[QUOTE]damnit, its just hitting me today

so for the past 4 months or so my best friend david has been hearing a buzzing noise in his ear. Like 2 months ago the doctors said it maybe a small chance of a brain tumor or something just as serious. Well they asked him to come in later and just a week ago he got an MRI. I'm not sure what that means but i hear that that could mean something is up. He hasn't gotten the results back yet though..

its just hitting me now and i broke down crying when i was driving my friend angela home while we were listening to Lazarus (one of davids favorite songs and mine too) at the part:

My David don't you worry
This cold world is not for you
So rest your head upon me
I have strength to carry you

i really hope im just over exaggarating this[/QUOTE]
Tbh it sounds like what my dad has. He has tinnitus which is a hissing/ringing of the ears. His is a hissing and it's something to do with him being able to hear the messages going to his brain. I'm not really sure.
Also I didn't get my MRI scan results back for just over a week when I had one for my back so I doubt that in itself is anything to worry about. Just keep your head up and be strong for him no matter what happens :)

[QUOTE=Herbert_da_fish]Tbh it sounds like what my dad has. He has tinnitus which is a hissing/ringing of the ears. His is a hissing and it's something to do with him being able to hear the messages going to his brain.[/QUOTE]

I have tinnitus. I have the ringing version. I wasn't aware it was to do with messages to the brain. I thought it was just damage to the ear drum.

[QUOTE=Chrysostom]I have tinnitus. I have the ringing version. I wasn't aware it was to do with messages to the brain. I thought it was just damage to the ear drum.[/QUOTE]
Well his is, but yours could be different. Like I said, his is a hissing which is a little unusual I think.

[QUOTE=Herbert_da_fish]Well his is, but yours could be different. Like I said, his is a hissing which is a little unusual I think.[/QUOTE]

Not so much snakes on a plane as snakes on the brain.

yea, i get that too sometimes. I have since taken precautions, like using ear plugs when im using my amp, or turning down the IPOD. It actually helped a lot

[QUOTE=Che Guevara]yea, i get that too sometimes. I have since taken precautions, like using ear plugs when im using my amp, or turning down the IPOD. It actually helped a lot[/QUOTE]

I did the damage with my drums I reckon.

im just saying, taking steps to help the situation goes a long way :thumb:

[QUOTE=Che Guevara]im just saying, taking steps to help the situation goes a long way :thumb:[/QUOTE]

It's not something you can get rid of. I've used ear plugs for the past couple of years. I was too late though, it seems.

ah, fair enough. My pops whines a lot about that sort of thing. Id whine about my vision, but that really wouldnt do anyone any good ya know. I kinda just keep it to myself, as opposed to trying to worrying others about a problem i seem to be dealing with

[QUOTE=Che Guevara]ah, fair enough. My pops whines a lot about that sort of thing. Id whine about my vision, but that really wouldnt do anyone any good ya know. I kinda just keep it to myself, as opposed to trying to worrying others about a problem i seem to be dealing with[/QUOTE]

Well, it doesn't hurt to let someone know, but it's good that you are dealing with it yourself. :thumb:

[QUOTE=Drone]Well, it doesn't hurt to let someone know, but it's good that you are dealing with it yourself. :thumb:[/QUOTE]


i never tried to be someone that one-upped someone when it comes to things that arent very desireable.

As far as not telling about it, i really dont want anyone to worry about it, or pressure me to get it "looked at"

Right, so.

There is this chick I like a fair chunk and I've been speaking to her and that. The thing is, she's seeing someone, but has told me that she's gonna end it because she's not happy with the guy anymore, he's too needy.

I've been spending more time with her lately, and have discussed how I like her, and if she wasn't with that bloke, I'd definately want to take her out, and she seemed to be quite happy with the idea.

I just need some advice on what to do when she breaks up with the boyfriend, how long to leave it before I make a more romantic move, whether I should be pretty open about stuff or whatever.

[QUOTE=AG]Right, so.

There is this chick I like a fair chunk and I've been speaking to her and that. The thing is, she's seeing someone, but has told me that she's gonna end it because she's not happy with the guy anymore, he's too needy.

I've been spending more time with her lately, and have discussed how I like her, and if she wasn't with that bloke, I'd definately want to take her out, and she seemed to be quite happy with the idea.

I just need some advice on what to do when she breaks up with the boyfriend, how long to leave it before I make a more romantic move, whether I should be pretty open about stuff or whatever.[/QUOTE]


well, if you like the chick, i really wouldnt worry about that other guy. As far as when to make a "move", i would just throw out subtle hints every now and again, and see how your passes are received

[QUOTE=AG]I just need some advice on what to do when she breaks up with the boyfriend, how long to leave it before I make a more romantic move, whether I should be pretty open about stuff or whatever.[/QUOTE]

Try to keep things cool for about a week/two weeks or so, and see how she's acting with you. If she's being flirty, cool, go for it, but if she seems to be a bit upset about the breakup, or unsure around you, back off a bit. Basically, just follow her lead.

Don't get too close to her too soon because it could end up to be one of those rebound situations or she might just want friendship with you. Just be careful, and don't get hurt. :) Good luck with everything.

[QUOTE=Blue Haze]Try to keep things cool for about a week/two weeks or so, and see how she's acting with you. If she's being flirty, cool, go for it, but if she seems to be a bit upset about the breakup, or unsure around you, back off a bit. Basically, just follow her lead.

