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Old 05-31-2016, 02:52 PM   #1
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Are Prostitutes Better Than Normal Women?

Are Prostitutes Better Than Normal Women?
A Short Essay by John Doe

Is it cheaper to have sex with normal women than with prostitutes? No, and here is why.

When you have sex with a normal girl, it's by no means "free". You have to take her out to dinner, buy her drinks, and you might have to go on two or even three dates before you will have sex with her. If you add up the total costs of these three dates, it would be approxiately around 400 dollars.

Now let's look at the cost of the average high quality prostitute. You can bang a prostitute for 2 hours for 250 dollars.

What are the benefits of using prostitutes instead of dating normal women?

1. The average prostitute is far hotter than the average normal woman you can date.
2. YOU get to do the choosing, and the power of choice is in YOUR hands, instead of in the woman's hands
3. With a prostitute, you have sex with her and that's it. No emotional drama, no mind games, no bullshit, like there is with normal women.
4. You don't have to waste hours of your valuable time that you could otherwise spend on making money, taking women out on dates or trying to pick up women in bars and clubs. No, instead you pay a prostitute for one or two hours of her time, have sex with her, and leave.
5. You choose WHEN you want to have sex. So let's say you're a busy businessman, instead of wasting 5 hours at a bar or on a date, instead you'd spend only one or two hours with a prostitute, and that at your convience too. YOU are the one who chooses WHEN, and so you save a LOT of time.
6. Prostites are DEFINITELY cheaper than getting married. Overall, through a 10 year marriage and divorce, you'd end up spending at least 250,000 dollars. Now let's take that number and divide it by 250 dollars, which is the average price of a high quality prostitute in a Western country. That is sex with 1000 different high quality prostitutes. Now if you talk to any married man, who is HONEST, he will admit that sex with the wife after the first 6 months or year starts to get boring. And this is why people in long term relationships barely have sex, because it's BORING having sex with the same person time after time. Variety is the spice of life! You could have sex with 1000 different women for the same price it would cost to marry one woman and have sex with her. And considering how unstable most western women are nowadays, the chance of divorce is around 60%, with the woman initiating the divorce 90% of the time. You are likely to lose at least 50% of your assets and savings in a divorce, and so marriage to a western woman may end up costing you up to 500,000 dollars or even a million dollars, once you add in the divorce costs and long term child payment and alimony costs.

So let's take that number, one million dollars, and divide it by 250. That's 4000 DIFFERENT women you could pay to have sex with, instead of marrying one woman who will just end up turning into a bitch and divorcing you anyway. So it's your choice guys. Would you rather marry one woman, who will get bored of sex after 6 months, and end up stealing all your assets and savings in divorce, or would you rather have sex with 4000 different beautiful women for the same price?

Another very relevant point is that the world of modern dating has become quite risky. Most women see nothing wrong with making a false rape accusation against a man. Most rape cases are fake and are done out of a motive of REVENGE by the woman. Did you break up with your girlfriend? Watch out, she might make a false rape accusation against you just to get revenge. Did you cheat on your girl with another girl? Watch out, she might make a false rape accusation just to get revenge on you. Forgot to tell your girlfriend "happy birthday"? Watch out, she might make a false rape accusation against you in order to get revenge on you. At least 90% of rape cases are FALSE, the sex was CONSENSUAL and the woman later changed her mind AFTER the act and decided "oh it was rape". LOL. And this is why the police no longer take rape cases seriously, because literally 90% of women who claim to have been raped are LYING!

So that is another HUGE benefit of prostitues. A prostitute won't make a false rape accusation against you.

What's another GREAT reason that men choose to use prostitutes? Because by paying for sex, they can have sex with a MUCH hotter quality of woman than they would normally. For example, if we rate women on a scale of 1 to 10 in terms of beauty. The average guy will be able to pick up and have sex with a 4 or a 5 from a bar, a club, or Tinder. Meanwhile, if the same man paid for sex with a high quality prostitute for $250 dollars (about the same amount of money he would spend picking up a 4 or 5 from a bar, club, or Tinder), the prostitute he would have sex with would be an 8 or 9 on the beauty scale. So for the same amount of money, he can have sex with a much hotter woman, and with much less effort too. Think about all the effort you have to put in to go to a bar or club. You have to buy good clothes, you have to spend lots of money on drinks and food, and also have to spend a lot of money on making sure your apartment is cool and stylish so the girl will feel comfortable there. So unless you're a man who was blessed with the looks of Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise and have women chasing after you, the easiest and cheapest option for most men to have sex with the hottest quality of women is to simply PAY for sex with a hot prostitute. One guy was asked why he paid to have sex with prostitutes and his reply was "If I’m being brutally honest, the hottest women I’ve ever had sex with have been prostitutes … I would never be able to have sex with women who are ridiculously hot unless they were prostitutes.” I can also personally testify to this point. The types of chicks I was getting from Tinder were mostly fat or at best mildly hot, I would have rated them between a 3 and a 6 on the attraction scale. Then the first time I went to a prostitute, I was blown away with the options and the QUALITY too. Here were super hot girls who I could bang for such a cheap price. Needless to say, I gave up on dating and ONLY bang prostitutes now. I'm a much happier and peaceful person as a result.

