Lakes: Serious Issues | Sputnikmusic

Lakes 02.23.13	throw em at me
MeatSalad 02.23.13	klaatu - 3:47 EST
Havey 02.23.13	fuck dude what happened now
Lakes 02.23.13	i'll shoutbox you
Calc 02.23.13	milo-milo takes baths
someguest 02.23.13	1 is not depressing at all for me. 2 is probably the most depressing album I own, and because of that reason I never listen to it.
MetallicOpeth 02.23.13	stand up don't lie down
Scoot 02.23.13	laika
Lakes 02.23.13	kid a is depressing to me but it depends on my mood. it's weird. it's a good listen for when i'm depressed and at other times. but i agree with you on TDAGARIM. i only listen to it when i'm seriously depressed.
RosaParks 02.23.13	oceana-birtheater
RosaParks 02.23.13	rinoa-an age among them pianos become the teeth-the lack long after
Lakes 02.23.13	thanks
RosaParks 02.23.13	thursday-no devolucion lol
Lakes 02.23.13	lmao
Necrotica 02.23.13	Everything by Agalloch Everything by Katatonia Hungry Ghosts - Alone, Alone
RosaParks 02.23.13	a bunny's caravan-draining puddles, receiving treasures
foxblood 02.23.13	time to burn - is.land
MetallicOpeth 02.23.13	why do you need depressing music
RosaParks 02.23.13	the world is a beautiful place and i am no longer afraid to die-formlessness
Havey 02.23.13	k for real THIS is depressive music: Harvey Milk - One of Us Cannot Be Wrong truly fucking heart-rendering, and prob best vocal performance ever towards the end
Ignimbrite 02.23.13	Rorcal - Világvége it's not quite depressing but it's evil as fuck
tommygun 02.23.13	kid a ain't depressing
MeatSalad 02.23.13	yeah just get that whole harvey milk album lakez
aidanwm 02.23.13	xiu xiu - dear god, i hate myself hum - you'd prefer an astronaut have a nice life - deathconsciousness
someguest 02.23.13	http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MoPUorqaV94
Havey 02.23.13	what meatsalad said
someguest 02.23.13	Just listen to my link and forget this list.
wakeupdead 02.23.13	http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQcNH_aD6Ds
SupercolliderMusic 02.23.13	___How To Disappear Completely____ -Sparklehorse - It's A Wonderful Life
nanyt 02.23.13	井内賢吾
Mickeymau5 02.23.13	The Cure - Disintegration
wacknizzle 02.23.13	.crrust - pain is mere sensation bout as depressing as it gets
HillaryClitTounge 02.23.13	Immortal Technique Revolutionary Volume 2
Aids 02.23.13	elliott smith, particularly Either/Or and most of Figure 8 are really depressing
wacknizzle 02.23.13	and Blaise Bailey Finnegan III by Godspeed
GiaNXGX 02.23.13	deathprod - morals and dogma don't forget the razor!!!!
Keyblade 02.23.13	Forgive Me - Last Drop of Life Nae'blis - Sketches of Reality Lifelover - Konkurs Coldworld - Melancholie
Keyblade 02.23.13	oh and Nights Amore - Subscribers of Death ^ this one is like a soundtrack to depression/suicide
ethixx 02.23.13	aww lakes needs 2 cryyy
Fluttertrank 02.23.13	I Hate Myself - 10 Songs
MoosechriS 02.23.13	Gris - Il Etait une Foret... Warning - Watching From A Distance two of my faves
Keyblade 02.23.13	Warning [2] how could i have forgot them
MrElmo 02.23.13	Sweet williams-Bliss
AliW1993 02.23.13	Arab Strap - Philophobia
Spec 02.23.13	Codeine- The White Birch
geasoftime 02.23.13	Of the Wand and the Moon - The Lone Descent. Do yourself a favor and download this immediately. I guarantee you'll commit suicide before the album ends.
Spec 02.23.13	Getting.
Jethro42 02.23.13	Nick Drake
TheNexus100 02.23.13	low low low low low low low low
EvoHavok 02.23.13	A Pale Horse Named Death - And Hell will follow me
ilovetree 02.23.13	giles corey, have a nice life, ian miles, crywank
Thor 02.23.13	Storm Corrosion
BallsToTheWall 02.23.13	If you want depressing just watch Laker highlights from this season.
ilovetree 02.23.13	jk 6 straight
kitsch 02.23.13	elliott smith more than life - love let me go any goth music
Melons 02.23.13	Jackson C. Frank
Shuyin 02.23.13	mouth of the architect - quietly
Lakes 02.23.13	Basically, I fell in love with a girl and now I've found out she's mentally ill. All I can say really. Any good music for that?
