only two ... first month, I was lazy. This past month, been busy busy busy and the pot didn't help things.

[QUOTE=g°®†]only two ... first month, I was lazy. This past month, been busy busy busy and the pot didn't help things.[/QUOTE]


Im sure. Those kind of positions tend to stay open forever though, no rush at all.

[QUOTE=Tiger]Im sure. Those kind of positions tend to stay open forever though, no rush at all.[/QUOTE]



Also, right now, I'm not hard pressed for cash. I'm doing decently (not great but I'm plenty comfortable as is). When I finally get my head on straight, I'll step it up and make the extra buck which in turn, will allow me to do more with my life.


One step at at time .... I'm a slow stepper.

yeuh that settles it im movin outta town tomorow i might not have inernet stright away so thanks

[QUOTE=aria444]yeuh that settles it im movin outta town tomorow i might not have inernet stright away so thanks[/QUOTE]


Snap decisions are the best decisions.

yeuh i jus got me bus ticket rready

[QUOTE=aria444]yeuh that settles it im movin outta town tomorow i might not have inernet stright away so thanks[/QUOTE]
Bad choice.

I thought you were in school anyway.

[quote=Damien Rhodes]I have noticed, just haven't said anything in hopes that Jom or someone would set you straight. Apparently people care more about reputation than decency.[/quote]

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]Seems like mods are playing favorites with you, and it's getting to your head.[/QUOTE]

Quit being such a whiny bitch. Seriously.

[QUOTE=Jom]Quit being such a whiny bitch. Seriously.[/QUOTE]
Start doing your job, seriously.

I don't answer to you, kid.

Just because Tiger's more 'forward' with his advice doesn't mean that I have to ban him for it. Besides, a majority of the time you're the instigator; that just gives him more fuel to add to the fire.

So, you have a couple options here: you can put him on your ignore list, or you can use your built-in ignore feature and not respond to what he says! What a concept!

Until he breaks a rule, I don't have to do [i]anything[/i].

[QUOTE=Jom]Just because Tiger's more 'forward' with his advice doesn't mean that I have to ban him for it.[/QUOTE]
Many of his recent posts aren't even advice. I wasn't even involved in the instances I'm talking about. I could care less if you banned him or not, just acknowledge that he is not some golden baby that can be a dick to people in here, when others have gotten punishment for things like that.

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes][A]cknowledge that he is not some golden baby that can be a dick to people in here, when others have gotten punishment for things like that.[/QUOTE]

I, Jom, hereby acknowledge that Tiger is not some golden baby.

[QUOTE=Jom]I, Jom, hereby acknowledge that Tiger is not some golden baby.[/QUOTE]


My whole life is a lie! :(

I fuc[SIZE="2"]ki[/SIZE]ng hate today.

I feel so God damned violent and horny at the same time, I dont know if I want to fu[SIZE="2"]c[/SIZE]k or be[SIZE="2"] fuc[/SIZE]ked.

[quote=Dot.]I fuc[SIZE=2]ki[/SIZE]ng hate today.

I feel so God damned violent and horny at the same time, I dont know if I want to fu[SIZE=2]c[/SIZE]k or be[SIZE=2] fuc[/SIZE]ked.[/quote]

How about both at the same time :O ... Ohh thats rape right? :(

To day was pretty bad, I found out that three of my close friends all "fancy" me. How do i tell them that i am not attracted to any of them without hurting them?

[QUOTE=Dot.]I fuc[SIZE="2"]ki[/SIZE]ng hate today.

I feel so God damned violent and horny at the same time, I dont know if I want to fu[SIZE="2"]c[/SIZE]k or be[SIZE="2"] fuc[/SIZE]ked.[/QUOTE]

What's the matter?

[QUOTE=marc man]To day was pretty bad, I found out that three of my close friends all "fancy" me. How do i tell them that i am not attracted to any of them without hurting them?[/QUOTE]


are they guys? :naughty:

but really, just tell them that you really would rather you don't wantto screw up your friendship and all that blah blah bull[SIZE="2"]s[/SIZE]hit

yeah just a little stupid question. dont reply if you dont want to.

erm yeah what kinda stuff do you guys buy for your girlfriends? ya know like little random gifts. because im sort of a bit of a amateur at this.

thankyou

Small stuffed animals, key chains, stuff like that.

