tommygun
02.07.12 | Man I'm getting old |
andcas
02.07.12 | bad idea. trust me. |
Yazz_Flute
02.07.12 | WHIPPED |
Hyperion1001
02.07.12 | sex every night |
DallyLama
02.07.12 | noyrnot |
Pisslicious
02.07.12 | dont do anything you might regret. |
Tyrannic
02.07.12 | GET A CAT
best decision ever |
tommygun
02.07.12 | Nah it's not a rushed thing we've been going strong for a long time, survived a 6 month Europe trip together last year this is nothing compared to that
Thanks Tryannic but I'm allergic to cats |
Cipieron
02.07.12 | be sure to poop with the door open |
tommygun
02.07.12 | lol @ Yazz
@ Cipieron - thanks for the advice I'll be sure to do that |
BallsToTheWall
02.07.12 | I've seen so many relationships end because of this. No joke. |
Tyrannic
02.07.12 | or a chinchilla? |
Ignimbrite
02.07.12 | sex every night [2] |
andcas
02.07.12 | @balls, for real. I've had two relationships end because of the living together bs. |
BallsToTheWall
02.07.12 | nagging every night |
captaincrunch11
02.07.12 | Congrats man |
tommygun
02.07.12 | We've been together 6 years now pretty confident there are no more hidden surprises about each other's
personalities that could derail the situation
Also I'm 23 years old can't live with the parents forever |
BallsToTheWall
02.07.12 | And yeah dude, I can't even count the girlfriends my brothers and my good pals have lost because of that. More upset over my pals because their girlfriends I knew since our high school days, it was sad to see them go.
I mean, I wish you the best luck Tommy, you're going to need it. |
andcas
02.07.12 | @tommy, the issue lies within having to constantly share space with no breaks. |
tommygun
02.07.12 | @Balls - Yeah that sucks for those guys that it didn't work out but to be fair every situation is different and I'm more than happy with the way things are going
Thanks for the concern though man |
twlichty
02.07.12 | Good for you man! Enjoy the endless sex and don't be an ass!
yeah get a cat like Tyrannic said |
Satellite
02.07.12 | just tell her to leave the water running while she takes a dump and you should be fine |
BallsToTheWall
02.07.12 | Here's a tip I read that i've never used but makes sense to me. Have separate bathrooms.
P.S ask for a blumpkin |
andcas
02.07.12 | if you think the sex will always be endless you're in for a rude wake up call. |
tommygun
02.07.12 | What's a blumpkin?
@ Infernal - yeah they are very nice |
FreePizzaDay
02.07.12 | My cousin was married and living with his wife before he turned 22. How do men do this? There's no
shame in commitment but I could never spend my early and mid twenties playing house. That being said,
I wish you the best and makes sure the seat is up before you pee. |
DieDead
02.07.12 | Lol a blumpkin! hahahahaha |
twlichty
02.07.12 | InternalFlesh requires perky boobies for all of his women |
tommygun
02.07.12 | andcas that's the least of my worries
FreePizza everybody has different things they want from life, there's no rulebook |
BallsToTheWall
02.07.12 | There's just something about endless sex that seems almost macabre. |
ShadowRemains
02.07.12 | "What's a blumpkin?"
you'll find out...
...when the time is right... |
Tyrannic
02.07.12 | but seriously raising an animal together will tell you pretty important shit about the inner dynamics of your relationship. it can answer some serious questions down the road if you're at all serious about her.
small puppy? |
Satellite
02.07.12 | "How do men do this?"
dude it's called rent being fucking expensive and needing to go halfsies with someone, and that someone is often a significant other |
DieDead
02.07.12 | Yeah you will love those blumpkins |
FreePizzaDay
02.07.12 | Endless sex could be like all-you-can-eat buffets. Fine for a long time until your dick really, really hurts and you're tired and smell like sweat and you've been holding in farts for hours. |
Yazz_Flute
02.07.12 | Bitches love macabre |
Zorak
02.07.12 | Congrats. You guys should do shrooms and trip balls while boning all night. |
Zorak
02.07.12 | "and you've been holding in farts for hours."
hahahaha omfg that's great |
andcas
02.07.12 | at some point you will argue and hear "you go out with friends too much." |
FreePizzaDay
02.07.12 | "dude it's called rent being fucking expensive and needing to go halfsies with someone, and that someone is often a significant other"
Roommates are a good idea, but I wasn't talking about that. I was talking about getting married to your high school sweet heart and skipping that excellent time of a man's life where he's an adult but doesn't really have many responsibilities.
