Lakes
02.23.13 | throw em at me |
MeatSalad
02.23.13 | klaatu - 3:47 EST |
Havey
02.23.13 | fuck dude what happened now |
Lakes
02.23.13 | i'll shoutbox you |
Calc
02.23.13 | milo-milo takes baths |
someguest
02.23.13 | 1 is not depressing at all for me.
2 is probably the most depressing album I own, and because of that reason I never listen to it. |
MetallicOpeth
02.23.13 | stand up don't lie down |
Scoot
02.23.13 | laika |
Lakes
02.23.13 | kid a is depressing to me but it depends on my mood. it's weird. it's a good listen for when i'm depressed and at other times. but i agree with you on TDAGARIM. i only listen to it when i'm seriously depressed. |
RosaParks
02.23.13 | oceana-birtheater |
RosaParks
02.23.13 | rinoa-an age among them
pianos become the teeth-the lack long after |
Lakes
02.23.13 | thanks |
RosaParks
02.23.13 | thursday-no devolucion
lol |
Lakes
02.23.13 | lmao |
Necrotica
02.23.13 | Everything by Agalloch
Everything by Katatonia
Hungry Ghosts - Alone, Alone |
RosaParks
02.23.13 | a bunny's caravan-draining puddles, receiving treasures |
foxblood
02.23.13 | time to burn - is.land |
MetallicOpeth
02.23.13 | why do you need depressing music |
RosaParks
02.23.13 | the world is a beautiful place and i am no longer afraid to die-formlessness |
Havey
02.23.13 | k for real THIS is depressive music:
Harvey Milk - One of Us Cannot Be Wrong
truly fucking heart-rendering, and prob best vocal performance ever towards the end |
Ignimbrite
02.23.13 | Rorcal - Világvége
it's not quite depressing but it's evil as fuck |
tommygun
02.23.13 | kid a ain't depressing |
MeatSalad
02.23.13 | yeah just get that whole harvey milk album lakez |
aidanwm
02.23.13 | xiu xiu - dear god, i hate myself
hum - you'd prefer an astronaut
have a nice life - deathconsciousness |
someguest
02.23.13 | http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MoPUorqaV94 |
Havey
02.23.13 | what meatsalad said |
someguest
02.23.13 | Just listen to my link and forget this list. |
wakeupdead
02.23.13 | http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQcNH_aD6Ds |
SupercolliderMusic
02.23.13 | ___How To Disappear Completely____
-Sparklehorse - It's A Wonderful Life
|
nanyt
02.23.13 | 井内賢吾 |
Mickeymau5
02.23.13 | The Cure - Disintegration |
wacknizzle
02.23.13 | .crrust - pain is mere sensation
bout as depressing as it gets |
HillaryClitTounge
02.23.13 | Immortal Technique Revolutionary Volume 2 |
Aids
02.23.13 | elliott smith, particularly Either/Or and most of Figure 8 are really depressing
|
wacknizzle
02.23.13 | and Blaise Bailey Finnegan III by Godspeed |
GiaNXGX
02.23.13 | deathprod - morals and dogma
don't forget the razor!!!! |
Keyblade
02.23.13 | Forgive Me - Last Drop of Life
Nae'blis - Sketches of Reality
Lifelover - Konkurs
Coldworld - Melancholie |
Keyblade
02.23.13 | oh and
Nights Amore - Subscribers of Death
^ this one is like a soundtrack to depression/suicide |
ethixx
02.23.13 | aww lakes needs 2 cryyy |
Fluttertrank
02.23.13 | I Hate Myself - 10 Songs |
MoosechriS
02.23.13 | Gris - Il Etait une Foret...
