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Old 06-08-2006, 04:58 PM   #1
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Anyone heard of the site www.dontdatehimgirl.com? Basically, it's a user input site similar to ratemyprofessors.com, only it's a hub for embittered ex girlfriends to spread rumor and slander (and every once in a while some truth) about their former dates...And for everyone to read it. So, guys, don't piss off your girlfriend, particularly if/when you break up with her, because otherwise you might see that you "gave her an STD" or something of the sort.

Should such sites even be protected under the law? I'm all for free speech, but the site basically gives an unregulated venue for slander against individuals.
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Old 06-08-2006, 05:01 PM   #2
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If it would violate libel laws in a newspaper it should be illegal online. In fact, I'd be surprised if it isn't.
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Old 06-08-2006, 05:02 PM   #3
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Bleh, it seems more like a hub for women to talk about how paranoid they are when they're on their period.
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Old 06-08-2006, 05:03 PM   #4
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It would be hard to regulate. I don't think the site itself would be illegal, just the individuals committing slander. Prosecuting them could take way more effort than the justice dept. would be willing to make.
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I personally see no problem with it. Although maybe that would change if I was on it. I hope i'm not on it.
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Old 06-08-2006, 05:05 PM   #6
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I think Zero's had a bad experience with this website.

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If it would violate libel laws in a newspaper it should be illegal online. In fact, I'd be surprised if it isn't.
American libel laws only cover material losses, as far as I know.
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Old 06-08-2006, 05:06 PM   #7
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Prosecuting them could take way more effort than the justice dept. would be willing to make.
One of the guys on it, Troy Hollings or someone, is already suing the owner of the site.

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Don't date him, girl.
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Old 06-08-2006, 05:06 PM   #8
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at first I thought this thread was about lesbianism.

As for the actual topic, I'll just say that monogamous relationships are a vehicle to turn men into rabid consumers (especially of blood diamonds) and women into slaves, and as such I'm firmly opposed to anything except for random ****ing between strangers or acquintances.
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One of the guys on it, Troy Hollings or someone, is already suing the owner of the site.

What's his lawsuit? How can the owner be held accountable?
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Because the owner is printing something unfounded as fact and it is defamatory towards the victim.
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Anyone heard of the site www.dontdatehimgirl.com? Basically, it's a user input site similar to ratemyprofessors.com, only it's a hub for embittered ex girlfriends to spread rumor and slander (and every once in a while some truth) about their former dates...And for everyone to read it. So, guys, don't piss off your girlfriend, particularly if/when you break up with her, because otherwise you might see that you "gave her an STD" or something of the sort.

Should such sites even be protected under the law? I'm all for free speech, but the site basically gives an unregulated venue for slander against individuals.
As long as they don't post unreasonable confidential information (not personal) such as the poor boy's address, full name, picture etc., I don't see the problem in getting the anger out publicly.
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Old 06-08-2006, 05:10 PM   #12
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That was some of the biggest hormone induced crap I've ever read.
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Old 06-08-2006, 05:11 PM   #13
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If they didn't print last names it would still be fun and not illegal I don't think. It's only slander if there is no question who is being talked about. There are millions of Daves out there. So in that case, it would still be fun, at least to some people, but not illegal.
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Old 06-08-2006, 05:16 PM   #14
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Ugh, I knew it was a bad idea to let women on the internet.
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Old 06-08-2006, 05:20 PM   #16
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I've had twelve girlfriends and I think it's pretty cool that I'm not on here yet. That's a very good average.
Yeah, same.

Then again, we're high quality :-D
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Old 06-08-2006, 05:22 PM   #17
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Yeah, same.

Then again, we're high quality :-D
It could be argued that if you've had 12 girlfriends in a short space of time then they obviously don't want to stick around...

...of course I would never do that.
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sounds like a hub for slander to me.
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Old 06-08-2006, 05:23 PM   #19
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Twelve over six years.

Two a year.

That sounds pretty reasonable.
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