Another couple of reasons that men gave as to why they choose to have sex with prostitutes are:

"Getting a prostitute is so easy: no strings attached, you can choose the woman you want before you purchase, then they arrive at your door. Couldn’t be easier."

I can also testify to this. Getting a normal girl to have sex is a real pain in the ass and involves so much struggle, drama, and mind games. Then of course after you have sex with her, you have to deal with her stalking you, calling you so many times, and with her unrealistic expectation that you are going to have a committed and exclusively relationship with her. All that compared with the EASE of banging a hot prostitute, and the choice is simple. I chose to not waste time trying to date women anymore and only bang hot prostitutes now.

“We want to have sex without all the bullshit of pretending to be really interested in a girl. When you pay for sex, you don’t have to swap numbers at the end when you know you won’t call. You pay, have sex, she leaves. Everyone’s happy.”

This goes along with the above point. With normal women and dating, you have to PRETEND to care about her and PRETEND to be interested in her, when in reality all you want is to have sex with her. With a prostitute, there is no pretensions and that really is a beautiful thing because ultimately then sex becomes about the raw physical act as well as the pure attractiveness of the woman, and thus you are able to enjoy sex a lot more.
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Old 05-31-2016, 02:53 PM   #2
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PART 2


Lastly, let's touch on the issue of legalization. On average surveys, 70 percent of men said they would vote to legalize prostitution, meanwhile 60 percent of women said they would vote to keep prostitution illegal. Now it's pretty obvious why women want to keep prostitution illegal. Women use sex as a weapon to control men. So it would disrupt the economics of women's control over sex if prostitution was legalized, because then MEN would have control over WHO they want to have sex with and WHEN. Forget all those arguments about morality, the REAL reason women want to keep prostitution illegal is so that they can CONTINUE to control men with sex. In effect, women are like a mafia that is desperate to keep control of the sexual marketplace. If prostitution was legal, men would be a lot less inclined to put up with women's bullshit just to get sex from them, when they can go pay for sex from a much more attractive woman and without all the hassles and drama that dating and normal women bring.

What about STDs some of you might say? Well the whole STD scare is mostly a MYTH that has been blown way out of proportion by feminists and conservative religious leaders in order to scare men away from having sex. In reality, the rate of transmission of AIDS is 1 out of 700 during heterosexual sex. That is, if a man had penis to vagina intercourse with an AIDS-infected woman, it would take 700 times on average before he would contract it. The only way people get AIDS is through using needles to inject drugs, or having anal sex, especially with homosexuals. So the whole AIDS thing is a huge scare, a MYTH, that has been blown way out of proportion.

What about Herpes? Well studies show that 80% of the US population already has Herpes in one of it's forms, so that is not really an issue.

The only other STD that you would have to worry about is Chlamydia, and it can be easily cured within 3 days with antibiotics.

Now, that is UNPROTECTED sex. If you are using condoms to have sex with, then the chances of getting any of these STDs becomes less than zero. And that includes oral sex as well. Most prostitutes will insist that you always use a condom, even during oral sex. So as long as you are using condoms, then STDs are nothing you should even remotely worry about.

So what are some of the main reasons why prostitution should be legalized?

1. If prostitution was legal, it would reduce the STD transmission rate by about 50% amongst prostitutes.

2. If prostitution was legal, it would reduce rape by at least 150%.
Many studies have shown that legal prostitution reduces rape, sexual assault, and other sex crimes by a lot. The same studies have shown that legal prostitution reduces the STD rate amongst the general population by about 50%.

3. The real number of human trafficking victims in the prostitution industry is actually less than 5%. But if prostitution was fully legal, the tiny number of women who are forced into prostitution involuntarily would be able to go to the poliec to get help and escape from their pimps. Keeping prostitution illegal hurts prostitutes the most, so it's funny how feminists want to keep prostitution illegal and yet at the same time claim they care about women's health and women's rights. Feminism is nothing but the biggest pile of bullshit hypocrisy the world has ever seen.

