Advice / Love and Relationships

[suspect device]

walk in there ron and just tell that its you or her, take your pick

when he answers just get a drunk and forget him

and the cheek of that bitch to rob your friend, like you can give him everything she can and more

[Spacecowboy]

Originally Posted by Route1

Think I'm losing my friend to this girl he's dating


bro is so boring now

thats the power of the vagina

[wartomods]

Originally Posted by Route1

Think I'm losing my friend to this girl he's dating


bro is so boring now

if he is the kind of friend who changes because of that, dont mind it, keep the necessary contact between you two but dont fret it because it wont be the same again. Find new friends.

[Route1]

that is pretty dumb wartmods

[wartomods]

You dont lose friends to girls period.
You lose friends to hand grenades, terrorists, motorcycles, drugs, cancer, etc

[sweboy]

Originally Posted by wartomods

You dont lose friends to girls period.
You lose friends to hand grenades, terrorists, motorcycles, drugs, cancer, etc

often a combination of the above, i find

[suspect device]

maybe hes matured and wants a steady happy life. maybe its time for your friend to move on and maybe time for you too. he will always be your friend and you will always remember the close male bond you shared, the drinks and the laughs, the girls and the guns, plaid shirts and chainsaws, wrestling naked in front of the log fire smelling of diesel

now shape up and move ron, if he is truly a friend then he will spend time getting into the relationship with the girl but he'll come back to you once thats done

[sweboy]

"plaid shirts and chainsaws"

lol i feel like making a slow-paced documentary about ron and his male friends with this title

[suspect device]

reality ron style

[Blackichan]

Hey guys, so I met a really nice girl when I was out the other night. We spent the better part of two hours talking and dancing at the bar where we met. Exchanged numbers and the next day she started texting me quite a bit. She seems quite interested. The only thing is she lives in a town about 45 minutes away from the acreage I live in. I'd really like to spend some time with this girl but I don't want to drive that distance just to grab a cup of coffee and talk for a bit then take off. Would it be presumptuous of me to invite her out to spend a couple hours canoeing on the river that runs right by my property for the first time we get together?

[Nadinus]

I'd say in general it's too much for a first date, but if it's that or drive 45 minutes for a coffee I'd go for it. It shows you've got interests, and also that you have balls.

Just be mindful she'll probably be quite self-conscious of looking rough during/afterwards, girls like to look nice for first dates and canoeing makes that more difficult.

[<3<3<3]

yeah too much -- but you can plan for coffee and if things goes well maybe do something else? Check what else is going on where she's at before ya go

[Black Ink]

Don't do a coffee date.

Do something at night.

[Spacecowboy]

Originally Posted by Nadinus

I'd say in general it's too much for a first date, but if it's that or drive 45 minutes for a coffee I'd go for it. It shows you've got interests, and also that you have balls.

Just be mindful she'll probably be quite self-conscious of looking rough during/afterwards, girls like to look nice for first dates and canoeing makes that more difficult.

if distance is a problem, establish communication first. Like a week or 2. Canoeing is shit you do after you are an established couple.

And don't be a pussy and txt all the time. Make the effort to call her. Txt is ok for stupid shit and nudes. She'll respect the fact that you are taking the time to communicate BECAUSE of the distance and make her feel that she is worth the effort. You'll be in her pants in no time.

But yeah. . first date, take her out. Perhaps Vietnamese to show your appreciation of Pho. If you go back to her place right away thats a good sign that she is very comfortable and is looking for a cock.

Na meen?

[Route1]

Originally Posted by suspect device

maybe hes matured and wants a steady happy life. maybe its time for your friend to move on and maybe time for you too. he will always be your friend and you will always remember the close male bond you shared, the drinks and the laughs, the girls and the guns, plaid shirts and chainsaws, wrestling naked in front of the log fire smelling of diesel

now shape up and move ron, if he is truly a friend then he will spend time getting into the relationship with the girl but he'll come back to you once thats done

So this includes turning into a boring person who hardly ever wants to do anything?

Don't buy it.


And what is this move on stuff? I've been friend with him since the 7th grade. You don't "move on" from that. This is not about maturity at all.


For instance, this happened a few nights ago:

Went over to his apartment and his gf was there too with a few of our other friends that are his roommates. His gf was mopy as all fuck because someone keyed the hood of her car, which I offered, free of charge, to fix because I have the material to buff it out. Keep in mind that I don't even like this girl for reasons I'll elaborate on later, but I offered anyways. Even then, she was in a depressed state for the entire fucking night over it which was ridiculous.

So I suggested we go get ice cream to everyone, but only my friend and his gf wanted to go. So, I drive them over to this awesome place and they were both miserable. On the way back my friend said that one other person was coming over later and she was like "I WISH YOU TOLD ME ABOUT THIS EARLIER, BABE." I thought to myself fuck off, it's his place and it is just one other person. The thing is, my friend is easily manipulated and so he will accommodate anything she wants, so when we get back him and her go into his room, shut the door and never fucking come out for the rest of the night. I thought this was pretty damn rude and everyone at his place (the people he invited over) were like "where is he? He just vanished." I told them where he was and they all rolled their eyes.


Oh, and good news! She's moving in with him after only seeing each other for three months.

[Spacecowboy]

Originally Posted by Route1

So this includes turning into a boring person who hardly ever wants to do anything?

Don't buy it.


And what is this move on stuff? I've been friend with him since the 7th grade. You don't "move on" from that. This is not about maturity at all.


For instance, this happened a few nights ago:

Went over to his apartment and his gf was there too with a few of our other friends that are his roommates. His gf was mopy as all fuck because someone keyed the hood of her car, which I offered, free of charge, to fix because I have the material to buff it out. Keep in mind that I don't even like this girl for reasons I'll elaborate on later, but I offered anyways. Even then, she was in a depressed state for the entire fucking night over it which was ridiculous.

So I suggested we go get ice cream to everyone, but only my friend and his gf wanted to go. So, I drive them over to this awesome place and they were both miserable. On the way back my friend said that one other person was coming over later and she was like "I WISH YOU TOLD ME ABOUT THIS EARLIER, BABE." I thought to myself fuck off, it's his place and it is just one other person. The thing is, my friend is easily manipulated and so he will accommodate anything she wants, so when we get back him and her go into his room, shut the door and never fucking come out for the rest of the night. I thought this was pretty damn rude and everyone at his place (the people he invited over) were like "where is he? He just vanished." I told them where he was and they all rolled their eyes.


Oh, and good news! She's moving in with him after only seeing each other for three months.

say good bye to your friend. . .

How old is he/she?

If he is easily manipulated and he likes a girl that is possessive it's gonna be hard to get him back from that. Basically she'll move in. It'll be ok for a bit but if shes the type that gets upset/mopy/depressed. . .basically a big friggin baby if she doesn't get her way it's not gonna be good for your friend.

If you don't like this girl you are most likely justified. If she were cool, friendly, socialble it'd probably be different. I know the type of girl though. Absolute nightmare.

[Route1]

My friend is 24, she is 26.

All I can really do is keep my mouth shut about it unless something really ridiculous happens. He already apologized to everyone over that night, so he knows what he did was wrong.

I'd love to see him with a girl he loves, but I think this one is just bad news. She already flirts way too much with me even when he is around, which is not okay with me.

[Kurrpt]

was your friend in many relationships before this?

[Route1]

Yeah, mostly ones that only last to about 4-7 months. He goes for image over substance a lot. His last gf was hot but a fucking bore and had zero personality.

His longest was 2 years back in college. She was okay but got jealous too easily.

[Spacecowboy]

we've all been there Ronald.

If you 2 are boys he'll come around. While he's got the ball and chain however you can't fault him. You don't need to explain your stance but if you did, it sounds like you have a few areas to pull from.