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Tyrannic
02.07.12 | @andcas happening to my buddy right now. seriously she has him on a leash |
BallsToTheWall
02.07.12 | Not really well versed in this kind of stuff but I can pick up on when a girl tries to lay down guilt trips amongst my comrades. They like to see how much they can get away with. |
FreePizzaDay
02.07.12 | And instead, shacking up with your gf and rushing into that game of house you'll be playing until the day one of the two of you dies. |
tommygun
02.07.12 | Sounds like you had some tough times andcas, I'm sorry things didn't work out for you man |
Satellite
02.07.12 | yeah i get what you mean pizza. i've never understood that myself. i'm 25 and most of the people i grew up with are married and shitting out kids and what not. lame. |
Recspecs
02.07.12 | Hope you get a nice settlement. |
Recspecs
02.07.12 | Lol. Just noticed blumpkin in the thread. |
Shuyin
02.07.12 | good luck, man! dont forget the cannibal corpse cd's! |
FreePizzaDay
02.07.12 | It definitely is. I'm not advocating living the bachelor life well into your thirties, but I would
feel ripped off missing out on this time in my life that allows be to be so free to spontaneity. Want
to go backpacking around Europe for a few years? Better hope the missus wants to can come along. Want
to move to a different city every three months? Can't do it. Want to sit around in your boxers and
play Call of Duty all day? You can probably do it but expect some nagging. |
BallsToTheWall
02.07.12 | Want to go backpacking around Europe for a few years?
I hope I get off my lazy ass and accomplish that before it's too late. I feel like I was 18 yesterday and now im a few months shy of 23. My time running out for that shit. |
FreePizzaDay
02.07.12 | Nah, assuming you have no serious girlfriend, you have a pretty good chunk of time.
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BallsToTheWall
02.07.12 | Closest thing I have to a girlfriend is my right hand. Been wanting to hit Denmark,Sweden, Germany, Ireland, Poland, Ukraine, and Russia for awhile. |
tommygun
02.07.12 | Pizza you're assuming all of this based on the stereotypical 'ball and chain' but my relationship is not like that at all, we are both independent adults and I know exactly what I'm getting myself in for |
FreePizzaDay
02.07.12 | DO IT. I'm going to Paris this summer for a few weeks and after I graduate I'm definitely road tripping with some friends. |
tommygun
02.07.12 | Also Call of Duty sucks |
FreePizzaDay
02.07.12 | It does, but it beats watching chick flicks cause your GF made it to the TV first and you've been "hogging it all day." |
theashesfromautumn01
02.07.12 | Put the toilet seat down when youre done and flush everytime. |
andcas
02.07.12 | "Sounds like you had some tough times andcas" it was cool at first. |
FreePizzaDay
02.07.12 | "Pizza you're assuming all of this based on the stereotypical 'ball and chain' but my relationship is not like that at all, we are both independent adults and I know exactly what I'm getting myself in for"
I have heard this more time in the last few years than there are posts in this thread. I'm not saying your girl's a controlling person or whatever, I'm just saying your rushing into a part of adulthood that will be waiting for you later on, especially if you and your GF are as independent adults as you claim to be.
