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Old 01-29-2014, 08:55 AM   #19201
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isn't lovely the way sonny has settled down since he got wed

its great to see such a positive result

ron, this is not waiting for your friend. tell him now. or write a letter and give it to a lawyer to keep until things go tits up and you can say you knew this was coming but were too soft to tell him.

or maybe you are just jealous of this bird who is taking your long standing friend away from you whilst you are still unsure where your own relationship is heading

you can't win ron
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Old 01-29-2014, 08:58 AM   #19202
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I feel this is usually the case because there is no commitment in this sinful relationship you have with this Harlot.

Be real, its FWB. Thats fine until someone develops feels. That takes work and its difficult to go from FWB to having to make a relationship work. Its not just "cracking" good times anymore, it's work.

If she has not pushed even in the slightest direction of being BF/GF, exclusive. . yadda yadda, then it's safe to say that she never will. Most women are into relationships. Thoes that are not, just aren't, and it sounds like you have one of them. Even you yourself, indicating that you don't want a relationship is a sign. Just be happy you have an option to warm your cock up that isnt your hand.

In all honestly Sanders I would not put your heart into it.
I know, I'm trying not to. We'll see how it all develops though
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Old 01-29-2014, 09:17 AM   #19203
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p much agree with sonny's post, although making grande judgements and conclusions is impossible from this angle

again i suggest making the mental decision that you will be forthright with her at some point in the relative near future and the time is right

but if you never feel that the time is or will be right, it probably isn't and might never be
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Old 01-29-2014, 09:27 AM   #19204
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Im a Master of the Generalization.
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:18 AM   #19205
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ugh idk what just happened but I dropped coffee off at work for her (she wanted some) and the interaction was sorta awkward
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:20 AM   #19206
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I don't understand how you fuck this up Ron. Please explain
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:25 AM   #19207
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Ronald is looking into shit too much.

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Old 01-29-2014, 11:26 AM   #19208
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or she's preggos.
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:26 AM   #19209
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or the ex confessed is everlasting love to her and he wants her back.
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:27 AM   #19210
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I think it'll be the first of those three options
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:27 AM   #19211
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or she fucked the ex in the last week.
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:27 AM   #19212
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no, I'm sure there was an awkward pause or two, without question. I just don't get how you fuck up such an easy task that is supposed to earn you tons of brownie points so easily.

like, I can understand Ronald here doing it, but I can't picture how I could do it, putting myself in his shoes.
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:29 AM   #19213
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eh maybe I'm reading into it too much. When she came out the little convo we had seemed a bit strained which is weird because we can literally talk for hours. She is sorta sick so maybe that was it.
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:34 AM   #19214
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or maybe she's working and, ya know. . .in the middle of something.
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:35 AM   #19215
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not visiting girls at work is generally a good rule cause they're stressed / focused on other things than you --> get annoyed and don't have time for you
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:36 AM   #19216
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she asked for coffee wasn't my idea


I just like to make every interaction count.


its all good though she sent me a few texts saying some good stuff
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:36 AM   #19217
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"sorry babe i'm busy"

or walk in, drop it off, give some excuse why you have to run, get a text immediately saying thank you, brownie points, moving on
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:42 AM   #19218
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what's a cracking time?

I understand it has a positive connotation but I have no mental image of these times you bring into question.

please elaborate
one which is absolutely brillers!
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:44 AM   #19219
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she wanted coffee, not a goddamn conversation!
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:45 AM   #19220
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"sorry babe i'm busy"

or walk in, drop it off, give some excuse why you have to run, get a text immediately saying thank you, brownie points, moving on
she seemed like she wanted to chat for a little, that's why I stuck around.


I think I'm blowing this out of proportion because I can get hard on myself over stupid stuff. We talk just fine all the time. Just going to chalk this one up to being human.
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:46 AM   #19221
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she wanted coffee, not a goddamn conversation!
well seeing as how she started the convo and asked me stuff
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:46 AM   #19222
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one which is absolutely brillers!
brillers?!

wow, that's not an englishism
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:51 AM   #19223
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you hand her the coffee

you mention something about the variety she requested

she thanks you

you possibly make plans to see each other/converse at a later time

you're out of there
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:52 AM   #19224
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I think Ronalds got some severe Daddy Issues.
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:54 AM   #19225
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you hand her the coffee

you mention something about the variety she requested

she thanks you

you possibly make plans to see each other/converse at a later time

you're out of there
the whole interaction lasted for at most two minutes.

handed it to her, kiss, she mentions how crappy she looks because she is sick, asked if she is going to get it checked out, she asked how painting my apartment is going, then I tell her I have to go back to work.

no real awkward pauses it just seemed like both of us were kinda searching for stuff. Seeing her later tonight for plans we made yesterday
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:57 AM   #19226
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Old 01-29-2014, 11:59 AM   #19227
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how do you not compliment her or allay her fears by giving her a pleasant response about her appearance

I mean, even if she looks like miss piggy you do that ron.

wtf?
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Old 01-29-2014, 12:00 PM   #19228
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the whole interaction lasted for at most two minutes.

handed it to her, kiss, she mentions how crappy she looks because she is sick, asked if she is going to get it checked out, she asked how painting my apartment is going, then I tell her I have to go back to work.

no real awkward pauses it just seemed like both of us were kinda searching for stuff. Seeing her later tonight for plans we made yesterday
Break it off its obviously not going to work out.




Seriously Ron? Love is not having to fill up the silence between you all the time.
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Old 01-29-2014, 12:02 PM   #19229
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seems odd that they are fumbling over conversation at this stage in the relationship
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Old 01-29-2014, 12:02 PM   #19230
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I mean, even if she looks like miss piggy you do that ron.
no

you put up two middle fingers and run away as fast as you can
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