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IPolkaLikeThis! 02-13-2006 03:35 AM

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Yeah, I use MSN. [email]Damien.Rhodes@Hotmmail.com[/email]

I'm about to go to bed though.[/QUOTE]

yeah, i was going to go t bed too. i guess ill talk to you later.

RIP Ian Curtis 02-13-2006 09:09 AM

[QUOTE=Ibasslikethis!]my grandpa is a really great guy, but he is pretty christian. and we are pretty close. but he cannot stand homosexuality. he is cool in alot of other ways, he likes alot of the indie bands i do. but if i told him or he found out, it would break his heart, and i wont do that.[/QUOTE]


Tricky situation man. Mind you, understated gay guys tend to get a lot more respect, at least from me and my associates. Rampaging, flaming poofs, although funny, can get kinda annoying, whereas classy, reserved gay men are great guys to be around. So I dunno, perhaps find the sexual image that suits you, don't go conforming to a "gay" or "bisexual" stereotype because you feel you have to, because that's bullsh'it, heterosexuals don't have to be one thing, so why should other folks?

drunkoveryou 02-13-2006 10:23 AM

[QUOTE=Ibasslikethis!]my grandpa is a really great guy, but he is pretty christian. and we are pretty close. but he cannot stand homosexuality. he is cool in alot of other ways, he likes alot of the indie bands i do. but if i told him or he found out, it would break his heart, and i wont do that.[/QUOTE]

i understand what you mean, on a smaller scalce. for example, i always cover up my tattoos and take out piercings when i visit my grandparents, because they are old and will die soon... and have too much to deal with already (like their own death, all their friends dying, taking their medication on time) they dont need to "open their mind" or "come to terms" with alternative life styles, or whatever, its just not worth it when someone is 87. right? i just want them to be happy and have the least amount of conflict/worry in their life as they can right now. i mean, personally my grandma will love me, of course whatever, but i am afraid that she will worry about me more... and i dont want that to happen. and hiding my tattoos doesnt really make me feel bad, i dont really care. as long as you dont care about hiding this part of you, then do what you gotta do!

RIP Ian Curtis 02-13-2006 10:27 AM

I showed my grandparents my ink, not sure why, I think because I'm so proud of it, and they're pretty liberal anyway.

Tillius 02-13-2006 11:28 AM

[QUOTE=Ibasslikethis!]my grandpa is a really great guy, but he is pretty christian. and we are pretty close. but he cannot stand homosexuality. he is cool in alot of other ways, he likes alot of the indie bands i do. but if i told him or he found out, it would break his heart, and i wont do that.[/QUOTE]
Wow, that must be SOME dilemma. Well, maybe it wouldn't hurt him as bad seeing as you also like girls. You're not just a straight up homosexual, you go the other way to, so to speak. And, he's your grandpa. If you told him, yeah, it would probably hurt him a bit, but still, it's unconditional love, man. I'm sure the old guy would love you no matter what, and whatever relationship you have with him would most likely stay the same.

RIP Ian Curtis 02-13-2006 11:49 AM

At the risk of sounding redneck, I wouldn't let him know, especially if the old guy is sick/near death. I mean imagine dying with someone who is obviously so important to you angry with you for something you can't change. I mean sure he might eventually get over it, but he may not have time to...

Chaindrive 02-13-2006 11:51 AM

[QUOTE=Tillius]Don't worry.
I'll getcha a bear.[/QUOTE]

:)

I'll stop whining now...

Tillius 02-13-2006 12:36 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]:)

I'll stop whining now...[/QUOTE]
[url=http://www.teddybeargifts.biz/ProductImages/BeauchampSofa.jpg]Here ya go.[/url]

Chaindrive 02-13-2006 12:39 PM

[QUOTE=Tillius][url=http://www.teddybeargifts.biz/ProductImages/BeauchampSofa.jpg]Here ya go.[/url][/QUOTE]

What a cutie he is...

*hugs bear*

got tool? 02-13-2006 02:17 PM

Damn, i JUST noticed the new thread. Haven't been on the forums for two weeks.

Anyway, last week my schools student council was doing this thing where you could send roses to people on valentine's day with a message that had your name on it. I gave it a shot and sent one to the girl i like. Tomorrow's the big day :) Wish me luck.

Chaindrive 02-13-2006 02:18 PM

Good luck!

Tillius 02-13-2006 02:22 PM

[QUOTE=got tool?]Damn, i JUST noticed the new thread. Haven't been on the forums for two weeks.

Anyway, last week my schools student council was doing this thing where you could send roses to people on valentine's day with a message that had your name on it. I gave it a shot and sent one to the girl i like. Tomorrow's the big day :) Wish me luck.[/QUOTE]
Good luck my man.

YouGottaBeCrazy 02-13-2006 02:30 PM

[QUOTE=got tool?]Damn, i JUST noticed the new thread. Haven't been on the forums for two weeks.

Anyway, last week my schools student council was doing this thing where you could send roses to people on valentine's day with a message that had your name on it. I gave it a shot and sent one to the girl i like. Tomorrow's the big day :) Wish me luck.[/QUOTE]

Just tell her you like Tool. Chicks dig Lateralus, trust me.

got tool? 02-13-2006 03:03 PM

[QUOTE=YouGottaBeCrazy]Just tell her you like Tool. Chicks dig Lateralus, trust me.[/QUOTE]

Hmm....that's just crazy enough to work...
Everyone knows im a total Tool fanboy at my school. Me and my Ænima eye t-shirt :p

YouGottaBeCrazy 02-13-2006 04:30 PM

haha, nice.

The Fonz 02-13-2006 04:58 PM

Time: 5 min ago.
Place: Mycomputer
Backround: I was talking to the girl i've been talking to,about a pictureof her, on tehintrawebs, and she was all sad, who I've really been starting to like, alot, but yeah

BSzmak5: so, what was it that made you upset in that picture?
her: um
her: idk
her: just not feeling good
her: and a convo with kris. and yeah
BSzmak5: you dont have to tell me, lol
BSzmak5: ohh, alright
her: yeah
BSzmak5: are you still upset, or do you feel better?
BSzmak5: cuase i have no idea when you took that picture
her: um
her: friday night
her: well
her: i think we might be getting back together..
BSzmak5: thats good, i 'spose



:upset:

Consolle, me, i guess, and tell me how to get over people.

kthnks.

On a side note, i hate the snow. Its wet and cold

Chaindrive 02-13-2006 05:12 PM

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]Time: 5 min ago.
Place: Mycomputer
Backround: I was talking to the girl i've been talking to,about a pictureof her, on tehintrawebs, and she was all sad, who I've really been starting to like, alot, but yeah

BSzmak5: so, what was it that made you upset in that picture?
her: um
her: idk
her: just not feeling good
her: and a convo with kris. and yeah
BSzmak5: you dont have to tell me, lol
BSzmak5: ohh, alright
her: yeah
BSzmak5: are you still upset, or do you feel better?
BSzmak5: cuase i have no idea when you took that picture
her: um
her: friday night
her: well
her: i think we might be getting back together..
BSzmak5: thats good, i 'spose



:upset:

Consolle, me, i guess, and tell me how to get over people.

kthnks.

On a side note, i hate the snow. Its wet and cold[/QUOTE]

Poor you. And why would her getting back together with him make her sad?

Special Brew 02-13-2006 05:14 PM

I'm dating a complete moron. She yelled at me for three hours, because she thought I was cheating on her based on stuff she found on Myspace. This girl I was "cheating" with, was in fact, my second cousin.

Stupid, stupid girl. Took me and her best friend hours to calm her down.

Now she's finally talking to me, and is saying she wants us to talk more like we used to, and that may fix some of out problems. Who knows if she's being truthful this time.

The main problem now, is that I am still bitter over all this drama, and I'm instantly put in a bad mood when I talk to her. Will this feeling pass, or am I just going to be pissed off at her for as long as we're together?

The Fonz 02-13-2006 05:15 PM

I.. Don't know, but, I think that on friday, something happened, and now(monday) they made up or whatever. I'm not too worried about them right now, tommorow, my curiosityw ill get to me and I'll end up asking though.


[QUOTE=Wizard.]I'm dating a complete moron. She yelled at me for three hours, because she thought I was cheating on her based on stuff she found on Myspace. This girl I was "cheating" with, was in fact, my second cousin.

Stupid, stupid girl. Took me and her best friend hours to calm her down.

Now she's finally talking to me, and is saying she wants us to talk more like we used to, and that may fix some of out problems. Who knows if she's being truthful this time.

The main problem now, is that I am still bitter over all this drama, and I'm instantly put in a bad mood when I talk to her. Will this feeling pass, or am I just going to be pissed off at her for as long as we're together?[/QUOTE]

I dunno, but if shes like that, Unless you have really strong feelings for her, ...end it. I went out with a girl like that and, whoa, did it suckkk.

dropkickstreetpunk2 02-13-2006 06:27 PM

So, I'm in debate with myself on wheather or not to ask a girl to be my valentine. We hardly know each other. Should I start of with casual conversation?

