[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Do you think you'd get a straight answer if you asked her what's up? Or would she beat around the bush.[/QUOTE]
well she just signed on MSN
So lets go see hm?

Keep us posted.

i didnt attack her - although i would of if ye didnt say something. thanks for that.
i talked to her - said what i thought - told her ya know? there she was trying to explain herself - i was trying to tell her that "beyond it all" sort of thing.
now she insists on calling me to explain to make herself feel better so she can "sleep tonight"
id really rather she didnt - i did say some harsh things but ya know what im pissed. never ever been pissed at her before.

I'd be pissed, too.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I'd be pissed, too.[/QUOTE]
if you were me if if you were her?

im just looking too deep into things, i know i am. but still.

I'd be pissed if I was you and discovered what you discovered.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I'd be pissed if I was you and discovered what you discovered.[/QUOTE]
now that someone is sorta agreeing withme, its kinda making me believe it more.
lol

ugh - i really dont want to talk to her on the phone, im prolly just gona get mad, say some big lecture and hang up

Maybe you need to wait until you cool down before talking to her.

Ugh, I just learned that Elyse has sucked her ex boyfriends dick before. This is a bit alarming to me, because she doesn't seem like that type. She assures me that it was only once and it just randomly happened and she went with it, but she didn't even like it. Still, this is a bit distressing to me.

That's a natural part of being intimate with someone.

[QUOTE=Strongbad]Ugh, I just learned that Elyse has sucked her ex boyfriends dick before. This is a bit alarming to me, because she doesn't seem like that type. She assures me that it was only once and it just randomly happened and she went with it, but she didn't even like it. Still, this is a bit distressing to me.[/QUOTE]
Was this while she was dating you or when she was with him?

[QUOTE=Strongbad]Ugh, I just learned that Elyse has sucked her ex boyfriends dick before. This is a bit alarming to me, because she doesn't seem like that type. She assures me that it was only once and it just randomly happened and she went with it, but she didn't even like it. Still, this is a bit distressing to me.[/QUOTE]


Don't worry about. It was the past. and like you said, it was just ocne and she diddnt even like it. Actually, that last part would be tha alarming part for me. lol

When she was with him, like last year. And we arent dating yet, we just hang out.

Oh. Well then, tbqh, I don't see why it's getting to you. It's like Kimmie said, it's just part of intimacy.

ha I bet you wouldn't mind if she was sucking your c[b]o[/b]ck

So, she performed a sexual act with her boyfriend?

...

You guys aren't like 13 or something?



Girls are allowed to have sex you know...doesn't make them horrible people/sluts/anything really. It's like thinking a girl is dirty because she masturbates.

[QUOTE=Tess-Tube Baby]Oh. Well then, tbqh, I don't see why it's getting to you. It's like Kimmie said, it's just part of intimacy.[/QUOTE]

My guy and I had a blowout and I told him [size=2]f[/size]uck you. I'm majorly depressed here.

:(! What happened?

[QUOTE=nowhesingsnowhesobs]ha I bet you wouldn't mind if she was sucking your c[b]o[/b]ck[/QUOTE]

LMAO, that's actually what I said to her, lol.

I was just kidding though, that can wait after marriage, lol.

I'm over it though, she said she really hates herself for doing that in the first place and her boyfriend had kinda forced it out. That's also pretty much why they broke up, lol.

He had been coming on mx and really enjoying it, and we got into a discussion in here (which you saw) and the way he posts is somewhat...irregular. Jom started making fun of him and it might have pissed him off...I dunno. Anyway, he got into a mood and was PMing me at the same time on the forum that I run for him, and all of a sudden he was yelling at me basically about how I think mx is the cat's pajamas and how I "threw" him to the people on mx, and that pissed me off.

I sent him back an PM telling him what a giant [size=2]a[/size]ss he was and how I thought he would like mx and now he was accusing me of "throwing" him...like under the bus, or something and I closed the PM with "[size=2]F[/size]UCK YOU.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]My guy and I had a blowout and I told him [size=2]f[/size]uck you.[/quote]


Good!

[quote] I'm majorly depressed here.[/QUOTE]

Well, you were doing so good until you wrote that.

[quote]He had been coming on mx and really enjoying it, and we got into a discussion in here (which you saw) and the way he posts is somewhat...irregular. Jom started making fun of him and it might have pissed him off...I dunno. Anyway, he got into a mood and was PMing me at the same time on the forum that I run for him, and all of a sudden he was yelling at me basically about how I think mx is the cat's pajamas and how I "threw" him to the people on mx, and that pissed me off.

I sent him back an PM telling him what a giant [size=2]a[/size]ss he was and how I thought he would like mx and now he was accusing me of "throwing" him...like under the bus, or something and I closed the PM with "[size=2]F[/size]UCK YOU.[/quote]

No, fuc[font=verdana]k[/font] him. He could have kept his business off of MX, but no, he did the equivalent of following you here.

