sinisterplague: 3 Year Relationship Just Ended Right Before Xmas, Rec Me Some Emo

danielcardoso 12.23.14	That sucks, man. I'm sorry for you.
zakalwe 12.23.14	What happened? financial pressures from Xmas? The uncertain future shackled by living together? Grew apart? Or the old classic she's having it away with someone else who isn't hung like a door mouse (as are all emo fans)
DanielNightLewis 12.23.14	I hate Myself: 10 Songs.
thacoconut94 12.23.14	Oh Zakalwe, oh dear you awful being
KrazyKris 12.23.14	@zak Don't know yet if that is a hilarious comment or just cruel. But then again cynics can't be wrong, so...
sinisterplague 12.23.14	"What happened? financial pressures from Xmas? The uncertain future shackled by living together? Grew apart? Or the old classic she's having it away with someone else who isn't hung like a door mouse (as are all emo fans)." She's actually more emo than me, but it essentially boils down to her wanting more attention/affection than I could possibly give her. Though I gave her more of that than I could ever give anyone, and love her more than I have anyone, I don't think it will ever quite be enough without giving up on my writing/career aspirations and doing away with my social life. So she decided the more we drag this on, the worse it will be.
tcat84 12.23.14	Dang. . Bitches be needy
zakalwe 12.23.14	Come on dudes of course it's said in jest. I hope it's not too much of a messy break up, the families and friends of both parties understand and you can both move on accordingly.
sinisterplague 12.23.14	I didn't take offense to it zak, but the family situation is a bit complicated. Her's was abusive so she's been living with mine. We're on good terms though, it just sucks.
deathschool 12.23.14	Skip all this other stuff, man. Elliott Smith is who you need right now.
Avagantamos 12.23.14	boris - flood when I listen to flood nothing else matters. there is only flood
Slozio 12.23.14	EDIT Oh wait, Mineral is already on there. Whoops. In that case.... fuck idk
thacoconut94 12.23.14	You should watch perfume commercials, because after watching them you will realise that no matter how much someone hurts you, there are always bigger cunts out there.
sinisterplague 12.23.14	@deathschool, Which album?
thacoconut94 12.23.14	Like the guys who think two French guys jacking each other off and blowing their loads on each other's chests constitutes as a decent commercial
Artuma 12.23.14	red house painters - red house painters i codeine - the white birch william bonney - good vibes knowing we'll never grow up - i think i hate myself suffocate for fuck sake - blazing helicopters elliott smith - discog [2]
thacoconut94 12.23.14	But seriously if you haven't heard it "hesitate" by stone sour is medicine for the soul
sinisterplague 12.23.14	@Slozio I however have only listened to "Power of Failing." So I could check out their other one too.
deathschool 12.23.14	@sinister, like Art said. Discog it up.
Artuma 12.23.14	"I could check out their other one too" it's even better so yea do it
jtswope 12.23.14	Yeah jam everything Elliott Smith has ever made and you'll be more than okay.
SandorClegane 12.23.14	Beck - Sea Change, Morning Phase Ray LaMontagne Ryan Adams ... and the dudes recommending Elliott Smith are spot on.
sinisterplague 12.23.14	Got XO downloading now
Artuma 12.23.14	xo is a good starting point yea gj
RoyalImperialGuard 12.23.14	m/
tommygun 12.23.14	elliott fuck the rest
Titan 12.23.14	i always went with a Morbid Angel type during times like these
PappyMason 12.23.14	Shame to hear that man. Yeah, Elliott Smith is the man. You could also jam: Husker Du - Candy Apple Grey (an awesome break-up record) Alex G - DSU (I've been digging it for a while now... sweet songwriting)
Titan 12.23.14	listening to emo music would only make it worse for me pappy
PappyMason 12.23.14	@Titan Yeah, those recs are for sinisterplague. They're not really emo tho.
Titan 12.23.14	oops, lol leaving now
KrazyKris 12.23.14	~listening to emo music would only make it worse for me~ Isn't that even the point? Just like in fiscal politics, cyclic and anti-cyclic investments. You can either try to block your feelings and distract yourself or you listen to something that resonates with the situation and probably makes it worse
Titan 12.23.14	i could never sulk in it....just me though
Artuma 12.23.14	finally a good comment by kris
KrazyKris 12.23.14	See, I have potential
NightProwler 12.23.14	It's like some of those psychiatrists say... some people just want/need to wallow in their emotions, often for an unlimited amount of time, to get through something. The difficult part, however, is afterwards when the "wallower" gets caught up in said wallowing and refuses to escape it, using it as an excuse and/or crutch.
evilford 12.23.14	going thru something similar myself only 8 year relationship, listen to gorguts
adr 12.23.14	i don't know why but i lol'd on that comment evilford D: "my 8 year relationship ended, jammed Gorguts" fucking lol
Keyblade 12.23.14	jam Warning
Titan 12.23.14	i agree with evil's approach
Snake. 12.23.14	bon iver - for emma, forever ago the national - high violet empire! empire! (i was a lonely estate) - what it takes to move forward death cab for cutie - transatlanticism foxing - the albatross red house painters - discog elliott smith - discog carissa's wierd - songs about leaving glassjaw - everything you ever wanted to know about silence tigers jaw - tigers jaw owen - discog bob dylan - blood on the tracks the weakerthans - left and leaving pianos become the teeth - the lack long after
evilford 12.23.14	jam your emotions down til you don't feel anything it's the only way to be a man, it's the american way
KrazyKris 12.23.14	@NightProwler Can I serve as the prime example of said "problem"?