4. Feminists say "my body, my choice". So if 95% of prostitutes are VOLUNTARILY engaging in prostitution, then why should those women have the RIGHT to choose what to do with their own bodies, even if that includes trading sex for money? What right does the government or anyone else have to tell two consenting adults that they cannot exchange money for sex?

5. It would save a lot of money and resources from our police and government. Tens of millions of dollars a year are wasted by our police and government arresting and putting prostitutes in jail. If prostitution was LEGAL, on the other hand, and taxed and regulated, it would bring in tens if not hundreds of millions of dollars a year in tax revenue for our government, as well as freeing up valuable police time for REAL crimes like rape, theft, murder, assault, etc.

6. If prostitution was legal, prostitutes would have legal rights and would not longer get taken advantage of by pimps and other shady figures, including corrupt police officers. Yes, the police also contribute to the oppression of prostitutes because there are many corrupt police officers out there who blackmail and extort prostitutes for money and/or sexual favors. If prostitution was legal, all of this would end and prostitutes would finally have legal rights.

7. Prostitution is the world's oldest profession. It is NEVER going to stop no matter how much the police or government tries to stop it. There are ALWAYS going to be men who are willing to pay money for sex, and there are ALWAYS going to be women who are willing to give sex to men for money. Prostitution has also been an integral part of many cultures and thus trying to stop it is literally impossible. And why should it be stopped? No one has the right to tell two consenting adults that they cannot exchange money for sex. So rather than waste time trying to stop it, just legalize it and tax it, the same way we do with cigarettes, alcohol, and now marijuana.

All in all, I believe in personal freedom. I believe that no one has the right to force their own sense of morality onto others. In some very ancient cultures, prostitutes were actually given very high status in society and considered as spiritual people who could heal men of their problems through sex. That was thousands of years ago though, before self-righteous modern western religions were invented and started violently forcing their concepts of morality onto people. Funny how societies that were thousands of years old were actually far more advanced than we are in the modern age in terms of sex and prostitutes.

It took almost a century for people to wake up and legalize marijuana, which is a completely harmless natural plant that hurts no one. In the same way, society and people in general have to EVOLVE and realize that they have no right to force their own sense of morality or control onto others. The modern society is actually a very sexually restrictive society, compared to cultures and civilizations of the past. And it's this sexual restrictiveness which contributes to so much psychological neurosis, sex crimes, and frustration in general. Is it a coincidence how people in America are so quick to anger and lose their temper, whereas in a place like Thailand where prostitution is legal and accepted, people are very laid back and cool headed? People need to stop seeing sex as such a big thing, and just realize that sex is a normal and acceptable part of life.

With that said, I believe that I have covered all the points as to why prostitution should be legal and an accepted part of society, and so this essay comes to a close. Please feel free to copy, paste, and distribute this essay as my goal is to influence and educate as many people as possible, the only thing I ask is that you do not change it or edit it in any way whatsoever. Thank you very much

Sincerely,
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Old 05-31-2016, 02:57 PM   #3
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Old 05-31-2016, 03:02 PM   #4
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Old 05-31-2016, 03:06 PM   #5
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Ah, how nice. A heaping helping of horse s**t, fresh from the oven. You'll forgive me if I don't take a bite.
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Old 05-31-2016, 03:19 PM   #6
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Old 05-31-2016, 03:53 PM   #7
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Selling is legal, fucking is legal. So why isn't selling fucking legal?
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Marijuana does too harm people.

Just recently, a Somali Muslim teen took a toke then jumped off a balcony killing himself. Nobody will miss him. Just another snackbar.

Another way of looking at it, marjuana helps us eliminate the human weeds in the gene pool, if this case is representative.
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Aren't some women a bit 'gamey' though? What happens when you're with one of these shores and you're just not feeling it?

Or what if you have a few bad experiences and get turned off women altogether?

I believe if you really love a girl that you won't get tired of having sex with her. And if you don't, there's no reason to marry her in the first place. I'm old-fashioned in that regard. If you're bonded to a woman you shouldn't want to have sex with another woman at all. Those other women can never do for you mentally and spiritually what your wife does.

People stopped believing in that years ago. Now look what it's done for our society.
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You and I have very differing opinions if you think $250 buys you high quality.
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Elliot Spitzer was paying at least $2k a pop and offered one woman on the record $4,300.
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$2,000 a pop? You can get virgins on the market for $2,000 a pop?
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Oh? And I'm to read this utter drivel? Think again, troll.
Well my essay could have changed your life but you're too closed minded to read it. I'm one of the greatest writers alive today.
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Wow, another exaggeration straight from the horse's a*s. You won't get another moment of my time, troll. Begone.
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lol yuh classic 19 year old bored with no job or college to go to stuck in their rents basement bitter that life sucks and women aren't interested in them giving into a martyr complex

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This fucking dorkfest writes an essay on prostitutes, premised by a yes or no.