DominionMM1 02.23.13	aren't they all?
Lakes 02.23.13	Like seriously so
DominionMM1 02.23.13	now i'm intrigued
Lakes 02.23.13	She claims to have visions and shit and I'm messed up badly because its hard for me to let her go
DominionMM1 02.23.13	visions of what? how long were you dating?
Lakes 02.23.13	Like a month. I don't really want to get into it but it's pretty fucked up
DominionMM1 02.23.13	a month?
ilovetree 02.23.13	thats what he said yeah
Lakes 02.23.13	We were never officially in a relationship because she claims that she's an immortal 23,000 year old elf and not allowed to date mortals. I'm not making this shit up
bakkermaarten007 02.23.13	"She claims to have visions and shit and I'm messed up badly because its hard for me to let her go" Shouldn't you really try to figure out what's causing these problems? There are numerous things that can cause these things, I have had some visions because of some brand of sleeping pills I took and they were scary as hell. It's not because she claims to have these visions she is insane you know.
DominionMM1 02.23.13	and you fell in love with her, you say?
Lakes 02.23.13	Read my previous comment
Lakes 02.23.13	Well, up until now I had no idea. She acts relatively normal in person
scissorlocked 02.23.13	listen to low man
ConorIsNotHere 02.23.13	http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OkvVr6n1cGk Just don't read the comments as their may be spoilers...
Lakes 02.23.13	Thanks all
RosaParks 02.23.13	what did i just read
Lakes 02.23.13	I'm completely serious
Lakes 02.23.13	If you read the whole 5 page long thing she sent to me you'd be ready to put a bullet in your head
ViperAces 02.23.13	hey guys i feel happy please help me hate myself again
YankeeDudel 02.23.13	"We were never officially in a relationship because she claims that she's an immortal 23,000 year old elf and not allowed to date mortals. I'm not making this shit up" Seems cool as hell
Lakes 02.23.13	lol
YankeeDudel 02.23.13	Pick her brain for science man. This could be the biggest discovery since caller ID.
bringonthebreakdown 02.23.13	the antlers - hospice
VisionsFromTheDarkSide 02.23.13	Man sounds almost identical to a situation I was in a couple years back, she said she heard voices and shit, so I know how you feel. American Football (Self Titled) Early Burzum stuff It depends what kind of depressing you want
fish. 02.23.13	"she claims that she's an immortal 23,000 year old elf and not allowed to date mortals" she sounds like she'd be amazing in bed just saying
fish. 02.23.13	lustmord, grouper, joy division, the smiths maybe
VisionsFromTheDarkSide 02.23.13	Oh, possibly F#A# Infinity by GY!BE
RosaParks 02.23.13
Basman 02.23.13	Red House Painters
bakkermaarten007 02.23.13	"Read my previous comment" Okay, sorry didn't see it.
chickasawcaleb 02.23.13	LISTEN TO BLACK PARADE BY MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE IT MADE ME THINK OF DEATH D:
bakkermaarten007 02.23.13	On another note, I think this song would be fitting to your situation http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wxAaf16xXRk
Havey 02.23.13	I'm with Maarten on this one, you should try to figure out what's causing these mental problems and actually try to help her out since you really car about her. I know what happened with her mom, but how's her relationship with her dad?
Lakes 02.23.13	Bad. She hardly ever sees him and apparently all he cares about is his new girlfriend. I don't know what I'm supposed to say. It's very hard to express to her
Lakes 02.23.13	Ideally, yeah, I'd like to help her, but it's like my brother told me: some people just can't be fixed. She sincerely believes this stuff and even says she knows 8 other people who have the same visions. She needs a professional psychologist of some sort. I can't possibly help her without pushing her away
Lakes 02.23.13	Furthermore, whenever I've tried to help her she just gets accusatory and starts telling me that I can't possibly know what goes on in her head and whether its real or not
Lakes 02.23.13	Think I'm just gonna let it go but I'm waiting
Lakes 02.23.13	Furthermore, she was raped as a kid and her old boyfriend was just using her for sex. Plus I'm sure a ton of other shit that I don't even know about. Man I'd love to help her but I'm 16 and its hard for me to handle anything like that
toxin. 02.23.13	Don't stick your dick in crazyDon't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy. although if you want actual advice and actually care for her, you need to get her to a therapist, seriously. you can't handle this and it sounds like she's got major issues.
