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Old 03-22-2014, 06:55 PM   #22501
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Yeah that relationship was mind wrecking

The thing is, if you break up with someone that is so unstable then that might end up being the final push over the edge (suicide jokes har har) and then you're left with an enormous amount of guilt

Thankfully, she broke it off with me so I was glad she found another guy to ruin

So Ron, do not date the crazy chicks man, I beg you

they are succubi sent here to destroy your happiness
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Old 03-22-2014, 06:56 PM   #22502
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I'm not 100% sure if she is crazy, or just going through a ton of shit right now. Idk, we're talking soon and I'll get the answers.


bros I'm gonna solve this. I'll keep ya'll updated because this is an epic Greek drama

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Old 03-23-2014, 07:59 AM   #22503
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Damn just seen on facebook that one of my male friends has a new girlfriend

I'm 99% sure they met on Tinder, last time I saw him he had been using it and had a few dates lined up. And she's pretty!
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Old 03-23-2014, 08:10 AM   #22504
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Online dating is the future, Naddy

I don't like the future
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Old 03-23-2014, 08:11 AM   #22505
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Fuck online dating

it takes me long enough to break women down in person, let alone when they've only seen some horrendous photo of me online
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Old 03-23-2014, 08:18 AM   #22506
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Old 03-23-2014, 08:19 AM   #22507
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@ Sanders that's why I refuse to take pictures of myself / let other people do it
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Old 03-23-2014, 08:30 AM   #22508
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not gonna lie I met one of the hottest girls I've ever dated on POF and it was crazy good sex. Didn't workout though
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Old 03-23-2014, 08:41 AM   #22509
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I dunno, I find "dating" awkward at the best of times. I have a few distractions right now but I'll probably get back on Tinder and/or pof at some point.
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Old 03-23-2014, 08:49 AM   #22510
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Old 03-23-2014, 08:52 AM   #22511
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Yea dating is awful

but then again I have asperger so what do I know
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Old 03-23-2014, 08:56 AM   #22512
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idk I don't think dating is bad if you're talking about just in the beginning when youre first getting to know the person. That's the honeymoon phase anyways and things are usually on a natural high.
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Old 03-23-2014, 09:01 AM   #22513
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I like just getting to know people in everyday situation, like through work or mutual friends.

I feel really self-conscious and awkward knowing that literally the only reason you're hanging out is to decide whether you fancy each other or not

But then I'm a pretty awkward person so...
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Old 03-23-2014, 09:18 AM   #22514
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Old 03-23-2014, 09:18 AM   #22515
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The only reason I hang out with new people is to see if I can stand them or not

I don't think there's a big difference
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Old 03-23-2014, 09:50 AM   #22516
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I like just getting to know people in everyday situation, like through work or mutual friends.

I feel really self-conscious and awkward knowing that literally the only reason you're hanging out is to decide whether you fancy each other or not

But then I'm a pretty awkward person so...
I think the same about dating

all my previous relationships develop out of friendships. Which I guess should mean I'm already aware of the craziness, but apparently not!
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Old 03-23-2014, 10:40 AM   #22517
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You guys are so lucky

I have yet to date a 'friend'

I have been 'friendzoned' (stupid term but I guess it's kinda accurate?) by female friends more times than I can count tho
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Old 03-23-2014, 10:48 AM   #22518
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Lol I was talking hypothetically.

I've never had a significant relationship with a guy so....
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Old 03-23-2014, 10:58 AM   #22519
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So just ended up with a bit of clarification from that lass

She backed off because she didn't want to give me the wrong impression. She doesn't want a relationship which she said isn't going to change anytime soon (which we knew), and she saw us hanging out as progressing towards that.

She went on to say that she didn't want to go back to hanging out casually if she didn't think her mind was going to change, it didn't seem fair on me. Then she said she isn't sure about staying on the course, so she didn't want to start something she couldn't finish.

On top of this, apparently she's going into hospital for a week tomorrow, and won't say why other than "for tests" and that she's fine. When I pressed her to see if she what was happening and essentially said that it was a dick move to say you're going to hospital, then just say "I'm fine", she said she doesn't "share a lot with ANYONE and that's not going to change".

I said I'd rather hang out casually relatively indefinitely than not at all, to which she said let me see what that craic is after Easter and whether or not I'll be back.

All fair, to be honest. Just shitty that she keeps stuff so close and that we're in different places. As torn up as I'd be, at this point maybe her quitting the course wouldn't be such a bad thing
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Old 03-23-2014, 11:01 AM   #22520
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So do you feel better about the whole thing for it?
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Old 03-23-2014, 11:03 AM   #22521
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Nope. Just shitty that I'm not the guy to change stuff up for her.

Guess it's just time to get realistic about it all
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Old 03-23-2014, 11:07 AM   #22522
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Old 03-23-2014, 11:17 AM   #22523
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You'll be fine Jon.
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Old 03-23-2014, 11:20 AM   #22524
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Cheers ronster

Aye nads, be reet

Maybe time to start some Alan Titchmarshing elsewhere. Or perhaps leave it until after exams. We'll see
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Old 03-23-2014, 11:59 AM   #22525
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You guys are so lucky

I have yet to date a 'friend'
I don't know man I think it's harder. We went too fast emotionally because we had already known each other for months and knew a ton about each other.
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Old 03-23-2014, 02:50 PM   #22526
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But she's hot!

I mean like fuck damn treb she's smoking

You better get the friends with benefits thing going with her man, I'm counting on you!
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Old 03-23-2014, 02:52 PM   #22527
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We haven't been intimate in 3-4 weeks but I feel like we're getting close to being back at that stage. Hopefully anyway.

Thankfully her naked body is forever burned into my skull
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Old 03-23-2014, 03:03 PM   #22528
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tmi bro

But I'm glad you are still hopeful
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Old 03-23-2014, 03:48 PM   #22529
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We're pretty close and honestly I just enjoy her company regardless of context

Most people at the party last night thought we were a couple so yeah
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