Yes. To answer your question.
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Fooor sale? Dumb cunts, same dumb questions
Oh virgins? Listen: all virgins are liars, honey
And I don't what I am scared of, or what I even enjoy
Dulling, get money, but nothing turns out like you want it to

And in these plagued streets
Of pity you can buy her anything
For 200, anyone can conceive a god on video
He's a boy
You wanted a girl so tear off his cock
Tie his hair in bunches, fuck him, call him Rita if you want
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This fucking dorkfest writes an essay on prostitutes, premised by a yes or no.


Yes. To answer your question.
haha Aiwaz!! Are you aishwarya Rai? CAN I MARRY U BABY???????
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Am gonna fuck a hot higher class prostitute today. Will post a report later.
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So how did that go BigBaller?
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anyway, i put my money where my mouth is, and i deleted over 200 women's contacts from my phone and blocked about 300 women off my facebook list. I realized that I have ZERO reason to have non-prostitute women on my list. They will bring nothing of value to my life so I have gotten rid of them and will only interact with female prostitutes from now on. I feel a 1000 pounds lighter!!!!
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I edited my essay slightly and added the following paragraph towards the end:

Also, let's say that you want to get more bang for your buck, literally. Because some of you may be thinking that American prostitutes are very overpriced, and you're correct. So instead of paying 250 dollars per session with an American prostitute, you could easily book a plane ticket to Bangkok, Thailand, and in Thailand you can have sex with a hot Thai prostitute for about 30 dollars. So let's take the same number, one million dollars, and divide it by 30 dollars. That comes out to 33,333 women! For the price of the average 10 year marriage in America, you could spend the same money on prostitutes in Asia and have sex with over 30,000 Asian women! You could have sex with 3 women per day for 30 years straight for the same price it would cost to get married in America! Amazing! Another very cool and interesting fact about Bangkok and Thailand is that they have blowjob bars. Yes, you walk in, have a beer, choose a girl, and then you and her go into a nice room and she gives you a blowjob. Funny how the "sexually liberated" women in the West would never go for something like that. Nope, most western women are too backwards to ever agree to legalize something like that. Nevermind that no one has ever died from a blowjob, whereas LEGAL drugs like alcohol and tobacco kill hundreds of thousands of people a year. So poisoning yourself with alcohol and tobacco are perfectly fine, but paying money for a harmless blowjob isn't?
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As I spread her thighs
My life flashes before my eyes
Soothing, disturbing
I'm intoxicated with fear

How many men have died
In your dirty hole
How many lay dead
How many men lay dead
From this killing hole
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cheaper, yes
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great replies so far!
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Fooor sale? Dumb cunts, same dumb questions
Oh virgins? Listen: all virgins are liars, honey
And I don't what I am scared of, or what I even enjoy
Dulling, get money, but nothing turns out like you want it to

And in these plagued streets
Of pity you can buy her anything
For 200, anyone can conceive a god on video
He's a boy
You wanted a girl so tear off his cock
Tie his hair in bunches, fuck him, call him Rita if you want
huh?
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One of my friends who is a fat, ugly, 27 year old virgin has written an article talking about his recent discision to go to Mexico and lose his virginity to a prostitute there. VERY interesting story! Here it is:

Subject: Fat, 27 year-old virgin has sex with 10 beautiful women and has a threesome

I need to say that this thread (link deleted but it's the thread at MMA forum titled "slept with over 100 hookers AMA" so use google if you're interested) has probably had the biggest impact on my life of any internet thread or discussion. I created a new account to discuss it without backlash. Here is my story:

When I first saw this thread a couple years ago, I was pretty shocked and disgusted. The idea of sexing prostitutes was revolting to me, mainly for these reasons:

1. I love and respect women and don’t want to take part in their harm and exploitation.

2. Child prostitution and human trafficking is the worst thing I can think of, and anything related to it is by definition evil and something I want NOTHING to do with.

3. Diseases and the idea of drinking from such a dirty well.

4. Ego (I shouldn’t have to pay a woman to fuck me!) and the fear of social stigmatization.

Now, for a little personal background, I am morbidly obese. I mean, I am fairly active and like to exercise and it’s not like I’m bedridden or have a hard time walking, but I am only 5’8’’ and over 300lbs. My obesity isn’t something I’ll get into here (except for its affect on my sex life) but suffice it to say that I do not blame anyone or anything but myself and I take full responsibility for being such a fat ass.

