bakkermaarten007: In Need Of Heartbreak Albums

bakkermaarten007 10.16.14	Please Sputnik. In dire need of albums to go with the feeling of a broken heart.
Froot 10.16.14	Greg Graffin - American Lesion Jeff Buckley - Grace Kanye West - 808s & Heartbreak
AmericanFlagAsh 10.16.14	Try The Shins - Chutes Too Narrow Bon Iver - For Emma, Forever Ago Spiritualized - Ladies and Gentlemen We Are Floating In Space Fleetwood Mac - Rumours Beck - Sea Change Bjork - Homogenic Wilco - Yankee Hotel Foxtrot
NorthernSkylark 10.16.14	bob dylan - blood on the tracks
KrazyKris 10.16.14	Joshua Radin - We Were Here Damien Rice - O
climactic 10.16.14	Deathconciouness
Gnome7 10.16.14	This is a good one for a break up. Glassjaw - Everything You Ever Wanted To Know About Silence
StarvingArtist 10.16.14	Yo Glassjaw's other classic, Worship & Tribute, does wonders too. Also try some Baths or Greg Laswell.
Artuma 10.16.14	just jam hospice nonstop
DikkoZinner 10.16.14	Red Headed Stranger
bakkermaarten007 10.16.14	"penfold- amateurs and professionals" Yeah, it's brilliant but I've listened to it way too many times already.
DominionMM1 10.16.14	are you looking for albums to help you wallow in self pity or do you want albums to help you man the fuck up and move on?
bakkermaarten007 10.16.14	Need more recs. @dominion: what about both?
MrSirLordGentleman 10.16.14	Fleetwood Mac - Rumours [2]
Trebor. 10.16.14	Botch will make you forget women even exist
DominionMM1 10.16.14	clutch- blast tyrant danzig- II: lucifuge andrew wk- i get wet steel panther- all you can eat for sad stuff just jam hank williams, johnny cash, or any of those old country dudes
mxbrady 10.16.14	Converge - Jane Doe for anger Have Mercy - The Earth Pushed Back for being sad and moping
bakkermaarten007 10.16.14	Botch's helping. Still need more though.
wacknizzle 10.16.14	.Crrust - Pain Is A Mere Sensation Norma Jean - Wrongdoers Curl Up And Die - The One Above All, The End Of All That Is
bakkermaarten007 10.16.14	Would like stuff that resemble Converge's Jane Doe (the final song) too. If I recall, that was a brilliant break-up song, full of the hate, disappointment and anger that is in me right now.
YakNips 10.16.14	dude i thought this type of stuff was your specialty
bakkermaarten007 10.16.14	It is. But I'm so hazy right now can't think clearly. Can only sum up a few albums right now. And too agitated to search my catalogs
Artuma 10.16.14	"Would like stuff that resemble Converge's Jane Doe (the final song) too" birds in row - lovers have their say
Skoj 10.16.14	gonna suggest The National's High Violet or Boxer before you mentioned wanting harder stuff. Gospel and Terrible Love are solid. For the heavy, Punch's Anger is about as angry vs. an SO as any record I've ever listened to. Jesus fuck, AJ Perdomo hated that bitch.
ExplosiveOranges 10.16.14	Kanye West - 808s & Heartbreak [2]
bakkermaarten007 10.16.14	No fucking kanye.
Ryus 10.16.14	pig destroyer-terrifyer
Snake. 10.16.14	Bon Iver - For Emma, Forever Ago The National - High Violet Mineral - EndSerenading Converge - You Fail Me or Jane Doe Glassjaw - Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Silence La Dispute - discog Defeater - Travels Cursive - Domestica Tigers Jaw - s/t Sun Kil Moon - Ghosts of the Great Highway Elliott Smith - discog Foxing - The Albatross Death Cab for Cutie - Transatlanticism State Faults - Resonate/Desperate
JoylessBastard 10.16.14	Transatlanticism did the job for me
Xar 10.16.14	fleetwood mac - rumours [3]
bigguytoo9 10.16.14	Ryan Adams - Heartbreaker?