If you see something you know she would find really useful or funny or she's wanted for a long time or something. Even if it's just a postcard or a magazine with her favourite band on the front or a new can opener. Doesn't have to be sappy.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Small stuffed animals, key chains, stuff like that.[/QUOTE]

hmmm

got any examples then?

Me? I don't know your girlfriend. :p

Have you never seen anything in a shop and thought of her? Don't you have injokes? Has she ever said I wish I had a .....?

I said to my friend a few months ago that I wish I had an anatomical skeleton and for my birthday she bought me a giant cardboard skeleton from a halloween shop etc.

[QUOTE=evilmenhavenosongs]Me? I don't know your girlfriend. :p

Have you never seen anything in a shop and thought of her? Don't you have injokes? Has she ever said I wish I had a .....?

I said to my friend a few months ago that I wish I had an anatomical skeleton and for my birthday she bought me a giant cardboard skeleton from a halloween shop etc.[/QUOTE]

hmm i see. i'll start taking notice of the hints then:thumb:

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]What's the matter?[/QUOTE]

I 2 strings broke on me today, my bridge is cheap ans messed up, and I just got pissed at everything.

I hit the punching bag in the garage until my nuckles were bruised, and it hurt me to move my arms, plus I was yelling the whole time, so now my throat is raw.

I came inside, feeling calm and actually pretty good, and then POOF, cops are at my door, asking about all the yelling. I told them that after my first week of work, I was stressed to hell, and I needed to release my frustration. THey said they heard screaming. I took them inside, showed them my sweaty shirt, and then showed them the garage and all the sweat on the ground underneath the bag and my bruised nuckles and they left, and told me to keep it down next time.


Now, what has led up to this day:

I have a job now. I like it mostly, it isnt that hard, but I hate the fact that I either work very late, or wake up very early.

And my grandmother is out of the hospital. And living with us now. She is using my bed. Thus, I sleep on the couch. It isnt a great couch, and hard to sleep on. I havent slept good in a while.


The broken strings were the straws that broke my back, and sent me into a wild rage.

So I return to L & R for help. This time for two things.

There is a girl that is in two of my classes and I have found out she has taken a liking to me. She has gotten my e-mail and constantly talks to me on MSN. Now I'm known as the nice guy, so I'm not going to block her, she will end up finding out, and I'm not going to tell her to piss off either. I let one of her good friends I liked someone else in hopes that she would pass the information to this girl and then she would stop talking to me. She's still talking to me. Should I just tell her I'm not interested?

My second problem isn't too big. But there is a girl I have started to like recently. So my friend was talking to her last Thursday about me and her hooking up. She told him she had a boyfriend, which I knew about, and he said we should atleast go get coffee. She said she would definately go if I asked her. I found out all of this late Thursday night. After my friend talked to her we were at the movies and he came and sat beside me. he immediately got up and told the girl I like to sit there instead. So we talked a bit and after the movie flirted. We then had a 4 day long weekend, so I didn't get to see her or talk to her. My bestfriend and his girlfriend (my ex-girlfriend) both think me and her would work out, but I'm not sure. Today I didn't get to talk to her much, except said bye to her. She still has a boyfriend, but he lives 45 minutes away from here and supposively they only talk every couple of days.

So I guess what I'm asking is, should I still go after her even though she has a boyfriend, and should I ask her for coffee sometime, even though I haven't talked to her a whole lot lately.

OK so I haven't updated on my situation in a while.

Last time I posted in here, I was really depressed because the girl was really like.. friendly with me for months and then tells me shes into my one friend who's a dick to her.

Anyhow, she's all of the sudden not into him.

A bit later I ask her out, she says no, because she just wants to be friends.