As a result, either from being so physically disgusting or my own lack of confidence and insecurities, I found myself a virgin at age 27. Now, I know every guy here has dozens of women just begging to fuck them, so it may not be easy to relate to how I felt. But basically I felt really shitty. Ashamed, lonely, self-loathing, worthless, frustrated, etc. I do not blame women for not wanting to fuck me, and I don’t expect anything or think that anyone “owes” me anything. But it is very demoralizing to be denied physical intimacy for so long. It’s like a part of what makes us human and validates us as a person has been completely absent from my life. However, despite all this, I still started reading this thread with the viewpoint that I would rather be a virgin than fuck hookers, for the reasons stated above.

But something funny happened. I read the points presented by Tarado Safado, and it was nothing like what I expected. He wasn’t describing the exploitation of crackwhores being beaten by their pimps and forced to sell their bodies. He was describing a mutual beneficial transaction between consenting adults. Slowly, very slowly, through reading this thread, I had a transformation of paradigm.

First, and most importantly, Tarado divorced prostitution from human trafficking. I still think that child abuse and trafficking are the very worst. But I’ve also realized that it has nothing to do with most prostitution.

Secondly, sex should not be taboo. Sex is not dirty, or shameful. The only difference between prostitution and any other exploitative industry is the element of sex and physical intimacy. Yes, women are exploited in a way- obviously, a woman who lacks money or social status is using sex to earn money. The large gap in income and quality of life is what allows Tarado to “take advantage” of the situation and achieve his goals. This is economic exploitation, which exploits the considerable income gap. However, there are so many industries that rely on exactly this same gap. One easy to understand example is your smartphone- the components of which were mined by poor people (who would undoubtedly love to be doing something else) and was assembled by poor people (who have miserable lives in factories). What’s the difference? The element of sex. If sex is not dirty, then there is no more of a moral dilemma with prostitution than there is with buying a smartphone. One could argue that both are wrong and neither one should be encouraged- this may be true, so I will take heed from such arguments when the speaker stops all exploitation themselves and stops using their smartphone and stops buying anything manufactured or produced by poor people.

Thirdly, I learned the truth about STD’s for the first time. I won’t go into details since it’s been discussed to death in this thread; let’s just say that my opinions changed. I also realized that sex with regular women was no guarantee of safety.

Very importantly, I followed the links that were posted and found myself at The Rational Male. Holy shitballs batman, what a paradigm shifter. It wasn’t about prostitution per say, but everything I had observed and experienced with regards to women started to make a lot more sense. I started to realize that there is no such thing as “not paying for it” and that all sex is transactional. I started to see the hidden costs of “normal” relationships, and looking at my friends who were “successful” with women made me realize the very high price (in money, time, and self-respect) they were paying for access to pussy. Things like gold-digging and divorce-rape (both of which are extremely common) clearly demonstrate that a woman doesn’t have to work in a Thai brothel to trade her pussy for money.

This left me with one last problem: my ego. I shouldn’t have to pay women to fuck me! This one just went away with time. At a certain point, being a guy who is so fat that no one wants to fuck him was so damaging to my self esteem that I had no ego left to bruise. I tried and tried to lose weight, and always ended up just as fat (and lonely) as ever. I was left with no self-respect to speak of. I realized that for myself, I actually do have to pay women to fuck me. I was ACTUALLY unfuckable. Coming to terms with that was painful, but it is better to see the hard truth than be comforted by the persistent lies I was telling myself (one day I will lose the weight, someone will love me for who I am, if I become funny/ smart/ kind/ thoughtful enough I can earn intimacy from a woman).

The whole process of reading this thread, reading Rollo Tomassi, and shifting of my paradigm took several years. Eventually, I found myself holding an entirely different set of beliefs regarding everything involving men and women (including prostitution). And when the last nail was driven into the coffin of my ego at 27 years of age, I finally decided that I was tired of being a virgin and that I would do something about it.

I live in SoCal, so I decided that my best bet would be to head down to Tijuana. Some research indicated that the Hong Kong strip club would be a good place to meet some lovely women and lose my virginity. I am pretty anxious by nature and averse to risk, so it sounded sketchy at first. As a sidenote- I have a good friend who I linked to this thread when I first started reading it, and eventually he agreed to be my wingman. We also got some cialis (inspired by the infamous “Review of my Liquid Cialis” thread) just in case.

Next part coming in next post
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