[QUOTE=Eggo]well can't you just be friends with both[/QUOTE]

i am

and this is what happens.. i have always stayed out of their drama until now

[QUOTE=Junooni]Welcome to my life bro. Every single girl I know is a drama queen to some extent, nothing you can do about it. Best thing really is, "That's nice, dear."[/QUOTE]

yeah, i usually just shake my head and just say "oh, cool"

but yes, almost ALL girls are drama queens. Whether they admit it or not, they just are

well keep staying out of it

[QUOTE=Eggo]well keep staying out of it[/QUOTE]

im trying but im really good friends with both of them, so when they start their own drama between them two its sometimes invetiable to become involved

by the way, guys are drama queens too

it goes both ways, fellas :-D

[QUOTE=Eggo]by the way, guys are drama queens too

it goes both ways, fellas :-D[/QUOTE]

meh, they are but its really not to the same extent aand for the most part.. guys dont hold grudges much either

no it really is to the same extent

you just haven't seen much yet

[QUOTE=Eggo]no it really is to the same extent

you just haven't seen much yet[/QUOTE]

id like to keep it at that then

Amit's right. Many guys are too, they're called metrosexuals.

[QUOTE=Eggo]no it really is to the same extent

you just haven't seen much yet[/QUOTE]

Thank you, Amit.

What I went through today was drama king city.

The thing I've seen drama queen-ish from a guy is just when he gets pissed at his g/f and yells at her...

Oh and my friend is bipolar so he is a drama queen.

Yeah, but that's biological/medical - bi-polar disorder is an illness. Being a whiny bitch for the sake of being a whiny bitch is far different.

Man.. she just signed off.. bummer.

At least I've got every day after school next week and saturday to chill w/her. :yay:

I'm horrible with this stuff, I can give advice to friends and stuff, it helps them 90% of the time, it just doesn't help me. Bleh.

[QUOTE=Junooni]Amit's right. Many guys are too, they're called metrosexuals.[/QUOTE]

no, even the manliest of guys are instigators of crazy amounts of drama

us metrosexuals are actually the most chill :-D

[QUOTE]no, even the manliest of guys are instigators of crazy amounts of drama[/QUOTE]

:was joking:

well anyway

i've had a tuna relationships, but this is something new

usually, i fall in love with the girl first and then we gradually become physically intimate

in this new relationship, it's the completely opposite

i met her randomly at the library while i was chilling with my friends

less than a week later, our clothes were off (and man, there is a chemistry i have with her in bed that i have never even been close to feeling with anyone else)

however, i think she loves me, but for some reason, i'm split

part of me really loves her but part of me is apathetic for one reason or another :-\

she's also got such a nice and funny personality too...physically and personality wise, she's all I could ask for

i don't know what's wrong with me :upset:

btw if i die from sexual exhaustion, jommie gets my 250 gig media hard drive :-*

TO AMIT:

What is wrong with you is you've devoted so much of your life to your studies that having a significant other is messing with you.

That's why your apathetic.

You're conditioned to think about only your goals. Everything else comes in second.

[QUOTE=Eggo]btw if i die from sexual exhaustion, jommie gets my 250 gig media hard drive :-*[/QUOTE]

I love you dude :-*

Am I supposed to answer your question thing, too?

I got it, Jom.

Well, I've figured out what I need to do..

Take my own advice, the stuff that I give to my friends. After all, their relationships usually work out fine..

[quote=Chaindrive]I got it, Jom.[/quote]

Yeah but seriously, in less than a week THEY WERE SHAGGING EACH OTHER.

Woooooooooooooo!

Hehe, I lol'd

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]TO AMIT:

What is wrong with you is you've devoted so much of your life to your studies that having a significant other is messing with you.

That's why your apathetic.

You're conditioned to think about only your goals. Everything else comes in second.[/QUOTE]

haha well the thing issssss

i've never had to study much my whole life

it's changed a bit in college but i have always had really great relationships in high school

So, what's up with this one. You don't like her that much?

I need some advice.

There's this girl, who really, really, likes me. And I think she's cool and all.....but I don't wanna be in a relationship with her. If I'm gonna go out with someone, I basically have to love them. And with her, I'm only attracted to her. And Ive told her that I don't want a reationship. And she gets really sad. She's trying not to like me anymore, cause she knows that most likely, I'm never gonna want to go out with her.

I hate having to do that to her, cause she's a great girl. Is there anything else I can do/tell her? I want her to be happier, but, i know exactly how she feelsm and I can't really change that, unless I go out with her.


One more thing. When we hang out, she likes to cuddle a bit, sit on my lap, etc.... She starts it, and like, Its cool and all. I like cuddling. But, am I teasing her when I let her sit on my lap? I letting her get close to the guy she likes, and then later, it all comes back to me not wanting to go out with her.

She brings it onto herself I guess, but still, I'm sure I could help change it. I do like cuddling, a lot(hah), but what should I do from now on? Stop it? I don't wanna tease her. Then again, I don't wanna blow her off. I want to stay at a level with her, where we can be close. If I have to turn her down and break her heart, the least I could do is be a good friend.

Tell her like it is, don't let her cuddle, don't be a good friend.

You will do her an enormous disservice if you continue with it the way it is. Stop now.

Okay. As for cuddling and all of that, I need to back off from that. I mean, she knows that nothing is gonna happen. I'm not leading her on. But teasing? Yah, I am. And I'm not the guy to be an a-hole ot a girl, so I need to stop.


another question though.

When we're talking, she brings up stuff like "I'm a loser, I'm never gonna get the guy I like, its all my fault, I'll never be happy", and so on.

What can I possibly say to that?

You say, "It'll work out eventually."

Because it will.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]So, what's up with this one. You don't like her that much?[/QUOTE]

i think she likes me as much as i like her

or maybe even more

that's simply never happened before

i always had to be the main supplier of love in the past >:[

Okay, just stand down. Let her do it.

Ok, so i like this chick, and shes really cool, but she has a b/f, and i dont want to come between them, because she has liked him for as long as shes known him, but i know he's a sleaze and he will, if he hasn't already, cheat on her. theres nothing i can do, and i dont want to screw their relationship up becoz im friends with both of them, but she doesnt know what hes really like.

thats kinda irrelivent, my point is i got concussed today and i think i told heaps of people and i have no idea who i told, or what i told them. i really dont want her to find out that i like her, coz shes a mad mate. I'm quite nervous now, because i remember telling some people:confused: