That guys reply to him calling him mate is so cunty

Holy shit the girl's friend destroyed him.

This guy gives moose, and thus, Canada, a bad name

LOL OK and

So he sent a dick pic, big fuckin deal

"That guys reply to him calling him mate is so cunty"

Sending unsolicited dick pics is probably a bit worse tbh.

"So he sent a dick pic, big fuckin deal"

When you consider the constant waves of unsolicited sexual advances from men that many women on social media experience every single day, you need to draw a line and let them know that NO, it's not fucking okay and there are consequences to their frequently unchecked advances.

It's literally the same as flashing. Just because it's through the lens of the internet doesn't mean it's somehow more justifiable.

please stop

it's not that fuckin deep white knight

It's balls deep

R.I.P.

Agreed with snox 100%.

They give Canterbury a bad name. And that was before the allegations.

I have a few photos of my penis on my phone

you like talking about it, what are you hiding man, kind of the same with little dudes and big trucks, have to over-compensate for something

"That guys reply to him calling him mate is so cunty"

It's like that "I'm not your buddy, friend. I'm not your friend, pal." bit all over again. How dare someone use a common british greeting. the nerve! but also:

"you need to draw a line and let them know that NO, it's not fucking okay"

this too. It's not OK, but I feel like this whoooooole article is just intended as a hit job against this particular musician. It would be appropriate if the offending individual had aggravated the situation further but they haven't--they admitted their guilt and apologized immediately after being confronted the first time, so WHY did someone think we needed this article?

Because debating gender relations issues is Sputnik's national pastime as indicated by the 700+ comments about Michael Gira's rape accusation

more like slut shaming and victim blaming

"this too. It's not OK, but I feel like this whoooooole article is just intended as a hit job against this particular musician. It would be appropriate if the offending individual had aggravated the situation further but they haven't--they admitted their guilt and apologized immediately after being confronted the first time, so WHY did someone think we needed this article?"

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This reminds me I need to relisten to their new record.

who the fuck even sends dick pics

moron straight guys

this mook couldn't be handling the situation any worse lol

a lot of men, from what I've been told by people who have experience receiving such things.

yea like it's a stupid hormonal man thing to do and it's laughable to say the least but fuck, people treating it like he raped the girl smdh

"stupid hormonal man thing to do"

it's more about social assertion and self-validating one's masculinity by forcing their sexuality on someone else, but yeah totally 123 u nailed it fam

literally every half respectable bird i've talked to about it has said dick pics are an automatic deal breaker -- girls who aren't somewhat turned off by it you'v gotta question whether they're the sort of girl you want to be slipping it into anyway / unless you're pretty much fuck buddies in which case no need for them anyway.

but yeah they seem to be catastrophizing this a bit , idc about the 'principle' of the matter, these type of articles (headlines at least) make it sound as tho he physically violated her which is not even close to the case

yeah a lot of guys do this, the thing is i don't think i've ever talked to a girl that liked receiving the dick pics..

and i've talked to at least 3 girls in my life

I don't really care for turning this into a big deal and don't see the point of another witch hunt type deal for it, but as a concept, it's fair for people to call out a guy for sending an unsolicited sexual advance and threaten action against him if he continues because it's a pretty fucking pathetic practice that is astoundingly common.

Only time sending nudes of any kind is permissible is if both parties are consenting, duh.

idk i think it shows that they're a go-getter its a bold move for sure. idk try it and then report back here, maybe the girl will enjoy

Yeah you're right gonna send a dick pic to my gf and see what she thinks

"literally every half respectable bird i've talked to about it has said dick pics are an automatic deal breaker"

well duh. they're not actually interested in having a real conversation so much as they are forcing their sexuality on someone else in order to validate themselves. I doubt they send them to people they're actually interested in seriously.

And then his girlfriend replies with ''who is this?''

She'd probably be more like "Wtf why are you showing me your dick ew"

@zaru yeah true altho it's those libidinous try hard alpha fuckwits that earn the entire male gender a bad name to some degree, and its those girls who go for that same typa guy again and again and are sure to moan about it at every chance they get, sometimes i feel they deserve the abuse they will inevitably cop throughout their dysfunctional relationships

its worth saying genitals are objectively unattractive too , particularly dicks. I don't want extreme close up cunt shots so its no wonder most don't get too aroused over a pic of a veiny often wonky often hairy often pal appendage either

"as a concept, it's fair for people to call out a guy for sending an unsolicited sexual advance and threaten action against him if he continues because it's a pretty fucking pathetic practice that is astoundingly common"

"it's more about social assertion and self-validating one's masculinity by forcing their sexuality on someone else, but yeah totally 123 u nailed it fam"

So much this.

"its worth saying genitals are objectively unattractive too"

Speak for yourself, vulvas are beautiful

Here's my hot take: dick pics are not okay, unless the girl asked for one

yeah real works of art

ok shitty pop punk should officially be renamed pedo punk so we all know what were talking about here

i mean that would be the decent protocol but dick pics would be cut down 99.9% if every bloke waited for a direct written request for one lol

That's the dream!

Here's my hot take




;) ;) ;) ;)

"Here's my hot take: dick pics are not okay, unless the girl asked for one"

And even that is only some of the time 😐

"And even that is only some of the time"

Yeah like when she asks for a dick pic and he sends a picture of a sad slug like dude c'mon you had ONE JOB

Lmao I didn't mean it like that but yeah that too

hope they write an overly descriptive and redundant song about it

woah was about to see theee guys live next week but idk anymore.

legit no one ever wants to see a dick, they have that "last chicken in the shop" look

"This guy gives moose, and thus, Canada, a bad name"

This is a sad day for Canada and therefore the world.

It's a dick move (no pun intended) and is pretty much sexual harassment. Yeah sure, she wasn't underage or anything but the fact that we have to note that to try and remedy his actions is fucking ridiculous.

eh it absolutely is sexual harassment but also it's two fucking years old and the man threatened to post screenshots of it several times to try to 'ruin his shitty band' or something along the lines of that

so he's just now releasing it... why? to get back at something rude a guy did two years ago? goddamn

I feel like both of the people in the screenshots suck ass

yeah the two years old thing is kinda weird. either way prob not gonna support these guys by going to their show next week. the girl i'm seeing and I both don't wanna go anymore

Send her an unwanted dick pic to celebrate

just realized i don't really give a shit what this guy did but is his band any good at least? never heard this

their first album is good, new album not so much

I'm gonna send everyone that commented on this article no fewer than six dick pics.

i'll be waiting

Everyone except Snake.

phone's open for the airwaves

Guy releasing the screenshots of this have been holding it over the drummers head as black mail for 2 fucking years??? Gimme a break. Yeah, unsolicited dick pics are pretty messed up, but holding black mail on someone and releasing it this long later is ridiculous and wrong as well.

birds dont hab dicks

birds should fly with the pics in their beaks for a more romantic delivery

IT'S A FUCKING T.

I send myself dick pics

tbh the dude calling him out sounds like a big dickhead himself (waiting two years before releasing it also says a lot). probably wanted to play alpha to get out of friendzone with hollie.

If this was from two years ago then it's definitely a hit job and I definitely empathize with Harvey, from what I've been shown of the situation.

Can't have a pop punk band without at least 1 sexual predator these days

"yeah the two years old thing is kinda weird. either way prob not gonna support these guys by going to their show next week. the girl i'm seeing and I both don't wanna go anymore"

fuck off idiot

calm urself LOL

I wouldn't call it harassment unless he has been asked to stop and then proceeds to send more or if the person in question is underage. I've sent dick picks to chicks before without them asking for it and they liked it and sent me pics of their tits and we had a great time. Does it not occur to any of you that far from feeling pressured into sending nudes or thinking its disgusting, some ladies actually like it and get off on it?

I think some of you have lived very sheltered lives...

ppl send dick pics? [6526261]

Hope these guys don't break up over a fuckin dick pic.

he fucked up, apologized, presumably isnt going to do it again. moving on.

didn't know ballsdeep was a drummer that's cool

so two years ago a guy failed to get laid, thanks for the news flash

@storm
i didn't know he was either

why is this news

ok so this band isn't that great after listening to them. why does anybody care that he sent a dick pic most guys do ( i have never ofc and i only get sent vagina pics unsolicited wahhh) but yeah

I've sent dick picks to chicks before without them asking for it and they liked it


so you're a creep who has a taste for creepy women good to know fam.

you're ALSO a fucking moron

-torts

no girl is actually going to get off on a dick pick unless there' already strong chemistry between you or they're some peasant whore who's self worth is measured by the amount of dick picks they can acquire

you clearly have talked to a total of 2 females in your life, we get it

You clearly know how to pick a winner

I've talked to at least 3

teach us, you goddamn legend.

i think maybe its time to go back on probation, steven

Does it not occur to any of you that far from feeling pressured into sending nudes or thinking its disgusting, some ladies actually like it and get off on it?

these comments sound like you're all 14 yr olds i send nudes all the time the key is to actually be attractive, which this drummer dude is not

the key is to send them to people who want them, which this asshole did not

lmao

i'm told I'm relatively attractive. brb sending nudes to every girl on my contact list

Maybe the drummer dude is not attractive, but his dick is?

"these comments sound like you're all 14 yr olds i send nudes all the time the key is to actually be attractive, which this drummer dude is not"

lol holy shit.

Impossible, your dick should look identical to your face

Yeah, his comment sounded more like a 14 year old than anything else.

tell me how pissed

nuke thread please this should not be a thing

agreed these sjw cucks in here need to get laid sputnik ran by sjw omg makes me so upset ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhAHHHHHHHHHHHH

im so angry

So many cringe-worthy replies.

This article seems it was made for the sole purpose of sending out a witch hunt against the person in question.

He's already apologised and you guys (and the friend) are acting as if he raped this girl. Granted, dick pics are stupid, but come on, they aren't anywhere near as bad as you're making out. Let's also not forget all you need to do is click the block button and never have to deal with said person again but oh no, that would be way too convenient and cause less of a crying outrage.

The friend in the screen shot genuinely sounds like a complete and utter moron "less harmful version of a paedophile or a rapist" I'd say your stupidity is much more harmful. He made a genuine apology and got slated for it just because he said a common word here in the UK "mate" its about time a lot of you and the girl in question spent less time on tumblr and started thinking for yourselves and how absolutely moronic this whole situation - or more specifically the reaction to the situation.

Soon, I feel a builder simply whistling at a woman will be considered some form of rape.

It's time to stop.

lmao did you make an account just to comment that

hi Glenn

obv hasnt seen death grips album cover

i agree with billy, you people have to be stoppepd. the regressive left are always trying to silence ppl from fun

Who are all these fuckers crawling out of the woodwork

Not sure why anyone on either side would have a problem with dick pics, the only reason it bothers me in this case is it sounds like he just kind of spammed her with dick pics lmao. The other guy even said he sent her videos?... but in this case, the most fucked up part that we know for sure about is definitely the blackmail.

Either way, there's no use trying to get some sort of internet vigilante justice by not going to their shows if you're into them

steven said a bad word ):

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you dumb motherfuckers need to realize this was 2 WHOLE YEARS AGO, and people change a lot in two years. considering there also wasn't the same climate that made such a thing as unacceptable back then, so this should REALLY only have been half of a problem if he did it in the past week or so

"steven said a bad word ):"

If you use the word left I will roundhouse kick you into the fucking shadow realm

them old days are gone ):

unless you are actually spooky (which in that case I'd nuke my account for disrespecting you) I just donut care

Simple solution to this, only send a dick pic when the girl asks for one. Same thing goes for girls, only send tit pics when the guy asks for one. Don't send your private bits unless both parties in the conversation are okay with it.

It's not that hard (pun intended).

2 years ago (according to steven) we could send dick pics and nobody cared i miss them times r.i.p. to the good old days when nobody got mad over dick pics the youth today are pussy.

that is basically everything I am saying yes

those days never existed

unsolicited dick pics have always been gross

they're gross yes, but they aren't means to end someone's career/anything close to that

the saddest part if this is true is that the people who were really young kids back then werent able to experience the freedom of the dick pic times and now that they're turning into teens they can't send the pics due to public outrage. theyll never get to experience such freedom

Yes Hellscythe

I came across this absolutely ridiculous excuse for a thread and felt I needed to voice my opinion.

cool now fuck off

now i remember why i haven't actively posted on this site in the last 5 years

You can handle it. We're just strangers on the internet.

Because people are meanies?

Brb sending more dick pics to everyone except Snake.

SteveOfProbation

I'm sorry, am I invading your safe space?

Or perhaps it's best I leave, I don't want to cut my self on that cringe inducing teenage edge.

This thread is absolute cancer.

It's always the creepy pop punk bands

Why is anyone siding with this drummer?

Don't send your fucking dick out to random people without consent. If you're having a consensual sexting-based conversation with someone, and you're both swapping pictures, that's fine.