PappyMason 10.16.14	Husker Du - Candy Apple Grey, Pavement - Brighten the Corners, and Poison The Well - The Opposite of December
bakkermaarten007 10.17.14	I wrote her a 4 page love letter, poured my heart into it. never made myself so vulnerable before. She's had a boyfriend since I knew her but lured me in anyway. The way she smiled at me all childish, stood near to me, looked behind her in class to catch my glance, turned red when I talked to her, her eyes got all mushy when I said something 'charming', the way she got really nervous when she was alone with me...all those things convinced me to finally get some closure to this once and for all. And put it into words I wasn't even expecting her to be with me, I wrote her that. I just wanted to express how deeply I've felt for her. How I could never be the man she deserves and how I hope the boy that made an impression on her is still somewhere inside of me. She responded with a fb-post. Wrote a short piece about how I can be nice when I don't separate myslef from others (introverted here), how I need to control my drinking (I only drink in the evening and barely anymore, but she felt like she needed to diagnose me) and worst of all: she told me that it was all with friendly intentions and that she's deeply sorry about giving wrong signals. It is so extremely painful to just be erased like that from her piece of paper, that is her life. Just with one sentence, she degradedd my perceptions to misperceptions and makes me into a delusional person with the heart in the right place. I don't know what's real anymore. Maybe I did see things that weren't there. After all I could be going crazy with my anti-anxiety pills use and drinking (I barely do anymore). I feel like the biggest fool. A friend of mine convinced me to give her the letter. he said it was the sort of letter all women dream of getting in their life. He thought it was a gift.
NorthernSkylark 10.17.14	I've tried that too with a girl, altho it was more sexual desire than being in madly in love, so that's not remotely the same. Someone who'd do that isn't worth your time, it's as simple as that. hit your friend in the face and then get pissed together. you won't feel better in the morning, but eventually the pain will wear off.
Lord(e)Po)))ts 10.17.14	"It's true, women create douchebags. I don't know if I'm going to be able to ever trust someone again with the eager openness of someone who still believes in love" you are the gayest but anyways u should probably listen to at war with walls and mazes by son lux. trust me.
Xar 10.17.14	on the real, 3 is all you'll ever need.
Lord(e)Po)))ts 10.17.14	how old are you people im guessing like 16 you'll get over it and then you'll learn what attracts girls and what doesn't
bakkermaarten007 10.17.14	Life would be much easier being gay. Honesty between fellow males, no ambiguous behaviour (although some men do that too)
bakkermaarten007 10.17.14	I'm 25 edit: and I attract girls, I just fall for the wrong ones I guess.
Lord(e)Po)))ts 10.17.14	there is just as much ambiguous behaviour for homosexuals... its called THE GAME
bakkermaarten007 10.17.14	I should learn to avoid people who play that game.
Lord(e)Po)))ts 10.17.14	dude you are 25 and u are writing a girl self depreciating love letters and questioning your entire reality because a girl doesn't share your feelings? from what you wrote it sounds like you are blowing everything waaaayyyy out of proportion man you need to gain some confidence, you don't find girls by questioning yourself and telling them you'll never be the man they want take it from me dude, ive been there, but it sure isn't how i scored myself a babe almost 10 years older than me that likes to get drunk with me and watch batman porn who is completely out of my league and infinitely more experienced than me. i got her by showing her i was the best guy she could possibly find, whether i believe it or not
bakkermaarten007 10.17.14	Can't take these headphones off. Afraid I'll sobb like a baby once the angry tunes stop.
deathschool 10.17.14	Elliott Smith should put you on the right path
bakkermaarten007 10.17.14	If she says I've misinterpreted everything (and my interpretations were some very strong signals) and there's a chance of that being true. Then yes, I'll doubt reality, my reality. I'v been psychologically plagued with anxiety and depression, so why not? Could be true, maybe i'm getting hallucinations or my brain is fried.
Lord(e)Po)))ts 10.17.14	jeeeeeeez
bakkermaarten007 10.17.14	"i got her by showing her i was the best guy she could possibly find, whether i believe it or not" I'm past believing all women want the best guy. Some just want a controlling guy or worse...daddy issues y'know.
Lord(e)Po)))ts 10.17.14	"If she says I've misinterpreted everything (and my interpretations were some very strong signals) and there's a chance of that being true. Then yes, I'll doubt reality, my reality. I'v been psychologically plagued with anxiety and depression, so why not? Could be true, maybe i'm getting hallucinations or my brain is fried." or you are just terrible at reading signals or just don't realize that everyone expresses their affection differently and its not just a 'girl' thing.