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tommygun
02.07.12 | We're taking two TVs so that won't be a problem! Every situation is unique man and right now this is exactly what I want to be doing. I don't see it as a 'trap' or whatever
Also I just looked up blumpkin on urbandictionary and wow... just wow |
FreePizzaDay
02.07.12 | Well go for it man, not trying to tell a grown man how to live, I actually despise people who do that. Just trying to contribute to the discussion. Good luck! |
tommygun
02.07.12 | Thanks man! |
Acanthus
02.07.12 | It's pretty nice living with your significant other, enjoy sir! |
Funeralopolis
02.07.12 | congrats i guess. keep your pussy close to home. |
XingKing
02.07.12 | I was going to move in with my girlfriend once. A month or so before we were going to move in, she cheated on me and left me. Good times. |
Acanthus
02.07.12 | I've got my fair share of doomish move in story about my ex as well, but it still was fun while it lasted. |
Emim
02.07.12 | if you get married your chances of divorce are now 80%
good luck |
tommygun
02.07.12 | XingKing that sucks man I'm really sorry to hear that
Emim I never said anything about marriage let's not get ahead of ourselves! |
scissorlocked
02.07.12 | biggest mistake |
iambandersnatch
02.07.12 | Depends on how badass your woman is as to whether this is good news or bad. With most, moving in incurs a lot of bad things, and only a few good things. |
DaveyBoy
02.07.12 | You've been together 6 years & survived a 6 month holiday. Excluding money (mainly mortgage/rent) factors, the hard work is over. Congrats & enjoy. |
Vyndax
02.07.12 | Good luck. |
tommygun
02.07.12 | Davey it's like you read my mind that's exactly what I'm thinking! Surprised at the amount of pessimism going around really |
DaveyBoy
02.07.12 | Hell, depending on how fast-paced the vacation was, that can actually be more stressful than moving in together. A couple of vacations I've been on, there ain't much relaxing time to be had, and you should always be able to make time for that at home. |
iFghtffyrdmns
02.07.12 | nice that's pretty punk rawhk man |
tommygun
02.07.12 | Yeah you got it Davey the trip was awesome but stressful, sort of experience that forms a real strong bond between people |
taylormemer
02.07.12 | I've been with mine for 7 years, lived together for 3 of them. Everything is swell.
You'll be fine. |
tommygun
02.07.12 | Good stuff Taylor it's nice to hear from somebody who doesn't have a horror story! My girl is an extremely good cook I'm gonna be eating like a king |
Deviant.
02.07.12 | Reading some of the comments in this thread I'm reminded of the fact that a lot of people here probably haven't had a relationship with a woman beyond the obvious ones with their mother
As long as you're both mature people then there's no real reason why it won't work. I've been living with mine for a year now (granted in the scheme of things this isn't a terribly long time) but I couldn't ask for anything more right now. We were pretty much living together before we actually decided to find our own place, and sure initially you do sort of miss the idea of being able to have a night/time to yourself but trust me, that won't last long |
SeaAnemone
02.07.12 | *offering a totally unqualified opinion based on incredibly limited (and probably extremely strange) experience that I'm still somehow 100% completely sure of*
oh ok |
tommygun
02.07.12 | Lol thanks Dev
@ Sea - you mean me or the naysayers? |
SeaAnemone
02.07.12 | ... was referring to the naysayers. Dev covered my thoughts from a much less bitter standpoint. |
aok
02.07.12 | sea eric to sputnik: 'i wish i could quit you' |
tommygun
02.07.12 | Haha sweet. Just having a read of your Post Hardcore list now man. Really impressive stuff, can't believe I hadn't seen it before. Bookmarked for future reference, many many thanks |
SeaAnemone
02.07.12 | aokuneff to sputnik: 'will you please marry me?'
but yeah give a few of 'em a go TommyGun, thanks for checking it out! |
aok
02.07.12 | still the most hilarious facebook exchange i've ever had dude. hope you're well |
SeaAnemone
02.07.12 | wait why was it hilarious?
and yeah i don't really intend on making a comeback here
especially since i just operate under my alt when i'm here
that sowingseason one |
SeaAnemone
02.07.12 | never mind i don't need to know, i'm remembering why i don't come back here very much now that waiting on a response is cutting into my siesta time lolz
peace |
aok
02.07.12 | what appeared to be an arbitrary total 180 was what made me laugh. you did have me checking around about my alleged reputation for a bit though. you writing elsewhere these days?
haha: good night sea, good night moon, good night stars, etc, etc |
XingKing
02.07.12 | Does your girlfriend have good taste in music? |
andcas
02.07.12 | if deviant doesn't believe you then what is the point of living. |
fsharptrit0ne
02.07.12 | good luck! |
MoosechriS
02.07.12 | Good luck bro, me and my gf moved in together a year and a half ago now and this are awesome. Gettimg maried next year too :) |