Warning - Watching From A Distance
two of my faves |
Keyblade
02.23.13 | Warning [2] how could i have forgot them |
MrElmo
02.23.13 | Sweet williams-Bliss |
AliW1993
02.23.13 | Arab Strap - Philophobia |
Spec
02.23.13 | Codeine- The White Birch |
geasoftime
02.23.13 | Of the Wand and the Moon - The Lone Descent. Do yourself a favor and download this immediately. I guarantee you'll commit suicide before the album ends. |
Spec
02.23.13 | Getting. |
Jethro42
02.23.13 | Nick Drake |
TheNexus100
02.23.13 | low
low
low
low
low
low
low
low |
EvoHavok
02.23.13 | A Pale Horse Named Death - And Hell will follow me |
ilovetree
02.23.13 | giles corey, have a nice life, ian miles, crywank |
Thor
02.23.13 | Storm Corrosion |
BallsToTheWall
02.23.13 | If you want depressing just watch Laker highlights from this season. |
ilovetree
02.23.13 | jk 6 straight |
kitsch
02.23.13 | elliott smith
more than life - love let me go
any goth music |
Melons
02.23.13 | Jackson C. Frank |
Shuyin
02.23.13 | mouth of the architect - quietly |
Lakes
02.23.13 | Basically, I fell in love with a girl and now I've found out she's mentally ill. All I can say really. Any good music for that? |
DominionMM1
02.23.13 | aren't they all? |
Lakes
02.23.13 | Like seriously so |
DominionMM1
02.23.13 | now i'm intrigued |
Lakes
02.23.13 | She claims to have visions and shit and I'm messed up badly because its hard for me to let her go |
DominionMM1
02.23.13 | visions of what? how long were you dating? |
Lakes
02.23.13 | Like a month. I don't really want to get into it but it's pretty fucked up |
DominionMM1
02.23.13 | a month? |
ilovetree
02.23.13 | thats what he said yeah |
Lakes
02.23.13 | We were never officially in a relationship because she claims that she's an immortal 23,000 year old elf and not allowed to date mortals. I'm not making this shit up |
bakkermaarten007
02.23.13 | "She claims to have visions and shit and I'm messed up badly because its hard for me to let her go"
Shouldn't you really try to figure out what's causing these problems?
There are numerous things that can cause these things, I have had some visions because of some brand of sleeping pills I took and they were scary as hell.
It's not because she claims to have these visions she is insane you know. |
DominionMM1
02.23.13 | and you fell in love with her, you say? |
Lakes
02.23.13 | Read my previous comment |
Lakes
02.23.13 | Well, up until now I had no idea. She acts relatively normal in person |
scissorlocked
02.23.13 | listen to low man |
ConorIsNotHere
02.23.13 | http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OkvVr6n1cGk
Just don't read the comments as their may be spoilers... |
Lakes
02.23.13 | Thanks all |
RosaParks
02.23.13 | what did i just read |
Lakes
02.23.13 | I'm completely serious |
Lakes
02.23.13 | If you read the whole 5 page long thing she sent to me you'd be ready to put a bullet in your head |
ViperAces
02.23.13 | hey guys i feel happy please help me hate myself again |
YankeeDudel
02.23.13 | "We were never officially in a relationship because she claims that she's an immortal 23,000 year old elf and not allowed to date mortals. I'm not making this shit up"
Seems cool as hell |
Lakes
02.23.13 | lol |
YankeeDudel
02.23.13 | Pick her brain for science man. This could be the biggest discovery since caller ID. |
bringonthebreakdown
02.23.13 | the antlers - hospice |
VisionsFromTheDarkSide
02.23.13 | Man sounds almost identical to a situation I was in a couple years back, she said she heard voices and
shit, so I know how you feel.
American Football (Self Titled)
Early Burzum stuff
It depends what kind of depressing you want
|
fish.
02.23.13 | "she claims that she's an immortal 23,000 year old elf and not allowed to date mortals"
she sounds like she'd be amazing in bed just saying |
fish.
