Counterfeit
10.13.10 | Please don't come here and be an asshole. |
fr33convict
10.13.10 | Dude that sucks. Sorry. |
Jesuslaves
10.13.10 | man up.
nahhhhh, my condolences in all seriousness. |
bloc
10.13.10 | So sorry to hear this |
taroo
10.13.10 | Tragic... |
Obfuscation24
10.13.10 | Sorry to hear that man... :/ |
climactic
10.13.10 | Bro, one of my good friends tried to commit suicide last night. I had to call the cops and they found him on the train tracks waiting to be run over. I made a list about it but no one cared |
tapitforever
10.13.10 | my god that is a shitty situation. im sorry man. suicide is never the answer |
Pagaard
10.13.10 | Sorry to hear that dude. |
Inveigh
10.13.10 | whoa, sorry to hear that man. condolences to you and your friend's family |
eternium
10.13.10 | What the fuck? |
JWT155
10.13.10 | so his brother and his brothers girlfriend? Or his brother and his own girlfriend. [2]
Sad to hear man. |
Enotron
10.13.10 | that really sucks man. my apologies to the family. |
awhiteguy
10.13.10 | Dude, that's terrible. Sorry for your and your friend's family's loss, bro. That's sad. |
Deviant.
10.13.10 | That sucks dude, my sympathies
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porch
10.13.10 | oh well, at least you got some list material out of it |
Winsomniac
10.13.10 | Sincerest condolences, man. |
Counterfeit
10.13.10 | it was his brother and his brothers girlfriend.
thanks guys. |
pizzamachine
10.13.10 | I'm so sorry to hear this. I'll pray for you and the families affected by this. |
BigHans
10.13.10 | whoa really sorry to hear that Feit. Ive had two good friends commit suicide it is fucking brutal to deal with. |
accompliceofmydeath
10.13.10 | Holy crap! You knew the Lakeland people? I saw that on the news. Sorry to hear about that, dude. |
climactic
10.13.10 | Strange how things work. Those kids were way too young. I'm sorry |
Counterfeit
10.13.10 | oh and climactic, that really sucks man, glad to hear they got him alive though.
yeah accomplice, it really sucks.
what pisses me off is i heard that people were making fun of them. if i heard for my self someone making fun of it i would have knocked their fucking teeth in. |
accompliceofmydeath
10.13.10 | yeah, josh, that's it. My buddy lives right near there. Crazy stuff. Come find me, I live in Wisconsin. |
Counterfeit
10.13.10 | yea it is josh |
climactic
10.13.10 | Mhm. Do you have any idea why? |
Slum
10.13.10 | Very sorry to hear this, count. Best wishes, man. |
Ire
10.13.10 | Sorry to hear that. That's terrible! |
WeepingBanana
10.13.10 | damn dude my condolences |
Jesuslaves
10.13.10 | "what pisses me off is i heard that people were making fun of them. if i heard for my self someone making fun of it i would have knocked their fucking teeth in."
believe it or not theres plenty of people out there who actually believe that suicide is a selfish act. yeah, like an eternity spent inside a piece of wood is selfish. |
accompliceofmydeath
10.13.10 | Lakeland is right on the WI and MN border. Why, where do you hang your hat? |
Counterfeit
10.13.10 | Take 96 all the way to the hudson bridge but exit right before and follow the road south josh.
Im sketchy on the details but it goes like this: Lisa's parents left her when she was young, and so she decided that she didnt want to live anymore. And Jacob decided that he didnt want to live without her and if she was going to kill herself he would too. |
eternium
10.13.10 | Suicide is a selfish act. It's not something to be made fun of, but it is a very selfish act in that it completely disregards those who it will affect, such as family. |
porch
10.13.10 | lets not start with the "suicide is selfish" cliches or i might throw up
what's next, "permanent solution to a temporary problem" |
Counterfeit
10.13.10 | I somewhat agree with eternium. but if their life is really that bad, i cant put any blame or anger on them because of it.
also, lets please not turn this into a suicide selfish or not debate. |
climactic
10.13.10 | eternium's got it right. There is ALWAYS a better solution. Also, kids that age shouldn't be that emotionally attached to each other, let alone kill themselves over something like that. Really awful though. |
eternium
10.13.10 | Well, what are you supposed to say about it? I mean, it is a permanent solution to a problem that is most likely temporary. It's cliche to say, but it's true. Nonetheless, it's a heavy decision that is completely up to that person to make and I will sympathize with anyone who has gone through so much that they are willing to take their own life like that.