Trebor17 02.23.13	I have homework but I don't want to do it
Lakes 02.23.13	I don't think I can do that but that's what needs to happen, yeah
sixdegrees 02.23.13	"Don't stick your dick in crazy" best advice so far
Lakes 02.23.13	Yet I'm texting her right now. Goddamnit. Can't control myself
RosaParks 02.23.13	"I have homework but I don't want to do it" same. good luck rob lowe
toxin. 02.23.13	dude, just do it and if she ignores you or takes it badly, you tried. Talk to her parents too (idk she probably has issues with them so if there's one of them she trusts ask that one). If all fails, just forget it. take it from someone who knows... getting hung up on someone is the dumbest thing you can do in high school, especially someone certifiably crazy
RosaParks 02.23.13	"getting hung up on someone is the dumbest thing you can do in high school" jesus christ. this
Lakes 02.23.13	I know you're all right, it's just going to take me a while to get a grip on myself. I literally just laid down on my floor doing nothing but crying and listening to Kid A last night. I'm way too emotional and that's probably my biggest flaw
Calc 02.23.13	lol.
Lakes 02.23.13	Oh fuck off you piece of shit
ilovetree 02.23.13	is she by any chance korean?
Calc 02.23.13	you'll be ok man lol. channel your angst onto me.
Lakes 02.23.13	Okay calc
Cygnatti 02.23.13	lakes you joshin' us? you can't be serious...
toxin. 02.23.13	"I know you're all right, it's just going to take me a while to get a grip on myself. I literally just laid down on my floor doing nothing but crying and listening to Kid A last night. I'm way too emotional and that's probably my biggest flaw" lol okay, yeah take some time and get a grip over your emotions. But seriously dude you can't be doing this to yourself over some girl. I hate to extend this sexist, heteronormative idiom, but you just have to man up. Like that's a weird situation you're in but it's not even like you can be basking in self-pity and/or self-loathing because of it, so tbph I don't know why you were crying. You must like this girl a lot, and liking a girl a lot whom you're not dating never works out. All it does is fuck you up
Fluttertrank 02.23.13	"You must like this girl a lot, and liking a girl a lot whom you're not dating never works out. All it does is fuck you up" fucking true, but if you actually care about that person i wouldnt give up hope, i almost did, but at the end things actually worked out. just saying.
londoncalling457 02.23.13	I have homework but I don't want to do it [2]
toxin. 02.23.13	"fucking true, but if you actually care about that person i wouldnt give up hope, i almost did, but at the end things actually worked out. just saying." nononononono goddamn dude, 'grats for you, but hoping for a Hollywood ending rarely works out. For the minority it works, yeah, but for most people, it just makes you want to kick yourself in your shins when you realize how many opportunities you blew hoping on this one person. I speak from personal experience, btw, as a 19-year old who's never not been single despite not having enough fingers to count how many girls hit on him in HS.
Fluttertrank 02.23.13	"goddamn dude, 'grats for you, but hoping for a Hollywood ending rarely works out. For the minority it works, yeah, but for most people, it just makes you want to kick yourself in your shins when you realize how many opportunities you blew hoping on this one person. I speak from personal experience, btw, as a 19-year old who's never not been single despite not having enough fingers to count how many girls hit on him in HS." well hey its not like i enjoy having gown threw what i fucking did all those years but and i was drained of all my hope and it sill worked out for me. its not some Hollywood ending in a movie. its real. i would have wanted to do more than kick my self in the shins if things didnt go as they did now. I speak from personal experience my self. im saying, dont sit idly by when you want to help someone, even if you are afraid that person will hate you or you will push them away, just go for it. cause i didnt do that and its a big regret. i got lucky. but i guess what do i know. im 18 and only been with one girl my entire lonely life. so whatever.
toxin. 02.23.13	No, no, you're misinterpreting me. Like I said, congratulations for you---no sarcasm intended. However, "if you actually care about that person i wouldnt give up hope" is just awful advice. It's not like Lakes has just sat here doing nothing. I'm pretty sure the girl knows he's interested in her and she's just insane (no offense). "I wouldn't give up hope" is just way too reminiscent of the same idealism I had that "we were meant for each other so I just shouldn't give up" even when there were obvious signals that she wasn't interested (like, I don't know, her having a boyfriend!!). I agree that you should put yourself out there and just go for it, 100%. But if you've done that and it didn't happen (like here), it's just naive to think "well I really care for her so I'm not gonna give up, and one day she'll come to her senses and we'll have our happy ending!"
Fluttertrank 02.23.13	ah well i see exactly what you mean. but im not saying "well I really care for her so I'm not gonna give up, and one day she'll come to her senses and we'll have our happy ending!" im saying just go and help her with what ever the hell her problem is. cause being hopeless about helping her will get you and her no where. cause i was hopeless myself. just saying go help her. thats what i mean haha.
toxin. 02.23.13	Fair enough. But I can't say I really agree with what you're saying, even now, because he's tried and after some point you just cut your losses and call it quits.
fromtheinside 02.23.13	next time on General Hospital
toxin. 02.23.13	Calling it quits in terms of romantic hopes. As a friend yeah you should be trying to help her I guess. Or maybe not, he's 16 and has problems of his own.
Fluttertrank 02.23.13	"Calling it quits in terms of romantic hopes." yeah that im going to have to agree with.
wacknizzle 02.23.13	"We were never officially in a relationship because she claims that she's an immortal 23,000 year old elf and not allowed to date mortals. I'm not making this shit up" Im sorry I laughed so hard at this but I honestly fell really sorry, that sucks man. I wouldn't think of trying to date her until you can help her get better, she really just needs a friend. I really don't know what to tell you that can help her get better, ppl get really obsessed with delusion beliefs that they can't snap out of like thinking they're an alien from a distant race on another planet that's stranded on earth and shit like that. You just gotta do whatever you can to snap her out of it.
fromtheinside 02.23.13	is that serious? that cannot be a real person. are you dating blood ninja?
toxin. 02.23.13	lol certifiably insane, lakes will not snap her out of anything she needs professional help
Ovrot 02.23.13	What if she really is an elf? Did you think of that?
Lakes 02.23.13	of course she's certifiably crazy. contrary to what toxin might think though, it's not that she's not interested in me. she likes me so it's mutual, it's just that i don't want to move forward because i'm pretty sure she's batshit insane and that kinda hurts
Ovrot 02.23.13	Tell her you are an immortal elf as well. Boom No problems now
Lakes 02.23.13	"he's 16 and has problems of his own." my brother told me the same thing last night to just not bother because some people can't be fixed and yeah he's right. but he also told me that maybe i should wait until i know the extent of the problem. if it gets in the way of me interacting with her and she starts bringing it up all the time and has breakdowns in front of me or whatever, then it NEEDS to end
Lakes 02.23.13	what weirds me out is that she says she knows 8 people who are "like her." like wtf? 8 people with the exact same delusions?
toxin. 02.23.13	oh alright, that was ambiguous. you don't have any obligation to help her out, unless you guys have been good friends or something. wouldn't surprise me if she's just saying that shit because she's got her own issues to deal with (didn't you say rape? yeah that could fuck you up) and this is her weird defense mechanism to prevent letting in males into her life. regardless this isn't something you can help her move on past, prob gonna need some medicine and counseling and stuff.
foxblood 02.23.13	damn maybe she is an immortal elf holy shit real talk, i had a similar situation when i was around 17, was dating a person that was very mentally ill and unstable. for a while i endured it and helped as much as i could, but after trying as hard as i could for a very long time and getting no gratitude or appreciation in return i cut my losses. getting out of that relationship was one of the best decisions i ever made. i realized she was a cancer in my life and she was deteriorating me at a ridiculously young age. try and help her as best you can but don't become too deeply invested
Lakes 02.23.13	as i've said, i don't know the extent of the problem at this point and i don't know how it'll affect our conversations or anything else. she sounds insane, but she's never had any problems keeping it together before. she's been through a lot of shit, she's been raped, her mom died a few years back and her dad is never around. that would fuck anyone up.
Ovrot 02.23.13	Yeah but seriously it probably a coping mechanism and requires some expert help and medication, and If I was in your situation I wouldn't continue with her. But it's your move. Also if she marries you she won't be immortal anymore and can't go to the undying lands. That blows!
ethixx 02.23.13	I've never laughed this hard at anything Sputnik has thrown at me up until this point.
Lakes 02.23.13	lol, and it's all true
ethixx 02.23.13	idk what to say, lakes. just try and help her out and do whatever you wanna do with her romantically. tbh, i would defffinitely keep her.. this chick sounds beyond fun.
Lakes 02.23.13	crazy, but yeah, immensely fun.
ethixx 02.23.13	probably would write some sickkk music, collab with her in above the graves? better yet, start a band and create a new elvish mystic influenced genre
ethixx 02.23.13	stop crying, it's time to celebrate this bitch has potential and she's all yours
Lakes 02.23.13	http://i48.tinypic.com/9ieqsl.jpg
ethixx 02.23.13	DUDE, YES@!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Lakes 02.23.13	she sent me that this morning
ethixx 02.23.13	super cute, wow i wish i was you!!!!
Lakes 02.23.13	really
ethixx 02.23.13	never delete this list
Lakes 02.23.13	fap material?