02.23.13 | lustmord, grouper, joy division, the smiths
maybe |
VisionsFromTheDarkSide
02.23.13 | Oh, possibly F#A# Infinity by GY!BE |
RosaParks
02.23.13 | |
Basman
02.23.13 | Red House Painters |
bakkermaarten007
02.23.13 | "Read my previous comment"
Okay, sorry didn't see it. |
chickasawcaleb
02.23.13 | LISTEN TO BLACK PARADE BY MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE IT MADE ME THINK OF DEATH D: |
bakkermaarten007
02.23.13 | On another note, I think this song would be fitting to your situation
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wxAaf16xXRk |
Havey
02.23.13 | I'm with Maarten on this one, you should try to figure out what's causing these mental problems and actually try to help her
out since you really car about her. I know what happened with her mom, but how's her relationship with her dad? |
Lakes
02.23.13 | Bad. She hardly ever sees him and apparently all he cares about is his new girlfriend. I don't know what I'm supposed to say. It's very hard to express to her |
Lakes
02.23.13 | Ideally, yeah, I'd like to help her, but it's like my brother told me: some people just can't be fixed. She sincerely believes this
stuff and even says she knows 8 other people who have the same visions. She needs a professional psychologist of some
sort. I can't possibly help her without pushing her away |
Lakes
02.23.13 | Furthermore, whenever I've tried to help her she just gets accusatory and starts telling me that I can't possibly know what
goes on in her head and whether its real or not |
Lakes
02.23.13 | Think I'm just gonna let it go but I'm waiting |
Lakes
02.23.13 | Furthermore, she was raped as a kid and her old boyfriend was just using her for sex. Plus I'm sure a ton of other shit that I don't even know about. Man I'd love to help her but I'm 16 and its hard for me to handle anything like that |
toxin.
02.23.13 | Don't stick your dick in crazyDon't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.Don't stick your dick in crazy.
although if you want actual advice and actually care for her, you need to get her to a therapist, seriously. you can't handle this and it sounds like she's got major issues. |
Trebor17
02.23.13 | I have homework but I don't want to do it |
Lakes
02.23.13 | I don't think I can do that but that's what needs to happen, yeah |
sixdegrees
02.23.13 | "Don't stick your dick in crazy"
best advice so far |
Lakes
02.23.13 | Yet I'm texting her right now. Goddamnit. Can't control myself |
RosaParks
02.23.13 | "I have homework but I don't want to do it"
same. good luck rob lowe |
toxin.
02.23.13 | dude, just do it and if she ignores you or takes it badly, you tried. Talk to her parents too (idk she probably has issues with them so if there's one of them she trusts ask that one). If all fails, just forget it. take it from someone who knows... getting hung up on someone is the dumbest thing you can do in high school, especially someone certifiably crazy |
RosaParks
02.23.13 | "getting hung up on someone is the dumbest thing you can do in high school"
jesus christ. this |
Lakes
02.23.13 | I know you're all right, it's just going to take me a while to get a grip on myself. I literally just laid down on my floor doing nothing but crying and listening to Kid A last night. I'm way too emotional and that's probably my biggest flaw |
Calc
02.23.13 | lol. |
Lakes
02.23.13 | Oh fuck off you piece of shit |
ilovetree
02.23.13 | is she by any chance korean? |
Calc
02.23.13 | you'll be ok man lol. channel your angst onto me. |
Lakes
02.23.13 | Okay calc |
Cygnatti
02.23.13 | lakes you joshin' us?
you can't be serious... |
toxin.
02.23.13 | "I know you're all right, it's just going to take me a while to get a grip on myself. I literally just laid down on my floor doing nothing but crying and listening to Kid A last night. I'm way too emotional and that's probably my biggest flaw"
lol okay, yeah take some time and get a grip over your emotions. But seriously dude you can't be doing this to yourself over some girl. I hate to extend this sexist, heteronormative idiom, but you just have to man up. Like that's a weird situation you're in but it's not even like you can be basking in self-pity and/or self-loathing because of it, so tbph I don't know why you were crying.
You must like this girl a lot, and liking a girl a lot whom you're not dating never works out. All it does is fuck you up |
Fluttertrank
02.23.13 | "You must like this girl a lot, and liking a girl a lot whom you're not dating never works out. All it does is fuck you up"
fucking true, but if you actually care about that person i wouldnt give up hope, i almost did, but at the end things actually worked out. just saying. |
londoncalling457
02.23.13 | I have homework but I don't want to do it [2] |
toxin.