She tells a friend of mine that she's really attracted to me, but that I'm not her "type"

Then a bit later she dates this dude for like 5 days, and constantly spams me with how awesome he is

Then she breaks up with him

Ive given up on her by now, and I ran into a girl I was kinda going out with around new years, anyhow, she wants to do stuff with me which is awesome, so Ive basically forgotten the first girl

Then the first girl all the sudden starts looking to me for like attention or something again, and i thought I was over her, but Im totally not and now shes like leaving really obvious hints like she was doing waaaay back

I know shes just f-cking with me, but I freaking really like her a lot

[QUOTE=Eleventeen]I know shes just f-cking with me, but I freaking really like her a lot[/QUOTE]

It's because you couldn't have her. People always want what they can't have. Tell her flat out that she had her chance and wasted it.

[QUOTE=Eleventeen]OK so I haven't updated on my situation in a while.

Last time I posted in here, I was really depressed because the girl was really like.. friendly with me for months and then tells me shes into my one friend who's a dick to her.

Anyhow, she's all of the sudden not into him.

A bit later I ask her out, she says no, because she just wants to be friends.

She tells a friend of mine that she's really attracted to me, but that I'm not her "type"

Then a bit later she dates this dude for like 5 days, and constantly spams me with how awesome he is

Then she breaks up with him

Ive given up on her by now, and I ran into a girl I was kinda going out with around new years, anyhow, she wants to do stuff with me which is awesome, so Ive basically forgotten the first girl

Then the first girl all the sudden starts looking to me for like attention or something again, and i thought I was over her, but Im totally not and now shes like leaving really obvious hints like she was doing waaaay back

I know shes just f-cking with me, but I freaking really like her a lot[/QUOTE]

Dude, I don't know what to say. Who knows, maybe Katie will come around. It definitely is screwed up, but man, this other girl sounds promising. Seems like Katie's just leading you on...

[QUOTE=Steerpike]It's because you couldn't have her. People always want what they can't have. Tell her flat out that she had her chance and wasted it.[/QUOTE]I couldn't agree more.

Anyways, I always seem to have trouble getting into relationships. I don't get hints from girls, and they basically need to flat out tell me they like me to get me to ask them out. After that happens it just seems weird, like I never know what to say to them, and I probably come off as a jerk for not talking to them. Any ideas?

[QUOTE=Pazz]My second problem isn't too big. But there is a girl I have started to like recently. So my friend was talking to her last Thursday about me and her hooking up. She told him she had a boyfriend, which I knew about, and he said we should atleast go get coffee. She said she would definately go if I asked her. I found out all of this late Thursday night. After my friend talked to her we were at the movies and he came and sat beside me. he immediately got up and told the girl I like to sit there instead. So we talked a bit and after the movie flirted. We then had a 4 day long weekend, so I didn't get to see her or talk to her. My bestfriend and his girlfriend (my ex-girlfriend) both think me and her would work out, but I'm not sure. Today I didn't get to talk to her much, except said bye to her. She still has a boyfriend, but he lives 45 minutes away from here and supposively they only talk every couple of days.

So I guess what I'm asking is, should I still go after her even though she has a boyfriend, and should I ask her for coffee sometime, even though I haven't talked to her a whole lot lately.[/QUOTE]
This may not be the best advice or anything, but if it was me, I would back off the girl. Give the dude some respect, you wouldn't want another guy all over of her if she was your gal, would you? She's in a relationship, and unless she shows that she's more interested in you, don't try to get involved with her.

[QUOTE=zerosk8er1988]I couldn't agree more.

Anyways, I always seem to have trouble getting into relationships. I don't get hints from girls, and they basically need to flat out tell me they like me to get me to ask them out. After that happens it just seems weird, like I never know what to say to them, and I probably come off as a jerk for not talking to them. Any ideas?[/QUOTE]

This is something that only comes with practice. Do you know what the biggest sign that a girl is interested in you is? She's still talking to you.

Learn to be a little less self-conscious. Start trying to make short conversations with everyone you know. Take it in steps, gradually learning to sustain longer conversations. You'll see progress quicker than you think. It's much easier if you ask people, "How you doing?" or some variation thereof.

[QUOTE=Steerpike]This is something that only comes with practice. Do you know what the biggest sign that a girl is interested in you is? She's still talking to you.
[/QUOTE]


whew. I got a chance.

