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kitsch · 10-07-2012, 03:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr. Ron

your parents need to reevaluate themselves

Why

bradc1988 · 10-07-2012, 04:14 PM

Just broke up with my girlfriend over the weekend.

Feels bad man.

suspect device · 10-07-2012, 04:30 PM

did she blow the party?

bradc1988 · 10-07-2012, 05:49 PM

If only.

RouteOne · 10-07-2012, 07:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kitsch

Why

Quote:

Like my parents paid for her to go to cali with my sister on a trip that i wasnt even there for.

this is dumb

kitsch · 10-07-2012, 07:17 PM

Yeah its dumb but they wanted her to be a good influence on my sister or whatever

Shows how much they loved her

RouteOne · 10-07-2012, 07:20 PM

Why exactly did your parents think she was St. Mary

kitsch · 10-08-2012, 09:34 AM

Idk but she would go over to my house and have lunch with my mom without me

My dad helped her get a job after she graduated (she was older than me)

They just thought that she was good for me idk. They disapproved of all my other gfs, esp the one before her because i was 19-20 and she was 24-25 and chinese and i moved in with her. But most recent ex ended up moving in with me so idk. They just thought that i was doing good with her staying away from drugs and this girl did have the ability to leave super favorable impressions on people she had superficial contact with. However talk to any of her really close bfs or ex friends that she claims are 'vampiric' and you'll find the tell tale resentment that comes with a relationship with someone that practices emotional blackmail.

kitsch · 10-08-2012, 09:36 AM

I think the fact that having a bf before my most recent ex gf might have had something to do with my conservative catholic parents' enthusiasm as well.

~~BethanyLizard~~ · 10-11-2012, 05:39 AM

man this site is fucked lol

3FingeredHoek · 10-11-2012, 09:47 PM

The dude I was complaining about has been in text-dialogue with my gf intensively lately, getting advice from her about some girl he's trying to make things work with. She's filling me in on the convo and he's playing really hard for pity. Hate to generalize, but does it not seem like dudes who gravitate more toward having female friends are often huge dweebs?

Firecracker · 10-12-2012, 02:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BethanyLizard

man this site is fucked lol

haha.

Pastorius · 10-12-2012, 04:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 3FingeredHoek

The dude I was complaining about has been in text-dialogue with my gf intensively lately, getting advice from her about some girl he's trying to make things work with. She's filling me in on the convo and he's playing really hard for pity. Hate to generalize, but does it not seem like dudes who gravitate more toward having female friends are often huge dweebs?

he is trying to bang her

3FingeredHoek · 10-12-2012, 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Pastorius

he is trying to bang her

I know, I know for a fact he wanted to rebound with her a while back. It sounds like he's trying to play the tortured soul with her now. Fuck that.

Simpleton · 10-13-2012, 01:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 3FingeredHoek

I know, I know for a fact he wanted to rebound with her a while back. It sounds like he's trying to play the tortured soul with her now. Fuck that.

Easy Fix!

mention your dislike of people who act the way he does without specifically mentioning him, basically do it out of context to him. if she takes to that then find a way to exemplify your own qualities out of context. it must be done honestly.

But you only really need to do this if your actually worried about the sitch

example: "so-and-so at work was all down in the dumps today and acting like things are so bad for them. it was just really annoying and they upset everyone around them, total bummer." or someshit

3FingeredHoek · 10-13-2012, 03:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Simpleton

Easy Fix!

mention your dislike of people who act the way he does without specifically mentioning him, basically do it out of context to him. if she takes to that then find a way to exemplify your own qualities out of context. it must be done honestly.

But you only really need to do this if your actually worried about the sitch

example: "so-and-so at work was all down in the dumps today and acting like things are so bad for them. it was just really annoying and they upset everyone around them, total bummer." or someshit

I did just that actually. Real life example of a guy who was the extreme of that. She was like "that sucks" but seemed ambivalent about her friend. Whatevell. Just wish she'd get that a guy who pulls that tactic knowing she's committed is lame and a shit friend.

suspect device · 10-13-2012, 04:06 AM

the positive is that your gf seems like a really nice and supportive person. and if she can't see what its doing to you man then its probably because she has no interest in this other bozo.

