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sweboy
04-21-2009, 03:49 PM
Good online communities die primarily by refusing to defend themselves.

Somewhere in the vastness of the Internet, it is happening even now. It was once a well-kept garden of intelligent discussion, where knowledgeable and interested folk came, attracted by the high quality of speech they saw ongoing. But into this garden comes a fool, and the level of discussion drops a little - or more than a little, if the fool is very prolific in their posting. (It is worse if the fool is just articulate enough that the former inhabitants of the garden feel obliged to respond, and correct misapprehensions - for then the fool dominates conversations.)

So the garden is tainted now, and it is less fun to play in; the old inhabitants, already invested there, will stay, but they are that much less likely to attract new blood. Or if there are new members, their quality also has gone down.

Then another fool joins, and the two fools begin talking to each other, and at that point some of the old members, those with the highest standards and the best opportunities elsewhere, leave...

I am old enough to remember the USENET that is forgotten, though I was very young. Unlike the first Internet that died so long ago in the Eternal September, in these days there is always some way to delete unwanted content. We can thank spam for that - so egregious that no one defends it, so prolific that no one can just ignore it, there must be a banhammer somewhere.

But when the fools begin their invasion, some communities think themselves too good to use their banhammer for - gasp! - censorship.

After all - anyone acculturated by academia knows that censorship is a very grave sin... in their walled gardens where it costs thousands and thousands of dollars to enter, and students fear their professors' grading, and heaven forbid the janitors should speak up in the middle of a colloquium.

It is easy to be naive about the evils of censorship when you already live in a carefully kept garden. Just like it is easy to be naive about the universal virtue of unconditional nonviolent pacifism, when your country already has armed soldiers on the borders, and your city already has police. It costs you nothing to be righteous, so long as the police stay on their jobs.

The thing about online communities, though, is that you can't rely on the police ignoring you and staying on the job; the community actually pays the price of its virtuousness.

In the beginning, while the community is still thriving, censorship seems like a terrible and unnecessary imposition. Things are still going fine. It's just one fool, and if we can't tolerate just one fool, well, we must not be very tolerant. Perhaps the fool will give up and go away, without any need of censorship. And if the whole community has become just that much less fun to be a part of... mere fun doesn't seem like a good justification for (gasp!) censorship, any more than disliking someone's looks seems like a good reason to punch them in the nose.

(But joining a community is a strictly voluntary process, and if prospective new members don't like your looks, they won't join in the first place.)

And after all - who will be the censor? Who can possibly be trusted with such power?

Quite a lot of people, probably, in any well-kept garden. But if the garden is even a little divided within itself - if there are factions - if there are people who hang out in the community despite not much trusting the moderator or whoever could potentially wield the banhammer -

(for such internal politics often seem like a matter of far greater import than mere invading barbarians)

- then trying to defend the community is typically depicted as a coup attempt. Who is this one who dares appoint themselves as judge and executioner? Do they think their ownership of the server means they own the people? Own our community? Do they think that control over the source code makes them a god?

I confess, for a while I didn't even understand why communities had such trouble defending themselves - I thought it was pure naivete. It didn't occur to me that it was an egalitarian instinct to prevent chieftains from getting too much power. "None of us are bigger than one another, all of us are men and can fight; I am going to get my arrows", was the saying in one hunter-gatherer tribe whose name I forget. (Because among humans, unlike chimpanzees, weapons are an equalizer - the tribal chieftain seems to be an invention of agriculture, when people can't just walk away any more.)

Maybe it's because I grew up on the Internet in places where there was always a sysop, and so I take for granted that whoever runs the server has certain responsibilities. Maybe I understand on a gut level that the opposite of censorship is not academia but 4chan (which probably still has mechanisms to prevent spam). Maybe because I grew up in that wide open space where the freedom that mattered was the freedom to choose a well-kept garden that you liked and that liked you, as if you actually could find a country with good laws. Maybe because I take it for granted that if you don't like the archwizard, the thing to do is walk away (this did happen to me once, and I did indeed just walk away).

And maybe because I, myself, have often been the one running the server. But I am consistent, usually being first in line to support moderators - even when they're on the other side from me of the internal politics. I know what happens when an online community starts questioning its moderators. Any political enemy I have on a mailing list who's popular enough to be dangerous is probably not someone who would abuse that particular power of censorship, and when they put on their moderator's hat, I vocally support them - they need urging on, not restraining. People who've grown up in academia simply don't realize how strong are the walls of exclusion that keep the trolls out of their lovely garden of "free speech".

Any community that really needs to question its moderators, that really seriously has abusive moderators, is probably not worth saving. But this is more accused than realized, so far as I can see.

In any case the light didn't go on in my head about egalitarian instincts (instincts to prevent leaders from exercising power) killing online communities until just recently. While reading a comment at Sputnik Music, in fact, though I don't recall which one.