So i have been broken up from my ex GF for a year today and last night dreamt about her for the 2nd night on the run, this is driving me insane becuase they have been really happy dreams if you get me? Like we get back together and work stuff out and stuff. We were together 6 months i have had 1 or 2 GF's since but i can't get her out my system this really driving me insane. Anyone been throught the same? Any one got any advice of how to get her out my system? I haven't seen her since we have split up but everytime i see a car that looks like her Mum's i am always straining to see if it is her and if i see someone who looks like her around i am always double checking. HELP!

[QUOTE=Grego1985]So i have been broken up from my ex GF for a year today and last night dreamt about her for the 2nd night on the run, this is driving me insane becuase they have been really happy dreams if you get me? Like we get back together and work stuff out and stuff. We were together 6 months i have had 1 or 2 GF's since but i can't get her out my system this really driving me insane. Anyone been throught the same? Any one got any advice of how to get her out my system? I haven't seen her since we have split up but everytime i see a car that looks like her Mum's i am always straining to see if it is her and if i see someone who looks like her around i am always double checking. HELP![/QUOTE]

Yeah I know what you mean and I went through the same sort of thing. As much as you probably dont want to hear it you need to forget about her and just let time handle things. Moving on and finding someone else wouldnt be a good idea because deep down inside you should know that this girl you have moved on to is only a 'rebound'.

[QUOTE=Yppolitia]Yeah I know what you mean and I went through the same sort of thing. As much as you probably dont want to hear it you need to forget about her and just let time handle things. Moving on and finding someone else wouldnt be a good idea because deep down inside you should know that this girl you have moved on to is only a 'rebound'.[/QUOTE]
I admit it she was a rebound no real feelings there tbh just sex. Yes i know i am a arse before anyone tells me. Just i have a few friends who have been thru the same as me and were single for a few months then got with someone and it makes the pain go away becuase you realise how lucky you were to get away from her. But everyone is different i suppose. I could never go back to her becuase her parents would not allow it and mine would go sick at me aswell even thought i am 21 they would just advice me against it. Just a year is along time and i would have thought dreams and these feelings would be well gone by now.

[QUOTE=Grego1985]So i have been broken up from my ex GF for a year today and last night dreamt about her for the 2nd night on the run, this is driving me insane becuase they have been really happy dreams if you get me? Like we get back together and work stuff out and stuff. We were together 6 months i have had 1 or 2 GF's since but i can't get her out my system this really driving me insane. Anyone been throught the same? Any one got any advice of how to get her out my system? I haven't seen her since we have split up but everytime i see a car that looks like her Mum's i am always straining to see if it is her and if i see someone who looks like her around i am always double checking. HELP![/QUOTE]
I still dream about the girl I broke up with about a month ago, almost every night. I just suck it up and try not to think about it though. =\

Maybe you can just go out and find some new girls. Surely, you'll get over her eventually, especially if you find someone better for you.

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]I still dream about the girl I broke up with about a month ago, almost every night. I just suck it up and try not to think about it though. =\

Maybe you can just go out and find some new girls. Surely, you'll get over her eventually, especially if you find someone better for you.[/QUOTE]
Yeah you will man for the 1st couple of months like then my friends seem to get on with it as do i its just hard thats all. I am sure you will get over it man. My Mum confronted me about it today she said "Do you still miss Charlotte" i was like yeah i do more than ever for some reason, "You know she wasn't right for you right?", yeah i guess.

Man my Mum can tell a mile off when something is on my mind lol. I am sure you will aswell man.

I'm not worried about me, I know I'll get over it. I was just lettin' ya know you're not alone. I'm not too sure what you can do to get over it though, if you haen't already forgotten her over the past year. Normally I'd say go out and have fun, but I'm sure you've done that since then.

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]I'm not worried about me, I know I'll get over it. I was just lettin' ya know you're not alone. I'm not too sure what you can do to get over it though, if you haen't already forgotten her over the past year. Normally I'd say go out and have fun, but I'm sure you've done that since then.[/QUOTE]
I have been out with friends, band, gigs, shagging and mindless drinking lol. As they say i am sure in time i will get over it. Just think about the bad **** rather than the good times.