02.23.13 | "fucking true, but if you actually care about that person i wouldnt give up hope, i almost did, but at the end things actually worked out. just saying."
nononononono
goddamn dude, 'grats for you, but hoping for a Hollywood ending rarely works out. For the minority it works, yeah, but for most people, it just makes you want to kick yourself in your shins when you realize how many opportunities you blew hoping on this one person. I speak from personal experience, btw, as a 19-year old who's never not been single despite not having enough fingers to count how many girls hit on him in HS. |
Fluttertrank
02.23.13 | "goddamn dude, 'grats for you, but hoping for a Hollywood ending rarely works out. For the minority it works, yeah, but for most people, it just makes you want to kick yourself in your shins when you realize how many opportunities you blew hoping on this one person. I speak from personal experience, btw, as a 19-year old who's never not been single despite not having enough fingers to count how many girls hit on him in HS."
well hey its not like i enjoy having gown threw what i fucking did all those years but and i was drained of all my hope and it sill worked out for me. its not some Hollywood ending in a movie. its real. i would have wanted to do more than kick my self in the shins if things didnt go as they did now. I speak from personal experience my self. im saying, dont sit idly by when you want to help someone, even if you are afraid that person will hate you or you will push them away, just go for it. cause i didnt do that and its a big regret. i got lucky. but i guess what do i know. im 18 and only been with one girl my entire lonely life. so whatever. |
toxin.
02.23.13 | No, no, you're misinterpreting me. Like I said, congratulations for you---no sarcasm intended. However,
"if you actually care about that person i wouldnt give up hope"
is just awful advice. It's not like Lakes has just sat here doing nothing. I'm pretty sure the girl knows he's interested in her and she's just insane (no offense). "I wouldn't give up hope" is just way too reminiscent of the same idealism I had that "we were meant for each other so I just shouldn't give up" even when there were obvious signals that she wasn't interested (like, I don't know, her having a boyfriend!!). I agree that you should put yourself out there and just go for it, 100%. But if you've done that and it didn't happen (like here), it's just naive to think "well I really care for her so I'm not gonna give up, and one day she'll come to her senses and we'll have our happy ending!" |
Fluttertrank
02.23.13 | ah well i see exactly what you mean. but im not saying "well I really care for her so I'm not gonna give up, and one day she'll come to her senses and we'll have our happy ending!" im saying just go and help her with what ever the hell her problem is. cause being hopeless about helping her will get you and her no where. cause i was hopeless myself. just saying go help her. thats what i mean haha. |
toxin.
02.23.13 | Fair enough. But I can't say I really agree with what you're saying, even now, because he's tried and after some point you just cut your losses and call it quits. |
fromtheinside
02.23.13 | next time on General Hospital |
toxin.
02.23.13 | Calling it quits in terms of romantic hopes. As a friend yeah you should be trying to help her I guess. Or maybe not, he's 16 and has problems of his own. |
Fluttertrank
02.23.13 | "Calling it quits in terms of romantic hopes."
yeah that im going to have to agree with. |
wacknizzle
02.23.13 | "We were never officially in a relationship because she claims that she's an immortal 23,000 year old elf and not allowed to date mortals. I'm not making this shit up"
Im sorry I laughed so hard at this but I honestly fell really sorry, that sucks man. I wouldn't think of trying to date her until you can help her get better, she really just needs a friend. I really don't know what to tell you that can help her get better, ppl get really obsessed with delusion beliefs that they can't snap out of like thinking they're an alien from a distant race on another planet that's stranded on earth and shit like that. You just gotta do whatever you can to snap her out of it. |
fromtheinside
02.23.13 | is that serious? that cannot be a real person.
are you dating blood ninja? |
toxin.
02.23.13 | lol certifiably insane, lakes will not snap her out of anything
she needs professional help |
Ovrot
02.23.13 | What if she really is an elf?
Did you think of that? |
Lakes
02.23.13 | of course she's certifiably crazy.
contrary to what toxin might think though, it's not that she's not interested in me. she likes me so it's mutual, it's just that i don't want to move forward because i'm pretty sure she's batshit insane and that kinda hurts |
Ovrot
02.23.13 | Tell her you are an immortal elf as well.