Anyway, before we get into a long discussion about suicide.. |
awhiteguy
10.13.10 | Yeah, but you should usually save those conversations until a little while after the fact at least. It's kind of selfish to make a critique on someone's actions the day that it happens when talking to someone who knew them. |
Jesuslaves
10.13.10 | "but it is a very selfish act in that it completely disregards those who it will affect, such as family."
that might work as a theory if suicide wasn't triggered by severe depression/devastation and a rock bottom self-esteem. suicidal people DO take their families/friends into account... they believe they're a burden to them and thus think that by removing themselves from the equation, everyone else's lives improve, in the end. i've dealt with depression, sometimes severe back in high school and even had a real random meltdown last fall, and i know how these people feel. it's a mental disease. are schizophrenia, swine flu, and HIV selfish too?.
last post about this for me to try and not turn it into a shitstorm. |
WeepingBanana
10.13.10 | psst. guys i think you should take this to the shoutboxes or something |
porch
10.13.10 | yeah except you have absolutely no idea what's going through their head or what their life experiences
have been so you can't make nonchalant blanket statements like "there is always a better solution".
by the way, lets stop acting like this thread is sacred, he made a list, people will comment about
other shit too, it's not as if its going to cheapen their deaths or anything so give me a break |
eternium
10.13.10 | I've dealt with those issues as well and I'm not attacking anyone that has done it. Besides, reminding whoever might be thinking about it that it is a selfish thing to do might actually remind them that someone would miss them, which might be enough to change their mind. |
awhiteguy
10.13.10 | But once again, is it really appropriate to say these things to someone who knows them on the day it happens? You don't even give any condolences at all, and your first post is a criticism of the horrible act. |
Jesuslaves
10.13.10 | except they don't BELIEVE its selfish. they don't buy the fact that they'd be missed, they feel alone and completely worthless. you can't just tell them otherwise and expect them to buy it. |
8bit
10.13.10 | My condolences to you and the people affected by this, tragic stuff man. |
8bit
10.13.10 | double post.. |
eternium
10.13.10 | I don't know the situation, so I don't know if how I should feel towards the kids. However, I do feel for everyone who it is affecting. |
Inveigh
10.13.10 | Pit continues to make sense, and we continue to ignore him |
awhiteguy
10.13.10 | Yeah, how about that? |
Enotron
10.13.10 | i agree with pit |
Counterfeit
10.13.10 | blake sees, appreciate the words pit.
again, thanks to everyone offering their condolences, its much appreciated. |
BigHans
10.13.10 | yeah lets just let the dude grieve. Awful shit. |
awhiteguy
10.13.10 | No problem, Feit. Death is something we all have to experience, but when it's as tragic as this it should hit everyone in some way. |
TrapThemAlive
10.13.10 | fucking terrible, just terrible to be a family member or friend. sincere condolences |
Lelle
10.13.10 | I've known people who've been suicidal, I can barely begin to imagine how awful it is when somebody actually does it. my condolences to you and everybody who's affected by this |
Deathcar
10.13.10 | Shit man, big man hugs and stuff. That's just awful. |
eternium
10.13.10 | MAN HUGS ALL AROUND. |
Torii
10.13.10 | Dudeeee thats awful. My condolences. |
Counterfeit
10.13.10 | Thank you everyone else.
I wish I could have gone to see my friend right now, but I can't get a ride..
It's on the news right now, god it's so fucking sad. |
ConsiderPhlebas
10.13.10 | Sorry to hear this. Hope that all those affected get through it as best as possible. |