But I have seen it happen - over and over, with myself urging the moderators on and supporting them whether they were people I liked or not, and the moderators still not doing enough to prevent the slow decay. Being too humble, doubting themselves an order of magnitude more than I would have doubted them. It was a rationalist hangout, and the third besetting sin of rationalists is underconfidence.

This about the Internet: Anyone can walk in. And anyone can walk out. And so an online community must stay fun to stay alive. Waiting until the last resort of absolute, blatent, undeniable egregiousness - waiting as long as a police officer would wait to open fire - indulging your conscience and the virtues you learned in walled fortresses, waiting until you can be certain you are in the right, and fear no questioning looks - is waiting far too late.

I have seen rationalist communities die because they trusted their moderators too little.

But that was not a karma system, actually.

Here - you must trust yourselves.

A certain quote seems appropriate here: "Don't believe in yourself! Believe that I believe in you!"

Because I really do honestly think that if you want to downvote a comment that seems low-quality... and yet you hesitate, wondering if maybe you're downvoting just because you disagree with the conclusion or dislike the author... feeling nervous that someone watching you might accuse you of groupthink or echo-chamber-ism or (gasp!) censorship... then nine times of ten, I bet, nine times out of ten at least, it is a comment that really is low-quality.

And that is why i say: sweboy for admin 2009.

ikikdababy
04-21-2009, 06:03 PM
I approve this message...


Except for the last bit.


Primarily, I approve users supporting me.

ikikdababy
04-21-2009, 06:27 PM
With sweboy's faith, I managed to delete some spam from this thread. Thank you, sweboy. I've conquered my fear of censorship.

telemore
04-21-2009, 06:30 PM
tldr

GorgeousGabe
04-21-2009, 07:00 PM
This is basically how I feel about the darkies and beaners in America. Get the weeds out of my garden.

If you will get the darkies out of my country then sure you can be mod, you've got my vote.

Well you also have my vote because you are funny and you bust balls but you're not an asshole. In my mind, anyone with such a disposition who has the drive to be a moderator on a forum should get their cookie

RouteOne
04-21-2009, 08:21 PM
Go sweboy go!

Already_Taken
04-21-2009, 08:40 PM
asking to become a mod is like chopping your own balls off.

go sweboy!

RouteOne
04-21-2009, 08:46 PM
swe you'd be the chillest mod ever but can we work out a deal so that I can get a position in your cabinet??????????????????????????????????????????? ????

Mr. Ron & Sons Inc. are willing to donate....

sweboy
04-22-2009, 06:12 AM
you can soon read this essay on amazon kindle™

Panopticon
04-22-2009, 06:18 AM
i can't believe i actually read that whole thing.

semi
04-22-2009, 06:26 AM
i dont really agree with some of it so much and having a couple of idiots isnt so bad and the community can just deal with them without needing bans. theres no need to overmoderate really and dealing with dumb nubs can be fun.
Who is this one who dares appoint themselves as judge and executioner? Do they think their ownership of the server means they own the people? Own our community? Do they think that control over the source code makes them a god?tru
the community owns the site not the owner of the server
this is why i am a man of the people not a nazi mod like some corrupt modernators

i agree with the very last bit the most
sweboy for admin 2009

horseypie
04-22-2009, 06:43 AM
This about the Internet: Anyone can walk in. And anyone can walk out.

one does not simply walk into the Internet

(*The Noonward Race*)
04-22-2009, 07:02 AM
this is obviously copypasta

nevertheless its amazing how much nothing whoever wrote this was able to fit into so many lines

guitarded_chuck
04-22-2009, 09:16 AM
I agree, this forum needs to ban more often. Sweboy would be a good mod methinks but hey I don't know if (more or less) asking for it is the best idea.

ridethelib
04-22-2009, 09:25 AM
/signed in support of swebuoi

ridethelib
04-22-2009, 09:37 AM
I ignore half of all noonward posts by default that post fell into that half

kitsch
04-22-2009, 10:37 AM
this is obviously copypasta

nevertheless its amazing how much nothing whoever wrote this was able to fit into so many lines

thats the first post ive read from you that actually made sense.

however, i disagree.

sweboy rulez!