Arbrathe 12.23.14	same here. it was 2 years, ended about a month and a half ago. try Defeater- Travels Pianos Become The Teeth - The Lack Long After and Penfold - Amateurs & Professionals
evilford 12.23.14	neurosis - through silver in blood
Snake. 12.23.14	don't you always do that tho
Artuma 12.23.14	oooh i forgot about carissa's wierd i'll second em
PappyMason 12.23.14	'jam your emotions down til you don't feel anything it's the only way to be a man, it's the american way' lol. I've heard that before.
NightProwler 12.23.14	Kris: You can be whatever you want to be! It's this Danish psychiatrist I read about, Lars Geer Hammershøj
Greyvy 12.23.14	ill fuck her real good for you tonight bruh #noflexzone
JokineAugustus 12.23.14	Shitty dude. Check Liberate Te Ex Inferis by Zao. Not emo at all, but it works for me.
VisionsFromTheDarkSide 12.23.14	Keaton Henson - Dear Hope you're okay man.
bach 12.23.14	don't listen to emo listen check the smiths
Cygnatti 12.23.14	Damn it feels like we haven't had one of these lists in forever.
Dunpeal 12.23.14	The Story So Far: both albums
Bombastik 12.23.14	Mark lanegan- scrapes at midnight Ben Howard - I forget where we were Elliott smith - discog Mark Kozelek - discog neil young - Tonight's the night, and On the Beach Nick Cave - The Boatman's Call
KrazyKris 12.23.14	~You can be whatever you want to be!~ Thanks, that statement is stupid nonsense though.
Veldin 12.24.14	Same exact scenario happened to me three years ago. Life goes on, trust me. On the Beach - Neil Young [2] Let Love In - Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds
ExplosiveOranges 12.24.14	The Lannisters send their regards.
SgtShock 12.24.14	Pshh, wallowing music? Put on some inspirational jams and next that hoe.
JokineAugustus 12.24.14	LET LOVE IN so hard
DominionMM1 12.24.14	don't wallow, man. celebrate the fact that you can devote more time to other aspects of your life. oh and crack open a beer and jam clutch
deathschool 12.24.14	Sometimes you need to wallow for a little while, or at least dive into the negative feelings. When the time comes, move on though.
Titan 12.24.14	'crack open a beer and jam clutch' win
YakNips 12.24.14	look at how eager sputnik is to make you depressed lmao
YakNips 12.24.14	yeah but listen to snake and artuma's recs honestly
beefshoes 12.24.14	Jam some Meshuggah man. I tried jamming a bunch of lame ass emo and scramz during my last breakup, and it just left me feeling even more miserable. Prog rock and groove metal got me through it, and now, I just wank instead of worrying about ladies.
YakNips 12.24.14	please dont say scramz
ZombicidalMan 12.24.14	Flood [2] it really does take over Otherwise jam some Pedro The Lion and David Bazan
Titan 12.24.14	'I just wank instead of worrying about ladies.' most users on this site beef
Thane 12.24.14	planning for burial
RoyalImperialGuard 12.24.14	https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nFS_uw5ngDM
sinisterplague 12.24.14	http://www.plosone.org/article/info%3Adoi%2F10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0110490 See guys? Science says emotional music is good when your sad. I'm sure this "study" is probably a load of horseshit but I'm still going with it nonetheless.
Gnome7 12.24.14	Been there brah, The Cure's Disintegration and Glassjaws Everything You Ever Wanted To Know About Silence are your best friends. Goodluck man it definitely sucks, but I've been there and used music to escape like you.
Negator 12.24.14	heres a rec, how bout you lay off shitty music
Gnome7 12.24.14	90% of the albums on this list are already great and essential for your situation. I recommend Clarity the most though. Album got me through alot...
sinisterplague 12.24.14	As much as I love Glassjaw, Everything You Need to Know About Silence is more for a specific kind of break-up, the kind where you get seriously fucked over and feel more angry than sad. That's not something I've really related to in a very long time. Disintegration and Clarity on the other hand, definitely.
VinVal 12.24.14	Dude Warning - watching from a distance is the album you need Also Envy
Feather 12.24.14	My Chemical Romance Fall Out Boy Panic! at the disco
SgtShock 12.24.14	best breakup song for me: Vanity's Fair-A Lot Like Birds
Yazz_Flute 12.24.14	Just listen to the Smith Street Band
Yazz_Flute 12.24.14	https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HpZ63JA7O4A
Artuma 12.24.14	"My Chemical Romance Fall Out Boy Panic! at the disco" i agree if op is 12 like you
ButteryBiscuitBass 12.24.14	I have a horrible hangover and my missus will be chewing my fucking ear off for the next 17 hours at least. Wanna swap?
wwba 12.24.14	listening to this always makes me feel better http://youtu.be/q4q5769HWCI
L4titudes 12.24.14	ended? just the beginning
Archelirion 12.24.14	Vi Som Älskade Varandra Så Mycket - Den sorgligaste musiken i världen Sorry to hear the situation you're in, can't imagine what it's like =(
Archelirion 12.24.14	Also, Anaal Nathrakh works quite nicely.
Project 12.24.14	Sorry to hear, dude. Prayin' for ya. Breakups suck. I agree with the Smith Street Band recs. "don't wallow, man. celebrate the fact that you can devote more time to other aspects of your life." [2]
JumpTheFkUp** 12.24.14	next few weeks/months are gonna be awful dude but you'll get over it and you'll have a clarity you didn't used to have before. relationships aren't all made to last forever.
sonictheplumber 12.24.14	pantera
sonictheplumber 12.24.14	definitely not hatebreed haha but it will show you that there is far worse pain than a breakup
VisionsFromTheDarkSide 12.25.14	'I just wank instead of worrying about ladies.' Great advertising
DoctorDoom 12.25.14	Best of luck to you, man. I've been where you are, it gets better. Also good jams.