Tillius 02-13-2006 06:30 PM

[QUOTE=dropkickstreetpunk2]So, I'm in debate with myself on wheather or not to ask a girl to be my valentine. We hardly know each other. Should I start of with casual conversation?[/QUOTE]
Yes, start off with casual conversation. It's kinda weird to go up to a girl, regardless of how well you know eachother, and without any warning at all, just say, "Hey, will you go out with me?"

thunderzstruck 02-13-2006 06:32 PM

ack Welllll I just backed into a car and gave a pretty good sized dent. I got all the insurance info and everything (first "accident" too)

Well my parents say I won't be able to have friends in the car starting the day [i]after[/i] tomorrow because im taking angela out somewhere

Chaindrive 02-13-2006 07:30 PM

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]ack Welllll I just backed into a car and gave a pretty good sized dent. I got all the insurance info and everything (first "accident" too)

Well my parents say I won't be able to have friends in the car starting the day [i]after[/i] tomorrow because im taking angela out somewhere[/QUOTE]

Oops.

Tillius 02-13-2006 07:48 PM

I'm a moron.

Chaindrive 02-13-2006 07:53 PM

Okay. Why?

B 02-13-2006 07:55 PM

What's wrong Mitch?

Chaindrive 02-13-2006 07:59 PM

I'm going to slam-dunk 5K tonight...looks like.

B 02-13-2006 08:01 PM

I've been so not posting lately. I should easily be at 6k the way I was going at it before, maybe even 7..

I used to post like 150 times a day :-\

PS: Valentines day tomorrow should be fun for me :D.

Chaindrive 02-13-2006 08:19 PM

Good on you for Valentine's Day. :D

28.22 ppd for me.

B 02-13-2006 08:24 PM

Mine used to be less than .06 a day :p

MX died for me for like 15 minutes there..

Mitch left :(

IPolkaLikeThis! 02-13-2006 08:26 PM

Happy Valentines day to those who have people to share it with.


and i also agree with all those who say "fu[I]c[/I]k valentines day"


btw: 10.73 posts per day :thumb:

Chaindrive 02-13-2006 08:27 PM

MX died for me, as well.

I noticed. He left us with that proclamation and ditched us. We should beat him up for that.

Chaindrive 02-13-2006 08:28 PM

[QUOTE=Ibasslikethis!]Happy Valentines day to those who have people to share it with.


and i also agree with all those who say "fu[I]c[/I]k valentines day"


btw: 10.73 posts per day :thumb:[/QUOTE]

Yeah, I ramble...

I wasn't here for your discussion last night, but I read it this morning.

Is him acting like that a big issue for you?

Tillius 02-13-2006 08:29 PM

Sorry bout that guys.

I'm a moron, because..........
I have a girlfriend that I'm perfectly happy with. PERFECTLY. However, why is it that I must have feelings for other girls. Not just physical attractions, like it was with Erica, but actual feelings. I mean, I know I can't really help it, but still, it's crazy. And, it would be much easier if the feelings weren't returned, but they are.

B 02-13-2006 08:29 PM

[QUOTE=Ibasslikethis!]Happy Valentines day to those who have people to share it with.


and i also agree with all those who say "fu[I]c[/I]k valentines day"


btw: 10.73 posts per day :thumb:[/QUOTE]I generally hate Valentines day. This is the first year in a while I've had anyone to share it with, which is extremely nice.

Kimmie: :mad:

/tries to find him

Edit: Hey cool I found him ^^

Chaindrive 02-13-2006 08:33 PM

[QUOTE=Tillius]Sorry bout that guys.

I'm a moron, because..........
I have a girlfriend that I'm perfectly happy with. PERFECTLY. However, why is it that I must have feelings for other girls. Not just physical attractions, like it was with Erica, but actual feelings. I mean, I know I can't really help it, but still, it's crazy. And, it would be much easier if the feelings weren't returned, but they are.[/QUOTE]

How apropo is this? 5000th post is in L&R, quoting the dude I'm running away with when he turns 18.

Life is grand. :)

Pamela, huh, Mitch?

Tillius 02-13-2006 08:35 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]How apropo is this? 5000th post is in L&R, quoting the dude I'm running away with when he turns 18.

Life is grand. :)

Pamela, huh, Mitch?[/QUOTE]
Pamela.

Tillius 02-13-2006 08:42 PM

That's it? Just leave me here all alone? What the hell?

Chaindrive 02-13-2006 08:43 PM

[QUOTE=Tillius]Pamela.[/QUOTE]

So, I'm taking this as the crush she has on you is reciprocated.

You didn't comment on how appropriate my 5000th post was.

:upset:

B 02-13-2006 08:46 PM

[QUOTE=Tillius]That's it? Just leave me here all alone? What the hell?[/QUOTE]
Sorry, I don't have any good input on this. Aside from figure out who you like more, and don't do it in any way that will hurt either of them.

Which I'm sure you already knew, so.


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