ANDYTHENEVERSTOPPINGMACHINE
04-22-2009, 12:06 PM
um

http://lesswrong.com/lw/c1/wellkept_gardens_die_by_pacifism/

semi
04-22-2009, 12:23 PM
yes ok geniuses we all know its copypasta no one actually thought sweboy wrote this

ridethelib
04-22-2009, 12:26 PM
jeez guys why do you have to do this to sweboy

mph4ever
04-22-2009, 12:28 PM
from what i have seen of sweboy in my short time here then i would have said that sweboy would be more than capable of such an observation and that sweboy is probably reluctant to post because the quality of sweboy's posts is diluted by all the crap posts that follow just like this one

ANDYTHENEVERSTOPPINGMACHINE
04-22-2009, 12:51 PM
mph4ever you are among the worst posters js

mph4ever
04-22-2009, 12:54 PM
mph4ever you are among the worst posters js

thanks. really appreciate it, made my day, at last you didn't say ever.

dickhead

ANDYTHENEVERSTOPPINGMACHINE
04-22-2009, 01:06 PM
at last you didn't say ever.


what does that mean

mph4ever
04-22-2009, 01:07 PM
go figure, dope

ANDYTHENEVERSTOPPINGMACHINE
04-22-2009, 01:10 PM
i suppose you can't spell "never" without "ever" which you need to spell "andytheneverstoppingmachine" :confused:

sweboy
04-22-2009, 01:11 PM
stop fighting ok!!! ):

mph4ever
04-22-2009, 01:15 PM
i suppose you can't spell "never" without "ever" which you need to spell "andytheneverstoppingmachine" :confused:

obviously context is beyond you, now stay out of the sandbox for half an hour

Already_Taken
04-22-2009, 01:16 PM
mph i'd definitely say you're in or above the 65th percentile of good posts on here don't listen to the hatas

mph4ever
04-22-2009, 01:18 PM
mph i'd definitely say you're in or above the 65th percentile of good posts on here don't listen to the hatas

you know, if anyone else had of said that it might have meant something, but thanks anyways

ridethelib
04-22-2009, 01:20 PM
lol

Already_Taken
04-22-2009, 01:22 PM
you know, if anyone else had of said that it might have meant something, but thanks anyways

you're a swell guy. thanks pal

ANDYTHENEVERSTOPPINGMACHINE
04-22-2009, 01:28 PM
stop fighting ok!!! ):

psh more like swegirl

Already_Taken
04-22-2009, 01:29 PM
oh this thread is angry why am i in here WHYTYYYY

mph4ever
04-22-2009, 01:50 PM
you're a swell guy. thanks pal

glad we understand each other :chug:

(*The Noonward Race*)
04-22-2009, 02:00 PM
thats the first post ive read from you that actually made sense.

however, i disagree.

sweboy rulez!of course, sweboy is the best and what i mean is that he's definitely not as dumb as this post


monkeys cows dogs purple

Klown
04-22-2009, 02:12 PM
*fart*

(*The Noonward Race*)
04-22-2009, 02:14 PM
you know, if anyone else had of said that it might have meant something, but thanks anyways
lol

sweboy
04-22-2009, 02:34 PM
i just want to say that i am course taking that guy plagiarizing me very seriously, and that my people are currently working full time to resolve this

thank u this has been sweboy

ANDYTHENEVERSTOPPINGMACHINE
04-22-2009, 02:35 PM
swegirl did you notice me calling you swegirl

guitarded_chuck
04-22-2009, 02:36 PM
this is blasphemy

ridethelib
04-22-2009, 02:36 PM
We don't talk to sweboy in such manners.

(*The Noonward Race*)
04-22-2009, 02:37 PM
swegirl did you notice me calling you swegirl
oshi son

sweboy
04-22-2009, 02:37 PM
swegirl did you notice me calling you swegirl

i was strangely aroused and felt a feeling of security

wartomods
04-22-2009, 02:38 PM
you let me down sweboy, thats not the spirit

GorgeousGabe
04-22-2009, 03:02 PM
sweboy can you change my avatar to a bigger than normally allowed picture of a girl's bosoms?

(*The Noonward Race*)
04-22-2009, 03:04 PM
let me get that message to him asap gabve

hey sweboy gabe said something^

sweboy
04-22-2009, 03:08 PM
thx noon it is noted

GorgeousGabe
04-22-2009, 03:13 PM
we can get big boobie pictures for everyone

and change the name from mx, to msex

sweboy for mod yayaya!

sweboy
04-22-2009, 03:27 PM
hear me gabe, i will not, change the name from mx to msex

GorgeousGabe
04-22-2009, 03:31 PM
I come off that way. being a fag is different from being gay

GorgeousGabe
04-22-2009, 03:45 PM
well for one they are icky, and for two they tend to give terrible head

horseypie
04-22-2009, 03:46 PM
gays would give the best head because they know what guys like
jeez

(*The Noonward Race*)
04-22-2009, 03:47 PM
gays wud give vbad head cuz they have no head cuz they have no vbrains cuz theyre cgay and stuff

Already_Taken
04-22-2009, 03:49 PM
yeah it just might be hard to keep an erection with stubble scraping down the top of your dick.


or is that just me?