Boom
No problems now |
Lakes
02.23.13 | "he's 16 and has problems of his own."
my brother told me the same thing last night to just not bother because some people can't be fixed and yeah he's right. but he also told me that maybe i should wait until i know the extent of the problem. if it gets in the way of me interacting with her and she starts bringing it up all the time and has breakdowns in front of me or whatever, then it NEEDS to end |
Lakes
02.23.13 | what weirds me out is that she says she knows 8 people who are "like her." like wtf? 8 people with the exact same delusions? |
toxin.
02.23.13 | oh alright, that was ambiguous.
you don't have any obligation to help her out, unless you guys have been good friends or something.
wouldn't surprise me if she's just saying that shit because she's got her own issues to deal with (didn't you say rape? yeah that could fuck you up) and this is her weird defense mechanism to prevent letting in males into her life. regardless this isn't something you can help her move on past, prob gonna need some medicine and counseling and stuff. |
foxblood
02.23.13 | damn maybe she is an immortal elf holy shit
real talk, i had a similar situation when i was around 17, was dating a person that was very mentally ill and unstable. for a while i endured it and helped as much as i could, but after trying as hard as i could for a very long time and getting no gratitude or appreciation in return i cut my losses. getting out of that relationship was one of the best decisions i ever made. i realized she was a cancer in my life and she was deteriorating me at a ridiculously young age. try and help her as best you can but don't become too deeply invested |
Lakes
02.23.13 | as i've said, i don't know the extent of the problem at this point and i don't know how it'll affect our conversations or anything else. she sounds insane, but she's never had any problems keeping it together before. she's been through a lot of shit, she's been raped, her mom died a few years back and her dad is never around. that would fuck anyone up. |
Ovrot
02.23.13 | Yeah but seriously it probably a coping mechanism and requires some expert help and medication, and If I was in your situation I wouldn't continue with her. But it's your move.
Also if she marries you she won't be immortal anymore and can't go to the undying lands. That blows! |
ethixx
02.23.13 | I've never laughed this hard at anything Sputnik has thrown at me up until this point. |
Lakes
02.23.13 | lol, and it's all true |
ethixx
02.23.13 | idk what to say, lakes. just try and help her out and do whatever you wanna do with her romantically. tbh, i would defffinitely keep her.. this chick sounds beyond fun. |
Lakes
02.23.13 | crazy, but yeah, immensely fun. |
ethixx
02.23.13 | probably would write some sickkk music, collab with her in above the graves?
better yet, start a band and create a new elvish mystic influenced genre |
ethixx
02.23.13 | stop crying, it's time to celebrate this bitch has potential and she's all yours |
Lakes
02.23.13 | http://i48.tinypic.com/9ieqsl.jpg |
ethixx
02.23.13 | DUDE, YES@!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Lakes
02.23.13 | she sent me that this morning |
ethixx
02.23.13 | super cute, wow i wish i was you!!!! |
Lakes
02.23.13 | really |
ethixx
02.23.13 | never delete this list |
Lakes
02.23.13 | fap material? |
Ovrot
02.23.13 | Holy shit she is an elf
Go for it. You don't find elf chicks. |
toxin.
02.23.13 | "she sounds insane, but she's never had any problems keeping it together before. she's been through a lot of shit, she's been raped, her mom died a few years back and her dad is never around. that would fuck anyone up."
well yes no one's saying she doesn't have reason to be fucked up, but that doesn't change the fact that she probably is fucked up and thus needs to see someone about. 'tis all i'm saying |
tommygun
02.23.13 | bitches be crazy
cut ties |
someguest
02.23.13 | "Basically, I fell in love with a girl and now I've found out she's mentally ill."
All women are 'mentally ill'. You'll figure this out with time. |
GiaNXGX
02.23.13 | doji moritaaaaaaa |
toxin.
