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Old 10-07-2012, 05:49 PM   #5071
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Old 10-07-2012, 07:13 PM   #5072
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Like my parents paid for her to go to cali with my sister on a trip that i wasnt even there for.

this is dumb
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Old 10-07-2012, 07:17 PM   #5073
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Yeah its dumb but they wanted her to be a good influence on my sister or whatever

Shows how much they loved her
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Old 10-07-2012, 07:20 PM   #5074
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Why exactly did your parents think she was St. Mary
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Old 10-08-2012, 09:34 AM   #5075
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Idk but she would go over to my house and have lunch with my mom without me

My dad helped her get a job after she graduated (she was older than me)

They just thought that she was good for me idk. They disapproved of all my other gfs, esp the one before her because i was 19-20 and she was 24-25 and chinese and i moved in with her. But most recent ex ended up moving in with me so idk. They just thought that i was doing good with her staying away from drugs and this girl did have the ability to leave super favorable impressions on people she had superficial contact with. However talk to any of her really close bfs or ex friends that she claims are 'vampiric' and you'll find the tell tale resentment that comes with a relationship with someone that practices emotional blackmail.
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Old 10-08-2012, 09:36 AM   #5076
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I think the fact that having a bf before my most recent ex gf might have had something to do with my conservative catholic parents' enthusiasm as well.
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Old 10-11-2012, 05:39 AM   #5077
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Old 10-11-2012, 09:47 PM   #5078
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The dude I was complaining about has been in text-dialogue with my gf intensively lately, getting advice from her about some girl he's trying to make things work with. She's filling me in on the convo and he's playing really hard for pity. Hate to generalize, but does it not seem like dudes who gravitate more toward having female friends are often huge dweebs?
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Old 10-12-2012, 02:24 AM   #5079
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Old 10-12-2012, 04:50 PM   #5080
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The dude I was complaining about has been in text-dialogue with my gf intensively lately, getting advice from her about some girl he's trying to make things work with. She's filling me in on the convo and he's playing really hard for pity. Hate to generalize, but does it not seem like dudes who gravitate more toward having female friends are often huge dweebs?
he is trying to bang her
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Old 10-12-2012, 09:38 PM   #5081
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he is trying to bang her
I know, I know for a fact he wanted to rebound with her a while back. It sounds like he's trying to play the tortured soul with her now. Fuck that.
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Old 10-13-2012, 01:45 AM   #5082
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I know, I know for a fact he wanted to rebound with her a while back. It sounds like he's trying to play the tortured soul with her now. Fuck that.
Easy Fix!


mention your dislike of people who act the way he does without specifically mentioning him, basically do it out of context to him. if she takes to that then find a way to exemplify your own qualities out of context. it must be done honestly.

But you only really need to do this if your actually worried about the sitch


example: "so-and-so at work was all down in the dumps today and acting like things are so bad for them. it was just really annoying and they upset everyone around them, total bummer." or someshit
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Old 10-13-2012, 03:10 AM   #5083
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Easy Fix!


mention your dislike of people who act the way he does without specifically mentioning him, basically do it out of context to him. if she takes to that then find a way to exemplify your own qualities out of context. it must be done honestly.

But you only really need to do this if your actually worried about the sitch


example: "so-and-so at work was all down in the dumps today and acting like things are so bad for them. it was just really annoying and they upset everyone around them, total bummer." or someshit
I did just that actually. Real life example of a guy who was the extreme of that. She was like "that sucks" but seemed ambivalent about her friend. Whatevell. Just wish she'd get that a guy who pulls that tactic knowing she's committed is lame and a shit friend.
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Old 10-13-2012, 04:06 AM   #5084
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the positive is that your gf seems like a really nice and supportive person. and if she can't see what its doing to you man then its probably because she has no interest in this other bozo.

good idea to make sure you point out that guys like that are lame with referencing him. but if you do come across an example of such lameness in a movie or in real life then there is no reason to say that such shit reminds you that other nuisance. that sort of direct connection could easily make it clear
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Old 10-14-2012, 03:23 PM   #5085
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More than likely she loves the attention

Most girls that have guy 'friends' and make a deal out of it are a tad histrionic
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Old 10-15-2012, 01:51 AM   #5086
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never pretend like you don't like it when more than one woman is into you at once.

in either case, the best wins. remember, there's no need to dedicate yourself to this girl, it's not like there are strict rules. make a friend that is a girl. get used to having women who aren't intimate with you being close to you, like reserves.
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Old 10-15-2012, 09:01 AM   #5087
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Theres a difference between what youre saying and trying to fix someones problems and be their savior which is what his gf is essentially doing
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Old 10-17-2012, 06:12 AM   #5088
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Easy Fix!


mention your dislike of people who act the way he does without specifically mentioning him, basically do it out of context to him. if she takes to that then find a way to exemplify your own qualities out of context. it must be done honestly.

But you only really need to do this if your actually worried about the sitch


example: "so-and-so at work was all down in the dumps today and acting like things are so bad for them. it was just really annoying and they upset everyone around them, total bummer." or someshit
god damnit
Fukn wretched people
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Old 10-18-2012, 03:01 PM   #5089
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Went on a barhopping binge a month ago with one of my buddies. I'm honestly terrified of women now. I'm going celibate. Gonna drop a flatiron on my nuts to make sure I'm not tempted.
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Old 10-18-2012, 03:03 PM   #5090
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Old 10-18-2012, 03:52 PM   #5091
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String of bad incidents with women met at bars. Some women tore me down for sport others just tried to use me. Ironically the one girl it went well with and i ended up in a fucking crack house. 10 or something guys all living there one forty year old waving his socks around. This chick lived there! Thought i was gonna get murdered or mugged.
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Old 10-18-2012, 04:00 PM   #5092
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how could she live in that place man
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Old 10-18-2012, 04:08 PM   #5093
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loved drugs apparently. I had the signs too long drug convo, she ran away from home moved around alot. Thing is she was hot as dynamite. Wondering how many of those dudes slept with her.
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Old 10-18-2012, 04:45 PM   #5094
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why do women hate you
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Old 10-19-2012, 06:42 AM   #5095
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I've never going to meet anyone because I don't leave the house.
Thing is, I think deep down, I don't want to be with anyone because I wouldn't be able to deal with the loss. It's the same reason I hate pets, cos you love them, then they die. Can't deal with loss. Heaven knows what I'm going to do when a close family member dies. It's so scary. You're never taught this stuff, how the hell do you cope with stuff like that.

So trying to avoid it basically. But that's pretty subconscious, only just realising the extent.
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Old 10-19-2012, 07:16 AM   #5096
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So trying to avoid it basically.
Having had my heart broken before, and breaking up recently with a great girl who loved me because I can't currently open myself up to anyone, I empathise completely.

The sense of loss is so devastating. Who wants to go through that twice?

Will have to one day, though.

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Old 10-19-2012, 07:35 AM   #5097
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Thanks for the reinforcement.
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Old 10-19-2012, 07:52 AM   #5098
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Old 10-19-2012, 07:56 AM   #5099
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it's pretty shit.
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Old 10-19-2012, 08:01 AM   #5100
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yeah

i'm at the turning point right now where i don't really regret what happened between me and my ex

i'm still sad she's not around and all but i'm starting to derive compensatory happiness from smaller, more dependable cycles of things
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