Don't be silly, protect your fucking willy.

"Why is anyone siding with this drummer?"

because these allegations are two years old and were brought back up again specifically as a means of character assassination. Ffs they included the guy's apology in the screenshots, so clearly this was intended just to ruin the guy, not make a point about bringing to light sexual harassment. If that was the intent, this jerk wouldn't have sat on the pics for two years. What the drummer did was inexcusably bad and he should feel bad for ever doing it, but trying to invent a controversy years later to ruin a guy is also just as bad.

Dumb thing to do in the first place. Making it public this late after it occured is a super transparent character attack. Whole thing is stupid and should be dropped.

Just checked this band's Facebook page and there isn't a single comment about these allegations yet. Just a bunch of people pissed about a Montreal tour date.

Either they're pro at deleting comments or no-one cares at this point.

both sides are in the wrong here but the fact that there's a few people in this thread going so far as to say the drummer did nothing wrong to begin with is revolting

Deleting comments without putting out a statement is also not the ideal way to handle this, even if the two years later blackmail accusations are clearly a very low behavior.

There are no comments on Facebook, no comments on Twitter (which they can't delete), the pics in the OP have only been viewed 451 times, there's nothing I can find on google, either. At this moment I'm feeling like OP was just trying to start shit and it didn't go anywhere (Who are they anyway?).

lol doesn't matter how long this was or whether or not he's sorry it doesn't change the fact that he's a complete scumbag

I'd put it closer to douchebro levels of shittiness rather than complete scumbag shittiness tbh. Scumbag would've been if he'd sent pics and been exceptionally abusive, not just been casually man-stupid like the convo seems to imply. But like semantics so w/e.

the guy on the other side of the conversation didn't even accept his turd of an apology lmao, and who knows, there might be conversation between the girl and the drummer that we don't even know about

even if this article is character assassination it still gives you some insight on how shitty this guy is

it doesn't automatically make him scumbag it was probably just a faux pas but i guess its the principle of it
wonder if there would be news if a female artist sent unsolicited nudes to a bloke (beyond showing all the boys)

yea dude totally

except not and you're delusional yea

'I'd put it closer to douchebro levels of shittiness rather than complete scumbag shittiness tbh.'

spot on

"no girl is actually going to get off on a dick pick unless there' already strong chemistry between you or they're some peasant whore who's self worth is measured by the amount of dick picks they can acquire"

"so you're a creep who has a taste for creepy women good to know fam."

I award you two 5 out of 5 for your ability to make completely baseless assumptions.

And no girl? Really, no girl in the entire fucking world? You claim to know the mind and reactions of every girl in the world? Well done. You really are talking like someone who doesn't have a fucking clue about anything.

'Really, no girl in the entire fucking world?'

read the last part of the sentence shitdick

Oh, sorry, I forgot that according to you any girl who enjoys pics of mens genitalia is automatically deemed a "whore". You're still, once again, making completely baseless assumptions that any girl who does enjoy it is doing so to somehow validate their self worth. Quit acting like you know the psyche of every girl who is involved in sexting. You're just making yourself look like an arrogant fool. Your childish "shitdick" insult further indicates to me that you are probably a 12 year old virgin.

Look, while I think that sending dick pics with no context beforehand is stupid and ridiculous and wrong, EphemeralEternity, your constant disproval of "sluts" or women with loose sexual standards, as well as your apparent distaste for sexual organs and, in all likelihood, your distaste or boredom with actual sex, speaks much more to your unchecked inadequacies as a male and you should try healing yourself before judging others.

Sending a random dick pic to a woman who doesn't want it is creepy as fuck. But all this stuff about long lasting psychological trauma is just fucking rediciulous.

I'm surprised the word misogyny hasn't come up, and then someone going "LOL BUZZWORD PC CULTURE SAFESPACE FAGGOT" hasn't been said in response.

Anyways, I think this topic should be closed by mods, because clearly these things can't be discussed in a clear headed manner, and there's really no worthwhile discussion being had.

Why don't you just fuck off if you don't like the way it's being discussed Mr Dinosaur, people are entitled to discuss it any manner of their choosing.

"Sending a random dick pic to a woman who doesn't want it is creepy as fuck."

But what if they don't know they want it until you actually send it? I'm not trying to be facetious, but I have sent pics of my dick to ladies who have then sexted with me when prior to the dick pic there was no sexual discussion, just mild flirting.