Ovrot 02.23.13	Holy shit she is an elf Go for it. You don't find elf chicks.
toxin. 02.23.13	"she sounds insane, but she's never had any problems keeping it together before. she's been through a lot of shit, she's been raped, her mom died a few years back and her dad is never around. that would fuck anyone up." well yes no one's saying she doesn't have reason to be fucked up, but that doesn't change the fact that she probably is fucked up and thus needs to see someone about. 'tis all i'm saying
tommygun 02.23.13	bitches be crazy cut ties
someguest 02.23.13	"Basically, I fell in love with a girl and now I've found out she's mentally ill." All women are 'mentally ill'. You'll figure this out with time.
GiaNXGX 02.23.13	doji moritaaaaaaa
toxin. 02.23.13	c'mon someguest, at least be funny or witty or something all thhat comment did was make you come off as misogynistic in the least entertaining way
someguest 02.23.13	Whatever dude, I'm just speaking from my experiences.
GiaNXGX 02.23.13	misogynistic: yes manly: maybe entertaining: yes
toxin. 02.23.13	"Whatever dude, I'm just speaking from my experiences." didn't realize you were being serious. that fucking sucks (that you'd have experiences that make you feel that way).
someguest 02.23.13	Yeah. The last girl stopped talking to me because 'she found out her friend had cancer'. Nice reasoning, bitch.
Turtlestlker 02.23.13	Hey, if you care for her a lot just be with her. Even though you say she is certifiably crazy you should be able to look past it. Who knows maybe if you get closer to her then you can help, sometimes all person needs is someone to rely on. Don't call her crazy and don't accuse her of anything. Just try and understand with a much reason as you can, maybe you can convince her to see a therapist or seek some medical help. You'd be surprised at the things that happen to people, how often, and what consequences they have on their psyche.
Lakes 02.23.13	i'm trying to help her but at this point i'm not quite sure how bad it is. i'm really just waiting it out right now
DarthMann 02.23.13	andcas called me a loser what can i do :[
Lakes 02.23.13	cry
RosaParks 02.23.13	somehow i knew this thread would still be going
DarthMann 02.23.13	ok i cried i feel better now
someguest 02.23.13	Have a good cry.
Cygnatti 02.23.13	lakes, she is pretty cute
someguest 02.23.13	eh lol
Lakes 02.23.13	agreed
RosaParks 02.23.13	tbh no one here is going to know the situation better than you so your first thought of what to do is going to be what's best for you and not the advice of people that don't even know her sort of ironic comment i guess
Lakes 02.23.13	that's true. kind of a pointless exercise but w/e
someguest 02.23.13	the bottom line is if you're having trouble already the chances of this working out at all are non-existent to minimal at best
RosaParks 02.23.13	yea someguest that's probably the best advice so far in this thread
Cygnatti 02.23.13	with a girl like that, the chances for anybody is minimal at best like, at what point did she go from being a cool/nice/cute normal-ish girl...to this?
someguest 02.23.13	Everybody's 'normal' until you get to know them well enough. You can only hide it for so long.
Cygnatti 02.23.13	Hm, you have a point. But this one seems quite drastic.
demigod93 02.23.13	there's weird, then there's weird. with italics.
Lakes 02.23.13	definitely
ethixx 02.24.13	if you dont date her can i
Havey 02.24.13	aww
RosaParks 02.24.13	stop bumping this
Havey 02.24.13	lol
someguest 02.24.13	Talking about women makes him uncomfortable.
Havey 02.24.13	rosa what you need to understand is that what this is girl is a little new age ish and what lakes simple patterns with the varied issues have have got the person psyched 3D
ethixx 02.24.13	lol
ethixx 02.24.13	HAVEY YOU FUCKING BEAT ME TO IT
toxin. 02.24.13	i'd hardly consider her a woman she's like what 16 is that too young for me 19/2 + 7 = 16.5 yea
Havey 02.24.13	aw ethy c'mere
fromtheinside 02.24.13	there are... sooooo many jokes just waiting to be made from this thread that it's unfair to comedy
toxin. 02.24.13	let this thread never die omg :3 :v 3 ^ that dumb thing was my best attempt at adding whiskers
toxin. 02.24.13	wow the auto-remove spaces at the beginning of a line ruins everything
toxin. 02.24.13	. v ) . ^ ) better but the 3 looks dumb
wacknizzle 02.24.13	Dude, feed her some shrooms and be her trip buddy, u should be able to guide her back to reality and help her realize she ain't some immortal 23,000 year old unlovable wizard or what not.
Asdfp277 02.24.13	trespasser william??
Lakes 02.24.13	she uses :3 :[
ilovetree 02.24.13	q8^D