I'm not apologizing... for the way... he... posts on the... Internet...

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MX [i]is[/i] the cat's pajamas, anyway :)

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]He had been coming on mx and really enjoying it, and we got into a discussion in here (which you saw) and the way he posts is somewhat...irregular. Jom started making fun of him and it might have pissed him off...I dunno. Anyway, he got into a mood and was PMing me at the same time on the forum that I run for him, and all of a sudden he was yelling at me basically about how I think mx is the cat's pajamas and how I "threw" him to the people on mx, and that pissed me off.

I sent him back an PM telling him what a giant [size=2]a[/size]ss he was and how I thought he would like mx and now he was accusing me of "throwing" him...like under the bus, or something and I closed the PM with "[size=2]F[/size]UCK YOU.[/QUOTE]
:( That sounds really lame. I actually missed your "discussion" on here and haven't gotten around to reading it yet.
I don't know him or much about him at all but it sounds to me that he was basically just being a little girl and overreacting to getting flamed.

He wasn't even getting flamed; he just continually acted like a huge pus[font=verdana]s[/font]y. And we let him know about it.

Ok I guess you already know abou tmy breakup, well, is it normal to hurt if my x is flirting with others now, even though we are broken up?

Yes, completely normal. You'll get over it.


One of my major problems is how protective I am over [I]all[/I] of my female friends. I see them kissing guys and I get all 'grr' and have to tell myself to calm down, because I don't trust *any* guy to not just be using them.

Last time one of my female mates was messed about, she was crying on my shoulder and I felt physical pain for her.

Just think how I feel when I see an X kissing another guy ;). Just one of my stupid character defects.

[QUOTE=RahXephoN]Ok I guess you already know abou tmy breakup, well, is it normal to hurt if my x is flirting with others now, even though we are broken up?[/QUOTE]
If you still have feelings for her then yes, it's completely normal.

Then, before he saw my PM to him, that he was going to spill everything in here relationshipwise but my "bestest friend Jom" got in the way, and he wanted to know what Jom's interest was.

If I didn't know better I'd think he was jealous of the time I spent here. I'm probably correct in saying that he was feeling a little neglected.

And, Jom, you don't know this part of this...but I found a post from him on another local band's forum:

"Someone I trusted told me [size=2]F[/size]UCK YOU tonight.
So be it...I am [size=2]f[/size]ucked.
Someone I lusted told me [size=2]F[/size]UCK YOU tonight.
So be it...I am [size=2]f[/size]ucked.
I didn't need her to tell me...I already [size=2]f[/size]uckin know."

Then he removed the link to his forum from his signatures and I took his board offline.

Someone asked what happened to it and he said, "Kimmie and I are kaput...hence so is the Abyss."

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Then, before he saw my PM to him, that he was going to spill everything in here relationshipwise but my "bestest friend Jom" got in the way, and he wanted to know what Jom's interest was.

If I didn't know better I'd think he was jealous of the time I spent here. I'm probably correct in saying that he was feeling a little neglected.

And, Jom, you don't know this part of this...but I found a post from him on another local band's forum:

"Someone I trusted told me [size=2]F[/size]UCK YOU tonight.
So be it...I am [size=2]f[/size]ucked.
Someone I lusted told me [size=2]F[/size]UCK YOU tonight.
So be it...I am [size=2]f[/size]ucked.
I didn't need her to tell me...I already [size=2]f[/size]uckin know."

Then he removed the link to his forum from his signatures and I took his board offline.

Someone asked what happened to it and he said, "Kimmie and I are kaput...hence so is the Abyss."[/QUOTE]

What a big blubbering vagin[font=verdana]a[/font].

When silence... speaks free... when no one's home... when cold and lucid... when bruised and torn...

... look into... your abyss... nothing tastes like this... look into....

... is what you see here... what you wanted... no soft lens, no violins... like the grey eyes of a dead man... the mirror always stares...

... I've got a little riddle in my head... what's the little riddle in your head...

To be honest, I really don't think he followed me here.

You know, though, Jom, you have no idea how much you sound like him when you do that. It's almost eerie.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]To be honest, I really don't think he followed me here.

You know, though, Jom, you have no idea how much you sound like him when you do that. It's almost eerie.[/QUOTE]

[quote=""Abyss" by Memento"]Never will you find the reasons
Sand is just a broken stone
Love it changes with the seasons
In the dark I read the lines upon your hand
Junkies, intellects and preachers
All addicted to your clans
Caged by ribs sits the believer
With less friends than fingers on one hand
When silence speaks free
When no ones home
When cold and lucid
When bruised and torn
Look into your abyss
Nothing tastes like this
Look into....
Is what you see here what you wanted?
No soft lens, no violins
Like the gray eyes of a dead man
The mirror always stares
I've got a little riddle in my head
What's the little riddle in your head?
Look into your abyss[/quote]

Okay, so I... put... some ellipses... everywhere... in the... song...