good idea to make sure you point out that guys like that are lame with referencing him. but if you do come across an example of such lameness in a movie or in real life then there is no reason to say that such shit reminds you that other nuisance. that sort of direct connection could easily make it clear

kitsch · 10-14-2012, 03:23 PM

More than likely she loves the attention

Most girls that have guy 'friends' and make a deal out of it are a tad histrionic

Simpleton · 10-15-2012, 01:51 AM

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Originally Posted by kitsch

histrionic

yeah ok

never pretend like you don't like it when more than one woman is into you at once.

in either case, the best wins. remember, there's no need to dedicate yourself to this girl, it's not like there are strict rules. make a friend that is a girl. get used to having women who aren't intimate with you being close to you, like reserves.

kitsch · 10-15-2012, 09:01 AM

Theres a difference between what youre saying and trying to fix someones problems and be their savior which is what his gf is essentially doing

10-07-2012, 07:17 PM	#5086
kitsch slappin bitsches Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: indiana Posts: 5,608	Yeah its dumb but they wanted her to be a good influence on my sister or whatever Shows how much they loved her
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10-08-2012, 09:34 AM	#5088
kitsch slappin bitsches Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: indiana Posts: 5,608	Idk but she would go over to my house and have lunch with my mom without me My dad helped her get a job after she graduated (she was older than me) They just thought that she was good for me idk. They disapproved of all my other gfs, esp the one before her because i was 19-20 and she was 24-25 and chinese and i moved in with her. But most recent ex ended up moving in with me so idk. They just thought that i was doing good with her staying away from drugs and this girl did have the ability to leave super favorable impressions on people she had superficial contact with. However talk to any of her really close bfs or ex friends that she claims are 'vampiric' and you'll find the tell tale resentment that comes with a relationship with someone that practices emotional blackmail.
	Digging: Various Artists (Noise) - Port Out, Starboard Home

10-08-2012, 09:36 AM	#5089
kitsch slappin bitsches Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: indiana Posts: 5,608	I think the fact that having a bf before my most recent ex gf might have had something to do with my conservative catholic parents' enthusiasm as well.
	Digging: Various Artists (Noise) - Port Out, Starboard Home

10-14-2012, 03:23 PM	#5098
kitsch slappin bitsches Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: indiana Posts: 5,608	More than likely she loves the attention Most girls that have guy 'friends' and make a deal out of it are a tad histrionic
	Digging: Various Artists (Noise) - Port Out, Starboard Home

10-15-2012, 09:01 AM	#5100
kitsch slappin bitsches Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: indiana Posts: 5,608	Theres a difference between what youre saying and trying to fix someones problems and be their savior which is what his gf is essentially doing
	Digging: Various Artists (Noise) - Port Out, Starboard Home

10-07-2012, 04:14 PM	#5082
bradc1988 Don't call it that Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 8,461	Just broke up with my girlfriend over the weekend. Feels bad man.

10-07-2012, 04:30 PM	#5083
suspect device mk viii Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: from out of town; flew in for the convention Posts: 8,924	did she blow the party?

10-07-2012, 05:49 PM	#5084
bradc1988 Don't call it that Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 8,461	If only.

10-07-2012, 07:20 PM	#5087
RouteOne Gnarly till the end Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: New York Posts: 78,586	Why exactly did your parents think she was St. Mary

10-11-2012, 05:39 AM	#5090
~~BethanyLizard~~ Banned Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: so edgy Posts: 3,095	man this site is fucked lol

10-11-2012, 09:47 PM	#5091
3FingeredHoek Official MX Ugly Guy Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Alabama Posts: 1,260	The dude I was complaining about has been in text-dialogue with my gf intensively lately, getting advice from her about some girl he's trying to make things work with. She's filling me in on the convo and he's playing really hard for pity. Hate to generalize, but does it not seem like dudes who gravitate more toward having female friends are often huge dweebs?

10-13-2012, 04:06 AM	#5097
suspect device mk viii Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: from out of town; flew in for the convention Posts: 8,924	the positive is that your gf seems like a really nice and supportive person. and if she can't see what its doing to you man then its probably because she has no interest in this other bozo. good idea to make sure you point out that guys like that are lame with referencing him. but if you do come across an example of such lameness in a movie or in real life then there is no reason to say that such shit reminds you that other nuisance. that sort of direct connection could easily make it clear

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