Don't get too close to her too soon because it could end up to be one of those rebound situations or she might just want friendship with you. Just be careful, and don't get hurt. :) Good luck with everything.[/QUOTE]I think if she's breaking up with the guy then it's less likely for him to end up on a rebound. But definitly give it some time, and follow her lead.

meh, what do i know.

[QUOTE=Blue Haze]If she's being flirty, cool, go for it.[/QUOTE]

This girl is [I]the[/I] flirtiest girl in the world. To everyone.


I think that's why her bf is being so clingy...

I couldn't care less about that though, flirting =/= sleeping

Give it a week or two - throw her a couple bones to make her remember that you're interested.

It's not like she's going to be upset about breaking up with this guy because he's such a needy pus[font=verdana]s[/font]y.

Basically, just don't jump in ten minutes after she dumps the guy, heh.

OK, guys.

The situation I'm in has escalated to a huuuuuge confusing mesh of events that's freaking me out.

OK, the girl I like basically tells me last week she's into a friend of mine who really doesn't like her at all... not even as a friend, he's totally fake to her, and acts like her friend to her face, but has made comments such as, "she's a whore," or, "she's crazy," behind her back, and constantly just talks **** about her.

Also, in between all of this, she always yells to me from like down the hall and walks with me to my classes, even if it's the opposite direction from hers. In study hall she sits next to me a lot, and is constantly touching me, like holding my arm or grabbing at my hand, and she always seems to be waiting for me to compliment her, and at one point when her one friend was [I]jokingly[/I] hitting on me she got pissed at her. Also, out of nowhere, she wrote down her number for me. Stuff like this is getting to the point where the teacher for our one study hall keeps yelling at us for flirting too much, and that's getting ever more irritating.

I'm getting the feeling she's a) playing hard to get with my friend, b) being really weird to me for some reason, and playing hard to get with me (hopefully, but most likely not), or c) just completely crazy like my friend said.

is this all new stuff she is doing m8 since you found out she likes one of you're best m8z? Is she doing it mostly when he is there?

sounds like hard to get - but i dono man - one of those, have to be there. Have to know the girl to know what she really wants.

im not gona say "go up and talk to her" but yea - ask a friend who is there, one of her friends, yours.


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im pretty down atm.

me and sierra were gona volunteer together for a couple of months after June in England. We would of been living together and everything, but she didnt get to stay for longer because some guy from GANA is taking her place. Im right now racist against Gana and just so pissed. ugh. Why me, why dose this all have to be so difficult. Im sure it will make it worth while in the end, but i really wish it worked out. Im pretty bummed about it. On the otherside, she is coming in a week.
i think il go smoke my self to sleep now
:(

She's been like this with me for a while, like the past two months I'd say, and it's actually like that a lot of the time when my friend's not around.

EDIT: grif, I'm sorry to hear that, sounds like an unlucky situation for you :-/.

[QUOTE=Eleventeen]She's been like this with me for a while, like the past two months I'd say, and it's actually like that a lot of the time when my friend's not around.
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Is she real flirty with your friend?

And I scored my name change:thumb:

[QUOTE=Rasta Rocker]Is she real flirty with your friend?

And I scored my name change:thumb:[/QUOTE]

Not that I've noticed, no.

Congrats on your name change...I looked at it and went "name change". :)

Eleventeen, I think this girl is looking for attention, however she can get it.

I'd be talking to her and asking her what her intentions are.

Probably a good idea, im out.

[QUOTE=AG]Right, so.

There is this chick I like a fair chunk and I've been speaking to her and that. The thing is, she's seeing someone, but has told me that she's gonna end it because she's not happy with the guy anymore, he's too needy.

I've been spending more time with her lately, and have discussed how I like her, and if she wasn't with that bloke, I'd definately want to take her out, and she seemed to be quite happy with the idea.

I just need some advice on what to do when she breaks up with the boyfriend, how long to leave it before I make a more romantic move, whether I should be pretty open about stuff or whatever.[/QUOTE]

HOLY CRAP I HAVE THE SAME SITUATION!!!

Wow, hehe, I better read the advice given. I love this thread. :thumb:

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Congrats on your name change...I looked at it and went "name change". :)

Eleventeen, I think this girl is looking for attention, however she can get it.

I'd be talking to her and asking her what her intentions are.[/QUOTE]
Thanks. How are things going for you?

Posted by my psycho guy on another board:

"so i get a letter today from my eldest daughter that's right muthafukkah there'll be even more of my kind out there all in due time you touch her i kill you unless you are real charming and **** and then well anyway the letter sez that she plays guitar and likes thrash and loves me **** the fukken bed gotta get a handle on this very soon gotta spill it to her how i'm not all that good it'll werk out cuz i will be honest and she will accept me and we will be a family again and wouldn't this uh been some badassed l&r ****... "

MAN I feel great. Me and Elyse are gonna hang at the mall this weekend AND I got her number and lalalalalalala I'm a typical teenager apparently, but I'm seriously happy because I've never seen myself being this close to hanging out with such a great girl. Sorry if this seems pointless, I'm just real happy right now.

[QUOTE=Eleventeen]She's been like this with me for a while, like the past two months I'd say, and it's actually like that a lot of the time when my friend's not around.[/QUOTE]

I'd say she really has no interest in him. She was just trying to get a rise out of you.

Next time she starts flirting with you, flirt back. Tease her a bit. Call her on her behavior, but don't be rude about it. Be funny.

Congrats! :thumb: