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Originally Posted by Master guitarist123
So me and this girl use to talk alot and hangout alot I even showed her how to play guitar....damn.....Well now where not talking we havent talked for like 2 months and its making me sad and sometimes pisses me off.....and i really like her ....my friends say she got hella bitchy(no offense to u gurls out there) and i get a feeling that she talks crap on me because her friends stare at me alot....I know trying to talk to her would be ideal thing to do but my friends say she has change....idk what to do and i really like her too
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I know everyone's saying "talk to her," and to a certain extent I agree with them... but I also know it's not that simple, is it? It's a shame when people move on and it sounds as though she has moved on from you; not because she doesn't like you or because you've done anything to upset her, she's just doing what she's doing. So, if you feel you can talk to her, by all means do so. If not, then I'm afraid you need to move on as well chap. It's not going to happen overnight and you're not going to forget her. But that's not the point. There will come a time, perhaps in a few months, when you find you're not too bothered about it anymore. It will bother you if you think about it too much but you'll stop thinking about it, and it will stop bothering you. Time heals most wounds.
I was in a band with a very nice girl a couple of years ago. That band fell apart and she quit on me, but she never told me why. (Probably something to do with me, but that's another story...) I've never asked her why but I've always wondered, and as she has never spoken to me since (apart from once when she was pissed but I don't count that,) and I've therefore never had an answer, it's always remained in my mind. But it doesn't bother me too much anymore. I'll probably never speak to her again, so there's no point thinking about her. I've got other things to think about...
Well by typing all that about her I've basically just contradicted everything I said, but my point is this: If you move on, the pain you're feeling now WILL go away.