It's easy to say in hindsight that if a lady has a bad reaction to a dick pic that sending it was a stupid thing to do, but like I said with the above example, that is not always the case.

I will now wait for the inevitable "but what if some lady doesn't know she wants to be raped before she's raped" response from idiots...

Did anyone bring popcorn?

"But what if they don't know they want it until you actually send it?"

Holy fucking shit

This MrMongoose guy sounds like a sociopath

I'll take "Boundaries" for $800, please, Alex.

"This MrMongoose guy sounds like a sociopath"

No, I sound like someone who has sexted with a lot of different ladies and got a lot of different responses. You would be surprised at what some of them have said after seeing pics of my magnificent penis.

"Oh boy! I've never seen a penis before!"

The overall tone I'm getting from you guys is that ladies just don't enjoy dick pics and that any that do have something wrong with them or are whores. I'm sorry, but you're just ignorant or inexperienced to be coming to such wrong conclusions. Either that or you have ugly ass dicks and got rejected.

No, the tone is that sending a girl a picture of your cock without any prior provocation is stupid, wrong and unwarranted.

If you're flirting with a girl, sexting, or even just at least ASK before sending one and they're cool with it, then more power to you. But just opening up your phone to a girl you do or don't know and sending them a picture of your cock is fucking ridiculous. When so many women are harassed daily by strange men and even "friends" of theirs, you should have the better fucking judgement to think that maybe you should start a conversation and see if they're interested in you in any capacity before sending your boring, dime a dozen and useless cock at them willy nilly (PUN INTENDED).

At least have the fucking balls to engage a woman properly rather than sending your dick to as many as you can find until one of them magically responds that hey, the eighth cock she's received in her inbox this week IS making her horny just so you can get your jollies off for fifteen minutes.

For fuck's sake man, being a respectable human being isn't hard. At least go onto online sex threads or groups to find people before sending it to your sister's best friend.

The whole "if I send it to enough women I'll get the results I want eventually" is the same logic employed by "pick-up artists/rapists" who promote this unnatural and anti-social dynamic of trying to exert your non-existent dominance over women.

But... but... if I surprise them with a dick pic and 1/10 of them respond positively, I don't care about the others that don't!

THEY SHOULD JUST GET OVER IT.

Excuse me sir, my jerk off sessions last a lot longer than 15 minutes and my dick is far from useless.

Now, I always chat to the ladies a bit before I send the goods. A pic of my dick outta the blue is not the first thing they get from me. However, I don't wait for them to make the first move, one lady was actually turned on by how bold I was in sending my dick after only talking for a brief amount of time, ok?

THEY DON'T TEACH YA THAT IN NEW ORLEANS.

you have to be an alt

You have to be an owl

"But what if they don't know they want it until you actually send it?"

confirmed: mongoose is that guy that drives around town at 10 mph with his window down and yells "YOU LOOKIN FINE HONEY YOU NEED A RIDE" to every attractive woman he sees on the street.

If you encourage the sending of unwanted dick pics then I hope an unwanted cock skewers you through your ear like in Scary Movie

"If you encourage the sending of unwanted dick pics then I hope an unwanted cock skewers you through your ear like in Scary Movie"

How do you know if it is unwanted until you have sent it? If the girl had replied with a pic of her tits we wouldn't even be talking about this.

Yes, you can always ask first but I mean ya know, livin on the edge and all DAT.

"confirmed: mongoose is that guy that drives around town at 10 mph with his window down and yells "YOU LOOKIN FINE HONEY YOU NEED A RIDE" to every attractive woman he sees on the street."

No, I don't, I just sit in my room all day sending out pics of my dick, haven't you been paying attention?

@ovdeath
man I love sluts.
i just don't consider them people

Wow, I didn't realize that there were so many SJW's on Sputnik. Like it or not, you'll not get laid acting this way. It's a proven biological fact that women go for dominant, masculine go-getters. This means that approaching women and being bold works. It unfortunately means for you SJW's that you'll never get a girl that even wants to see your dick.

With that being said though, I think this band isn't that good.

Jesus these alts

I can't even see me own dick.

Sounds like a medical issue.

grainofriceitis

hahaha

i can't tell who's pissing up this thread more: ballsdeep or this mongoose guy

I haven't read their exchange cause I value my time, but BallsDeep automatically starts from the back of the bus by virtue of being BallsDeep.