GorgeousGabe
04-22-2009, 03:50 PM
^ ^ ^ ^ ^ it's like you have gotten head from the same gays I have gotten head from, uno exactly what I'm talking about

Already_Taken
04-22-2009, 03:52 PM
no my imagination is just vivid and realistic

Already_Taken
04-22-2009, 03:57 PM
sorry i'm not well versed in the art of letting homos suck on my dick. i wasn't too worried tho, cause i knew you'd be lurking here like always

(*The Noonward Race*)
04-22-2009, 03:57 PM
im lurking here like always too dont forget

sweboy
04-22-2009, 04:03 PM
noonward's always lurking

waiting to suck yo dick

(*The Noonward Race*)
04-22-2009, 04:05 PM
swe you are always there 4 me

setting the record completely straight

sweboy
04-22-2009, 04:06 PM
no homo

(*The Noonward Race*)
04-22-2009, 04:07 PM
/signed

enemytopublic2
04-22-2009, 04:29 PM
yes ok geniuses we all know its copypasta no one actually thought sweboy wrote this

i like to think that underneath sweboys silly swedish exterior, lies a sophisticated young man capable of anything he sets his mind to.

GorgeousGabe
04-22-2009, 06:23 PM
like suckin ma thang

(*The Noonward Race*)
04-22-2009, 08:20 PM
i like to think that underneath sweboys silly swedish exterior, lies a sophisticated young man capable of anything he sets his mind to.
i just can't get over his incredibly dense accent and manner of dress

sweboy
04-23-2009, 09:42 AM
noonz bro that's pretty racist or something

ridethelib
04-23-2009, 12:18 PM
like when i came on ur face

sweboy
04-23-2009, 12:45 PM
guys do you have to gross it up

semi
04-23-2009, 12:50 PM
sweboy i have a question

sweboy
04-23-2009, 12:59 PM
ok.

semi
04-23-2009, 01:00 PM
do you want it then?

ANDYTHENEVERSTOPPINGMACHINE
04-23-2009, 03:00 PM
swegirl how u feelin bby

sweboy
04-23-2009, 03:12 PM
fine thx, im feelin finedo you want it then?

if you want to give it to me then i want to recieve it from you

ikikdababy
04-23-2009, 03:39 PM
is it safe?

semi
04-23-2009, 04:07 PM
its about cheesegraters

sweboy
04-23-2009, 04:13 PM
oh goddd

semi
04-23-2009, 04:15 PM
is it true you guys invented them?

semi
04-23-2009, 04:15 PM
its ok you can tell me your viking secrets

RouteOne
04-23-2009, 04:18 PM
Odin will certainly have a say about this


!

sweboy
04-23-2009, 04:28 PM
no comments

semi
04-23-2009, 04:30 PM
: C

RouteOne
04-23-2009, 04:31 PM
:< ?

semi
04-23-2009, 04:31 PM
:<‪

semi
04-23-2009, 04:32 PM
come on man dont be a dick

sweboy
04-23-2009, 04:38 PM
i have said too much already

RouteOne
04-23-2009, 04:39 PM
its ok sweboy, I totally understand if you're a 'fraidy-cat........

sweboy
04-23-2009, 04:47 PM
what's that

what did he just say

RouteOne
04-23-2009, 04:53 PM
ya'll heard me

(*The Noonward Race*)
04-23-2009, 04:54 PM
huh ron what are you serious? seriously? on this forum!?

RouteOne
04-23-2009, 04:55 PM
Sometimes risks need to be taken, j-slice

(*The Noonward Race*)
04-23-2009, 04:56 PM
hmmm i will let this go where it may fam, r-bomb i trust you

Puma
04-23-2009, 05:03 PM
It's not very often where my post is the MOST productive one on a page!

(*The Noonward Race*)
04-23-2009, 05:05 PM
yeah it only happens when you're on a new page alone

Puma
04-23-2009, 05:08 PM
It's actually less true, given the circumstances. A valiant effort, though. =(

(*The Noonward Race*)
04-23-2009, 05:09 PM
right

Puma
04-23-2009, 05:11 PM
You know it's the truth.

(*The Noonward Race*)
04-23-2009, 05:11 PM
at one point



it wasn't. and now it's debatable

depending if id like to consider my posts productive or not

ill sleep on it

Puma
04-23-2009, 05:13 PM
It's definitely debatable now. But it was true. Don't take this away from me.

(*The Noonward Race*)
04-23-2009, 05:14 PM
my dreams will give me the answer

they always do


thats why i sleep through all my exams

Puma
04-23-2009, 05:15 PM
Lucky. My dreams always turn out to be a lot like the Neverending Story.

Or Spirited Away.

Or Cars! =D

hismajestythepope
04-23-2009, 05:16 PM
tldr

yep

sweboy
04-24-2009, 10:24 AM
</3 mappy