I talked to her parents, and they've agreed to let me go over to their house and her come over to mine, just a little less often, seeing as I was over there pretty much everyday.

So yeah, go me. :)

[QUOTE=Tillius]So, because of the whole parent thing, Pamela and I ALMOST broke up. We talked to eachother about it and decided to stay together.

I talked to her parents, and they've agreed to let me go over to their house and her come over to mine, just a little less often, seeing as I was over there pretty much everyday.

So yeah, go me. :)[/QUOTE]

That's good to hear.:thumb:

OOOHH!!!! I'm so happy, Elyse's parents decided not to punish her because they found it unfair and wouldn't help matters, and just make them worse if she couldn't see her friends. So we both plan to go to the mall this weekend like originally. SO HAPPY!!!! :D

[QUOTE=Pazz]That's good to hear.:thumb:[/QUOTE]
Yeah.

Apparently her mom talked to a [I]male adult[/I] whose [I]good friends[/I] with me and heard nothing but [I]good things[/I].

yay for both of ye :D
*grif goes and smokes a mayfair*

Aint it good when things work emselves out. Good to hear both of you.

[QUOTE=~grif~]So sierra just rang me up and i dono what im feeling or anything but im just like :confused:
She was at the pub tonight with friends and she was telling me how she needs my advice on what to do - and tells me she was talking to this canadian guy with the group all night, and at the end he asked her out on a date and she thinking it was with everyone says yea and then she tells me "she realised" it was just him and her.
And im like ? how could you miss that ?
I didnt really say anything on it I was just kinda pissed or something. She was asking me if she should Stand him Up and i just said "do what you want to do" and then we started talking about how drunk she was, then i had to go and she was feeling sick anyawy. A 15min phonecall, prolly one of the shortest phonecals ive ever had with her and right now ive got this gut feeling in my stomach about it and yea.
Told her i had to go, just said bye and hungup the phone real fast. Well yea she was feeling sick so hopefully she is alright :upset:[/QUOTE]

She needs to get ahold of this Canadian guy and tell him she didn't realize that the date would be just her and him, and that she has a boyfriend.

[quote=The Fonz]...ohh kimmmiieeeeeeee whhhheeerrrreee arrreee youuuu[/quote]

I'm here, but I'm leaving in like 10 minutes to go home from work.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]She needs to get ahold of this Canadian guy and tell him she didn't realize that the date would be just her and him, and that she has a boyfriend.



I'm here, but I'm leaving in like 10 minutes to go home from work.[/QUOTE]

If you had to say, would the best way to get some "sort of friends" as in, new ones, who are friends witha friend, you like you more, and they were all badgering you know, "you wanna give me one" "PFTT no" would the best way to handle it be to just be nice, and give in, or stand my ground, but still give in every so often so they dont think im a jerk (george washington style)

Im sorry its so porrly typed. I'm tired and bored out of my mind.

haha, wow, thats really hard to read. sorry. just ignore it. Its not a big problem. and its slowly working itself out.

Okay.

I tried to put my mind around it but it wasn't happening. :p

[U]In Dis Post:[/U]

I suck at judging whether people like me or not.

[QUOTE=The-Piper]Ahh i see, sounds alot like the ones i used to hang out with. So are there other friends you can hang out with? And what happened with your girl?[/QUOTE]


It something i would not rather explain.

Yeah grif i agree with kimmie that she has to tell the canadian guy about the mixup. It would be unfair on both you and him if she was to leave it. But i wouldn't be too worried yourself about your gf, its pretty obvious she cares a great deal about you and if she had any intention of actually going on the date then she wouldn't have told you. I reckon she probably feels a little guilty and thinks you are upset with her about this. Anyways good luck im sure you two can work it out fine.

EDIT: To John:

Fair enough, sounds like you need some time to just think to yourself, listen to some soothing music and forget about all this crap in your life at the moment. It helps alot, and after that, go out and try to make new friends, have fun and forget about those arseholes.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Okay.

I tried to put my mind around it but it wasn't happening. :p[/QUOTE]

Its made sense up here*points to head*, but when i type it, it just doesnt work out. It happenes alot. I'm tired. sorry. lol

[QUOTE=The-Piper]Yeah grif i agree with kimmie that she has to tell the canadian guy about the mixup. It would be unfair on both you and him if she was to leave it. But i wouldn't be too worried yourself about your gf, its pretty obvious she cares a great deal about you and if she had any intention of actually going on the date then she wouldn't have told you. I reckon she probably feels a little guilty and thinks you are upset with her about this. Anyways good luck im sure you two can work it out fine.
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Thanks man, that made me feel better :) You make sense.

Thanks chaindrive too..

im not going to ask her to explain the mix up or stand him up. She'll know what to do, she'll do the right thing. I know she will.
Maybe il suggest it lol