02.23.13 | c'mon someguest, at least be funny or witty or something
all thhat comment did was make you come off as misogynistic in the least entertaining way |
someguest
02.23.13 | Whatever dude, I'm just speaking from my experiences. |
GiaNXGX
02.23.13 | misogynistic: yes
manly: maybe
entertaining: yes |
toxin.
02.23.13 | "Whatever dude, I'm just speaking from my experiences."
didn't realize you were being serious. that fucking sucks (that you'd have experiences that make you feel that way). |
someguest
02.23.13 | Yeah. The last girl stopped talking to me because 'she found out her friend had cancer'. Nice reasoning, bitch. |
Turtlestlker
02.23.13 | Hey, if you care for her a lot just be with her. Even though you say she is certifiably crazy you should be able to look past it. Who knows maybe if you get closer to her then you can help, sometimes all person needs is someone to rely on. Don't call her crazy and don't accuse her of anything. Just try and understand with a much reason as you can, maybe you can convince her to see a therapist or seek some medical help. You'd be surprised at the things that happen to people, how often, and what consequences they have on their psyche. |
Lakes
02.23.13 | i'm trying to help her but at this point i'm not quite sure how bad it is. i'm really just waiting it out right now |
DarthMann
02.23.13 | andcas called me a loser what can i do :[ |
Lakes
02.23.13 | cry |
RosaParks
02.23.13 | somehow i knew this thread would still be going |
DarthMann
02.23.13 | ok i cried i feel better now |
someguest
02.23.13 | Have a good cry. |
Cygnatti
02.23.13 | lakes, she is pretty cute |
someguest
02.23.13 | eh
lol |
Lakes
02.23.13 | agreed |
RosaParks
02.23.13 | tbh no one here is going to know the situation better than you so your first thought of what to do is going to be what's best for you and not the advice of people that don't even know her
sort of ironic comment i guess |
Lakes
02.23.13 | that's true. kind of a pointless exercise but w/e |
someguest
02.23.13 | the bottom line is if you're having trouble already the chances of this working out at all are non-existent to minimal at best |
RosaParks
02.23.13 | yea someguest that's probably the best advice so far in this thread |
Cygnatti
02.23.13 | with a girl like that, the chances for anybody is minimal at best
like, at what point did she go from being a cool/nice/cute normal-ish girl...to this? |
someguest
02.23.13 | Everybody's 'normal' until you get to know them well enough. You can only hide it for so long. |
Cygnatti
02.23.13 | Hm, you have a point. But this one seems quite drastic. |
demigod93
02.23.13 | there's weird, then there's weird. with italics. |
Lakes
02.23.13 | definitely |
ethixx
02.24.13 | if you dont date her can i |
Havey
02.24.13 | aww |
RosaParks
02.24.13 | stop bumping this |
Havey
02.24.13 | lol |
someguest
02.24.13 | Talking about women makes him uncomfortable. |
Havey
02.24.13 | rosa what you need to understand is that what this is girl is a little new age ish and what lakes simple patterns with the varied issues have have got the person psyched 3D |
ethixx
02.24.13 | lol |
ethixx
02.24.13 | HAVEY YOU FUCKING BEAT ME TO IT |
toxin.
02.24.13 | i'd hardly consider her a woman
she's like what 16
is that too young for me
19/2 + 7 = 16.5
yea |
Havey
02.24.13 | aw ethy c'mere |
fromtheinside
02.24.13 | there are...
sooooo many jokes just waiting to be made from this thread that it's unfair to comedy |
toxin.
02.24.13 | let this thread never die omg :3
:v 3
^
that dumb thing was my best attempt at adding whiskers |
toxin.
02.24.13 | wow the auto-remove spaces at the beginning of a line ruins everything |
toxin.
02.24.13 | . v )
. ^ )
better but the 3 looks dumb |
wacknizzle
02.24.13 | Dude, feed her some shrooms and be her trip buddy, u should be able to guide her back to reality and help her realize she ain't some immortal 23,000 year old unlovable wizard or what not. |
Asdfp277
02.24.13 | trespasser william?? |
Lakes
02.24.13 | she uses :3 :[ |
ilovetree
02.24.13 | q8^D |