Lord(e)Po)))ts 10.17.14	"I'm past believing all women want the best guy. Some just want a controlling guy or worse...daddy issues y'know." cliches are cool
bakkermaarten007 10.17.14	" or you are just terrible at reading signals or just don't realize that everyone expresses their affection differently and its not just a 'girl' thing." her signals were the most obvious, ostentative signals I'll ever see in my life. It was almost embarassing, especially with other people around.
bakkermaarten007 10.17.14	Anyways, I'd better delete her from my life as quickly as possible.
Lord(e)Po)))ts 10.17.14	"her signals were the most obvious, ostentative signals I'll ever see in my life. It was almost embarassing, especially with other people around." the signals you described could be interpreted in many ways. some people are just flirty. "Anyways, I'd better delete her from my life as quickly as possible." or you could nut up and just be her friend since you obviously care about her a lot
bakkermaarten007 10.17.14	"or you could nut up and just be her friend since you obviously care about her a lot" I could show you the letter (but it's in Dutch) and then you'd graps that after such a confession there's no way I can just be friends again.
Lord(e)Po)))ts 10.17.14	disagreed
Lord(e)Po)))ts 10.17.14	im friends to this day with a girl i poured my heart out to and told her i was madly in love with her and all this shit. shes one of my best friends.
bakkermaarten007 10.17.14	not with this girl.
Jots 10.17.14	you're probably familiar with Carissa's Wierd but if not then jam Songs About Leaving
Lord(e)Po)))ts 10.17.14	well i mean if ya wanna just go be shitty and sad about it instead of being a pair of mature adults thats your prerogative i guess
Jots 10.17.14	Potsy knows the truth Bakker. Nothing wrong with moping a little and letting your emotions out, but eventually it's best to grow up :/
BallsToTheWall 10.17.14	Gayest sputnik list of all time.
BallsToTheWall 10.17.14	Also the worst list of all time. Listen to some Clutch, drink some whiskey and bring a whale home from the bar.
bakkermaarten007 10.17.14	"you're 25 and you're acting like you're 15" Fuck off. You started out as a cool user but you quickly became a little shithead.
Lord(e)Po)))ts 10.17.14	actually futures started off a pussy and then he got cool
BallsToTheWall 10.17.14	You need more Destroyer 666 in your life bakker.
bakkermaarten007 10.17.14	I need sleep now. Jamming converge to fall asleep, there's a first time for everything.
Skoj 10.17.14	start a lawnmower up and scream into the blade. This is actually music and it's loud enough to be loud.
Mutantsnowstorm 10.17.14	dude you need to listen to Front Porch Step-Aware. It's got plenty of stuff heartbreak related
ShadowRemains 10.17.14	actually futures started off a pussy and then became a cunt
ShadowRemains 10.17.14	but yeah sad shit listen to "the crooked kind" by radical face
North0House2 10.17.14	I'm gonna be super lame right and recommend my own album. But I wrote it after my ex slept around for awhile, threatened to commit suicide, and then said she just used me for two years to get away from some guy she slept with behind my back the whole relationship anyway. So yeah, I feel like it's a good album for heartbreak. Check it if you want (it's free anyway): http://stampedetotimberline.bandcamp.com/album/you-were-my-coldest-season
Lord(e)Po)))ts 10.17.14	"start a lawnmower up and scream into the blade. This is actually music and it's loud enough to be loud." looool
Veldin 10.17.14	NICK CAVE & THE BAD SEEDS - "THE BOATMAN'S CALL"
bakkermaarten007 10.17.14	Thanks everyone who rec'd. I'll listen northhouse. If these troubles were your inspiration it could help.
theacademy 10.17.14	the official soundtrack to metal gear solid 3
theacademy 10.17.14	that shit always gets me u kno
theacademy 10.17.14	heres an obvious one that I can't believe you haven't already been recd: http://www.sputnikmusic.com/soundoff.php?albumid=51063#a
YakNips 10.17.14	dude bakker i love you so much
MO 10.17.14	meet up with some buds, down a bunch of shots, drink beers and move onto better things like hitting the gym
WatchItExplode 10.17.14	Semisonic - The Great Divide
YakNips 10.17.14	oh yeah crywank - james is going to die soon
bakkermaarten007 10.17.14	"dude bakker i love you so much" likewise.
MO 10.17.14	potsy the only one talking sense up in here jeez